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Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by isram: 3:19pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
When u make law from everything in ur religion why wont she? Maybe another man across the border has taught her something you dont know, sex is not just about pounding 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by Nobody: 3:19pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
Esji80: While it is necessary that the notion that polyandry is archaic and evil should be dismantled and eroded. A new form of extremism has entered our scape—men must marry more than one wife even if they are not capable. You would even find in a gathering where the men drink and still find it hard to keep up with solah, the imam preaching mathna. Back in Ilorin, a particular brother who brands himself "salafi konko" used to refer to people with one wife as "ore pastor". It's so sad that these people have taken the frontiers of Ahlussunah and Manhaj of salafiyyah. 3 Likes |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by Mkayfrenzy(m): 4:08pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
Guy forget, them don dey service your wife better kponran outside. She's just feeling guilty It's not everything you associate with jinn. Trust me there's is 80% chance that she just started having an extramarital affair. |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by Abdunzhaleel: 4:31pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
womenareapes:No! I'll rather give my life to Allah and follow the call to monotheisms that jesus himself called to as he is nothing but a messenger and a righteous servant of Allah and he himself affirmed it in both scriptures. check this out! John 17:3 ESV / 15 h And this is eternal life, that they know you the only true God, and Jesus Christ "whom you have sent." As-Saf 61:6 وَإِذْ قَالَ عِيسَى ٱبْنُ مَرْيَمَ يَٰبَنِىٓ إِسْرَٰٓءِيلَ إِنِّى رَسُولُ ٱللَّهِ إِلَيْكُم مُّصَدِّقًا لِّمَا بَيْنَ يَدَىَّ مِنَ ٱلتَّوْرَىٰةِ وَمُبَشِّرًۢا بِرَسُولٍ يَأْتِى مِنۢ بَعْدِى ٱسْمُهُۥٓ أَحْمَدُۖ فَلَمَّا جَآءَهُم بِٱلْبَيِّنَٰتِ قَالُوا۟ هَٰذَا سِحْرٌ مُّبِينٌ And [mention] when Jesus, the son of Mary, said, "O children of Israel, indeed "I am the messenger of Allah" to you confirming what came before me of the Torah and bringing good tidings of a messenger to come after me, whose name is Ahmad." But when he came to them with clear evidences, they said, "This is obvious magic." |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by olamighty100: 4:53pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
I can understand your stress..! smth like this do happen, it's not about been sexually unsatisfied or circurmstition. since you have discussed with her and she refused to open up. it is better you recite ruqya for her because it is possible she has been possessed by jinn and if that one didn't work, meet her family and explain the issue so they assist u. |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by Wfsholla90(m): 5:45pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
Masha Allah, i love you lilah the fact that you speak with hujah makes me love you more saheedbadmus: 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by Bimpe29: 6:39pm On Aug 21, 2020 |
I think this is not ordinary. Even women that doesn't menstruate any longer do have sexual urge/feelings. However, you are advised to engage her on the importance of sex in marriage, consult either her parents and/or marriage counselor. Ultimately, you may need to consider marrying a second wife in order for you not to become a cheat/adulterer. |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by Nobody: 12:56am On Aug 22, 2020 |
nahzyla: You just said my mind ....I don't know what most guys thinks... Getting married to another wife because she's not active at the moment is selfish interest... What of if the second wife is not sexually active too? 2 Likes |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by Nobody: 1:13am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Ajengogo: To me there's no jinn whatsoever disturbing your wife as people claim ... Also, circumcised women too enjoy sex The thing is your wife sudden lost of sex is YOU First, having sex in marriage comes from the mind ...you might have offended her, and she's still not happy with you Secondly, do you still make her feel loved? do you still buy stuffs for her like when you just met ? Do you still surprise her with gift? Do you still tell her you love her? Do you still kiss her unexpectedly? Do you pre-intimacy before sex? Do you give her money when she does not ask? Most husband are guilty of this...after marriage they feel there's no need ....the truth is, some women love to be pampered.. Improve on your relationship with her, make her happy and lastly pray together... Don't mind people suggesting you have a second wife....it doesn't worth it Improve on yourself May Al mighty Allah preserve your marriage from guilt and destruction (amen). 1 Like |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by ifeolamide00(m): 2:04am On Aug 22, 2020 |
She's obviously not telling you something! Maybe you are doing something wrong? Or you are not doing it the way she wants! I also have heard some women lose their sex will if they have had too much (like a lot) so many things may have caused it if your kind of sex is the selfish type where you only enjoy your bit and get off, she may be doing it with you for those years just for the child birth, you might need to bring something different into the play, during sex both of you should have fun 2 Likes |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by LCevent: 4:21am On Aug 22, 2020 |
Ajengogo: WA alaykum salaam! 1) Prior to now, where you really satisfying are sexually? Be sincere and retrospective! 2) Make are happy as much as you can, buy her gifts, take her out, go for holiday..... Just take her away to some private and see if there is a change.... 3) If 2, does not work, talk to her Mum, she will definitely open up to her Mum and am sure you'll get it sorted! 2 Likes |
Re: A Submissive Muslim Wife Suddenly Lost Interest In Sexual Intercourse by Lambarry1: 6:28am On Aug 22, 2020 |
All African man is concerned is about sex and worshipping his wife's body. As long as African man is getting sex every night nothing else matters. After 11 years of daily sex, womans eyes are open and realizes there is more to life than the importance of sex African men have sloganised and idolised. 1 Like |
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