Hii

frankkydee:
I need a wife not a slot or a burden and not a catastrophe

I reside in Lagos But I am from Ogun state

If that's how you seek for a wife, then no wonder you only find sluts OR liabilities... Here is a clue: if good women/wives were "that" easy to find, then all single men would be married right now.

frankkydee:


So what's your proposition pls?

A) work on yourself, better yourself...
because if you are that desperate to come on NL and seek for a wife, then I can assume that you cannot meet good women in real life, and sadly, the problem will generally be YOU..so upgrade yourself.

B) understand what you are up against...
The majority of men in Nigeria are looking for good women to marry, so unless you are ahead of the rest, chances are you will always have to settle for the leftovers/undercover oloshos or just good for nothing liabilities.

C) change your environment...
To meet different women, you have to change your social environment, hang out in different social setting OR different neighborhoods, change your normal routine, in order to possibly meet different women. If you go to the same old places, expecting to meet different women then it won't work.

D) master social media...
If you want to go online (like NL) to seek for a good woman then you have to describe yourself (height/complexion/education/religion/hobbies etc), then focus on your good characteristics aka make women reading your post be interested to know you.... ALSO describe the type of woman that you are looking for etc...because if you are just looking for ANY "good" woman to marry, then you will sound highly desperate. A photo of yourself would also help.

E) always be positive but don't expect too much...
Don't expect that it's going to be an easy walk in the park and just enjoy the adventure, and if a good woman comes along then take it as a bonus