Honestly I don't understand. Why do most men see s.e-x as a form of appreciation? They help you submit your CV, get you a job, help you submit a business proposal, give you a ride, dash you money, generally render help, they want s.e-.x appreciation. Even if they're clergymen, Elderly, married, about to we'd, DGs, Directors etc it doesn't stop them.
Why?
To me, I believe there're so many ways we can pay back, but the idea of putting us in a tight corner to offer our appreciation, is not good enough.
So, men why do you do that?
Do women do the same to you?

Op,if women offer intimacy,do many of them expect the man to reward them materially?Be honest.

"Thank you" is enough.any appreciation shown in cash and sex..becomes transactional.

thorpido:
Op,if women offer intimacy,do many of them expect the man to reward them materially?Be honest.

Offer Se.-x in what context? As your partner or as a strange?
Not all women that offer se,-x do it for money.

donbachi:
"Thank you" is enough.any appreciation shown in cash and sex..becomes transactional.

That's it.

Mbdovey:
Offer Se.-x in what context? As your partner or as a strange?
Not all women that offer se,-x do it for money.

Offer sex to get 'something'....get a job,win a contract,get a promotion.etc The same way some men give favours for sex is the same way some women give sex for favours.

Not all men also want sex after doing favours

Mbdovey:
Honestly I don't understand. Why do most men see s.e-x as a form of appreciation? They help you submit your CV, get you a job, help you submit a business proposal, give you a ride, dash you money, generally render help, they want s.e-.x appreciation. Even if they're clergymen, Elderly, married, about to we'd, DGs, Directors etc it doesn't stop them.
Why?
To me, I believe there're so many ways we can pay back, but the idea of putting us in a tight corner to offer our appreciation, is not good enough.
So, men why do you do that?
Do women do the same to you?

Those people you give your CV to are dogs.

Stop seeking help from dogs!!!

There's always a room to say no, I don't need the ride.. no I will submit the CV myself.. no the Lord is my shepherd therefore I will lack no job ..or I will find one for myself..

Every woman has the choice to say no I am a strong independent woman therefore I don't need the favour that will lead to "sexual gratification". . Therefore thanks but no thanks because I got this.

OP no one is pushing anyone to a tight corner.. In life U make various kinds of choice.. if the opportunity cost outweighs the choice u have made, u got no one to blame for it...

U don't expect a man who is not your father, brother or uncle to give you money. Day in day out.. u needed sanitary pad, u rushed to him, u needed to buy airtime, u rush to him.. the clothes u were wearing was him.. and u expect nothing from him in return.. haba!!

naso i help one lady get job.
the next thing na full vocal green light to pant.
maybe her own way of showing appreciation, but i turned her down.

this has happened with two separate ladies.

decatalyst:


Those people you give your CV to are dogs.

Stop seeking help from dogs!!!

How do you know dogs?

Richy4:
There's always a room to say no, I don't need the ride.. no I will submit the CV myself.. no the Lord is my shepherd therefore I will lack no job ..or I will find one for myself..

Every woman has the choice to say no I am a strong independent woman therefore I don't need the favour that will lead to "sexual gratification". . Therefore thanks but no thanks because I got this.

OP no one is pushing anyone to a tight corner.. In life U make various kinds of choice.. if the opportunity cost outweighs the choice u have made, u got no one to blame for it...

U don't expect a man who is not your father, brother or uncle to give you money. Day in day out.. u needed sanitary pad, u rushed to him, u needed to buy airtime, u rush to him.. the clothes u were wearing was him.. and u expect nothing from him in return.. haba!!

The whole post 100%

The bold, Gbam!

Stereotype is a crime, stop it stop it now. Not all men.

Mbdovey:
Honestly I don't understand. Why do most men see s.e-x as a form of appreciation? They help you submit your CV, get you a job, help you submit a business proposal, give you a ride, dash you money, generally render help, they want s.e-.x appreciation. Even if they're clergymen, Elderly, married, about to we'd, DGs, Directors etc it doesn't stop them.
Why?
To me, I believe there're so many ways we can pay back, but the idea of putting us in a tight corner to offer our appreciation, is not good enough.
So, men why do you do that?
Do women do the same to you?

But come here fess, lemme ask you something...

Why is it that you people don't like to ask for these kinds of help from your fellow womenss dem?
Must it be from men?

sirjamesjnr:
Stereotype is a crime, stop it stop it now. Not all men.

Majority

very silly people,just because I asked one i met here to help me do something related to my project topic at ibadan,he no let me rest again,oya kuku forget about the help,he no gree,they act as if they will die without sex

crackhaus:

But come here fess, lemme ask you something...

Why is it that you people don't like to ask for these kinds of help from your fellow womenss dem?
Must it be from men?

Hmmmmmm mm.
It's obvious, you're in full support.

Mbdovey:
Hmmmmmm mm.
It's obvious, you're in full support.

Well if this what you interpreted from my comment, no wahala... Lol

But still answer the questions, nor vex
Why don't you people ever ask these favours from women like yourself who will probably never require sex from you?

Why must it be from men?

Richy4:
There's always a room to say no, I don't need the ride.. no I will submit the CV myself.. no the Lord is my shepherd therefore I will lack no job ..or I will find one for myself..

Every woman has the choice to say no I am a strong independent woman therefore I don't need the favour that will lead to "sexual gratification". . Therefore thanks but no thanks because I got this.

OP no one is pushing anyone to a tight corner.. In life U make various kinds of choice.. if the opportunity cost outweighs the choice u have made, u got no one to blame for it...

U don't expect a man who is not your father, brother or uncle to give you money. Day in day out.. u needed sanitary pad, u rushed to him, u needed to buy airtime, u rush to him.. the clothes u were wearing was him.. and u expect nothing from him in return.. haba!!

Don't you know a man has to be a gentleman and give of himself freely to any woman who requires his help?
Men owe these things to women.

Lol... I swear down, most of these ladies are entitled AF. Damnnn!

crackhaus:

Don't you know a man has to be a gentleman and give of himself freely to any woman who requires his help?
Men owe these things to women

Lol... I swear down, most of these ladies are entitled AF. Damnnn!

.

crackhaus:

Well if this what you interpreted from my comment, no wahala... Lol

But still answer the questions, nor vex
Why don't you people ever ask these favours from women like yourself who will probably never require sex from you?

Why must it be from men?

I can't go into details right now, but you and I knows men are more in position than women.
Moreover, so many of you willingly offer to help even without asking you to, but why don't you people render that help without expecting intimacy back?

sirjamesjnr:
Stereotype is a crime, stop it stop it now. Not all men.

Not all, not all. Is the same word I've been hearing, but where exactly are those one who don't? Maybe they're not in This country.

Mbdovey:
I can't go into details right now, but you and I knows men are more in position than women.
Moreover, so many of you willingly offer to help even without asking you to, but why don't you people render that help without expecting intimacy back?

Please be refusing it now that you know it comes with conditions.

This should not be too hard.

IT'S VICE VERSA, WHAT ABOUT WOMEN WHO THINK OF NOTHING ELSE TO OFFER YOU FOR DOING THEM A FAVOUR OTHER THAN SE-X?