frozen70:


This will not work because she will be tagged a thief besides she doesn't know where she kept it

What she needs is a polite approach

Ask for it as if she wants to admire it and take it from there, simple

Let heaven fall, it's her property

MrBrownJay1:


- he saw nothing wrong with giving the MOST VALUABLE GIFT HIS WIFE RECEIVED (to his mother) without even telling his wife about it?!
- he gave the gift to his mother as if it came "from him" (how selfish of him)
- he then said he cant get it back because it would be "a shame", yet he saw nothing shameful about taking stealing the jewelry from his wife?!

does that make any sense to you?!

as Ishilove stated above, if he cant pay back then she should therefore take his most valuable possession and give it to her father.

OutsideTheBox:
How will she collect it back? Going to the MIL'S house and sneaking to her bedroom to ransack the place for the jewelry without being caught is risky. They will label her a thief is she's caught, even if she explains that it is actually hers. The husband who took the jewelry without her knowledge and who didn't bother to tell her then (which is quite deceitful) or since (which is even more deceitful) is at fault and should fix the wahala he has caused. He, not OP, should be the one to retrieve it back from his mother, OR he could simply pay OP its cost to compensate for it. If he's a good husband he will apologize and then do the right thing.

lilyheaven:

It’s not hidden.
It’s in her box of jewelry.
She will inform her son , that his wife came and stole the jewelry he bought for her.
Son will reply “ mama I’m sorry, I stole it from my wife, forgive me

frozen70:
That her husband is living in his mother's world

MrBrownJay1:


possibly, but we ALL know he did something completely wrong, even he himself knows it.... because if he believed what he did was "right", he would have just said NO when wifey asked to get the jewelry back.

frozen70:
Pride will not allow him accept it as being bad

MrBrownJay1:


PRIDE should therefore have him dig in his pocket and repay his wife, before she does something that will bring 100times more shame on top his matter.

trying to please your mother at the expense of your wife, is certainly NOT a good move.

GboyegaD:
Since you want people to be at your side, quick go get a gun and go face her that she has your asset with her. If fun is not enough then use jazz.

Now in reality, there isn't much you can do. Talk to your husband and see if he can at least pay you back for your asset. Don't soil your name because it will be tagged stealing since your husband offered it to his mom as a gift. This is a learning point for you and going forward, keep your valuables away from where he would be able to reach out before he gives out the remaining.

Lastly, you are free to insult me if my advice doesn't make sense to you.

JovialJune:
Straight to the point


I came back from L.A in January this year after giving birth to my triple blessings, I got lots of gifts and some valuable ones, the most valuable of all was a complete set of jewelry worth thousands of dollars, when I got back to the country, I gave my family and Hubby's family things I got for them, gave my mum and his mum what they specifically asked for and more, all for me to find out afterwards that my expensive jewelry is missing, I was not happy, I actually thought it was stolen from my luggage by those nuisances at the airport, for weeks I was sad because that jewelry was worth millions in naira, it was an asset and investment to me, and coupled the way these country is going, dollars will continue to rise cos this government ehn.....


Fast forward today, my sister-in-law did naming ceremony for her newborn, all for me to get there and see my husband's mother wearing my missing jewelry, I was beyond shocked, the bitter taste in my mouth, how the hell did she have it on her? I was fuming all over till I got back home, I asked hubby how she had on my jewelry, he said he gave her because he needed to give her something that came from him, my eyes turned red, I couldn't cry, I couldn't hold the rage I felt and I shouted at him to go get it back to me, he said he can't, it will be a shame to collect it back, I told him he must it back, he stole it from me, we've been shouting at each other ever since, I had to lock myself in a room so that it won't turn to a fist fight,

I've been thinking of ways to steal it back cos that's the only way I can get it without her knowing, and I will definitely steal it back, I need all the assets I can lay my hands on cos naija is not smiling lately, my husband stole it from me, very heartless human, he knows how i almost cried when i couldnt find it, so pls i need different ways i can get it back without him and his mum knowing,

P.S anyone that wants to advice should pls hold it, I don't need advice from holy people preaching that it's material things, I should let go bla bla bla, we are all in this world in this world to possess what the world can offer, and I dey get my own small small, so shove your advice, if it was my mum I would have collected it since, in fact, she wouldn't take it without my knowledge, and I value and place she and my mum on the same level cos she can give birth to me,

So ways to steal it back from her pls, thank you.

IamRichards:
So Jovialjune,has the robbery been executed successfully?

shilz:
Your husband should tell his mum he wants to exchange the Jewelry with a better quality,if she releases it he has to find a way to get a new set for her.

JovialJune:



The price tag of that jewelry will never make her release it to anyone.

GboyegaD:
Since you want people to be at your side, quick go get a gun and go face her that she has your asset with her. If fun is not enough then use jazz.

Now in reality, there isn't much you can do. Talk to your husband and see if he can at least pay you back for your asset. Don't soil your name because it will be tagged stealing since your husband offered it to his mom as a gift. This is a learning point for you and going forward, keep your valuables away from where he would be able to reach out before he gives out the remaining.

Lastly, you are free to insult me if my advice doesn't make sense to you.

sisisioge:
But your husband would know you stole if it goes missing...kukuma tell mama you like it, she should dash you. I hope she's kind enough to oblige

MJBOLT:

you need 3 things to steal that jewelry back,a gun,a mask and a hardened mind.


Good luck

MrBrownJay1:
forget stealing.... your husband should simply repay you the value of the jewelry EOD!

frozen70:


No matter how she steals it back, she will still wear it to the glaring of the family

Her mother inlaw wasn't the one that stole it but her husband stole from her to please his mother

Who does that ⁉️

Unnerve:
I can't believe people are actually telling her to steal the jewellery

No wait, I'm not surprised...

shilz:
even her son who bought it for her?

JovialJune:
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Are you married? If yes, what will be your reaction if your gives her father your most valued asset without your knowledge?

GboyegaD:


I don't have a most treasured asset and I don't care too much about things money can buy.

Did the husband act right? No, he didn't because he stole. However, her approach of trying to steal it back doesn't make her right either.

JovialJune:



He wouldn't buy the exact worth of that jewelry.

JovialJune:



The plan was to steal it and never wear it, I'll keep it in a safe.

JovialJune:



I am the "her", so what makes it right? Even as he has paid me in cash, I will always have disdain for him and his mum for what he did, and he knows this, I just pray one day I won't mistakenly blurt it out in her presence.

bukatyne:


This is interesting.

You want to steal the jewelry and keep it in a safe.

Well, like I would say, 'don't use a problem to solve a problem.'

The strategy you deploy in a marriage that would end soon is different from the strategy you employ in a marriage you work towards lasting forever.

So think of your long-term marriage goals and act accordingly.

frostylook:

She didn't know what went down, so how did she earn disdain as well? Your husband started it and ended it too.

shilz:
is his mum aware the jeweries are yours?