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You're funny oh

Openbusiness:
You're funny oh

It looks like joke??

DenreleDave:


It looks like joke??

Yes, a serious joke, especially this part.

It really hurts, I'm on bed now and a friend is calling me dt she can't get a place to sleep, it tickles me so hard

Are you married?

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DenreleDave:
Gat a lady frnd ehnn, having accommodation issue... Although recently a guy wanted to help her but you guys know na, the guy wan dey chop am too.....

She is not even a nairalander, I don't know if there is any lady here that can help take in a fellow lady... She is of good behavior....

It is just pathetic... Where she squat, she cudnt sleep there tonight Cox they are much and she just called now dt she does not av a place to sleep.... Would have loved to help but I stay on mainland with my bro, so it's nt really gonna be possible like dt...

It really hurts, I'm on bed now and a friend is calling me dt she can't get a place to sleep, it tickles me so hard..

Anyone on the island or mainland here in Lagos that can help take in a female friend.... Incase anyone is ready to help, we can show up together so that we can work things out.. She is not bouyant to rent a space now, not bouyant at all...

So I will be glad if anyone be it ladies or guys (without no condition that you will take advantage of her Cox she is living in with you) can help..... She is also keen on getting a job so she can save up quick to get her place...

Infact she doesn't know I am doing this and she can never come across this coz she isn't a nairalander... Incase you need her contact, it wud have to be private.


I appeal to all nairalanders... I really appeal...

Send her back to wherever she came from so she can go get a job and take care of herself.... You obviously are not capable.

I will never allow strangers in the name of HELP.

DenreleDave:

I'm not married oo

Ok, are you cohabitating with your girlfriend / fiancee etc?

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Ladylite:


Send her back to wherever she came from so she can go get a job and take care of herself.... You obviously are not capable.

I will never allow strangers in the name of HELP.

I understand u sha.. I'm on the mainland, she is on the island.. So tiring

But if we only say we wunt make friends with strangers, we make likely remain with family alone..

Strangers become frnds....

DenreleDave:


My younger bro and I stay together

Ok. Same bed + same room or different beds + same room or different beds + different room?

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So u changed ur moniker to male nw cos u dont want people to ask u dat ure a female so y cant u help her instead abi....some people sha

DenreleDave:


just a single room... Same bed of coz...

He is my bro na.. Same same

Ok, the picture is clearer now. You're not in a position to accommodate her temporarily. Because as a close friend that you depict her to be, and due to compatibility issues, I was of the opinion that you're in the best position to assist your friend. But I see why you can't do it now.

It is just so pitiful and sumtin else honestly..... Sometimes I wish I never know abt somethings than knowing abt it and unable to ignore it without helping

Openbusiness:
Ok, the picture is clearer now. You're not in a position to accommodate her temporarily. Because as a close friend that you depict her to be, and due to compatibility issues, I was of the opinion that you're in the best position to assist your friend. But I see why you can't do it now.

If it was me alone, I wunt even be here sef.... I wunt let her face those issues she is facing..

Wud av accommodated her in the blink of an eye.....

Don't like to see people go through issues like accommodation.... It is a terrible thing..

I know how it feels Cox I once went tru this... Stings like hell

merieam16:
So u changed ur moniker to male nw cos u dont want people to ask u dat ure a female so y cant u help her instead abi....some people sha

I am a guy jare..... Some nairalander will come here and say I am the one, why am I lying dt it's my frnd...

But you know the Denrele.dave is a guy...
Infact almost every one knows I am a He with two balls

merieam16:
So u changed ur moniker to male nw cos u dont want people to ask u dat ure a female so y cant u help her instead abi....some people sha

what do u mean by this?

See I'm not here to drag anytin..


Check my signature. U will see guy... So pls dont bother me too much With male or female... Pls...

DenreleDave:
It is just so pitiful and sumtin else honestly..... Sometimes I wish I never know abt somethings than knowing abt it and unable to ignore it without helping

But there might still be away out for you, depending on the level of compromise you guys (you, your bro and the girl) are willing to make. If everyone of you can shift ground a bit and get uncomfortable together, then you might be able to fit yourselves in that one room. And since your bro is an acquaintance, he should be able to behave around your guest and not get flirty or involved with her, and you guys can be excusing yourselves whenever you need to change clothes or something. And though I won't suggest that you give up your beds for her, rather I'll suggest she adapt to being rugged temporarily and she either uses a mat or blanket to sleep on the floor or sleep on a long couch if you have any. At least this way, her safety is 100© guaranteed and you don't have to worry

Openbusiness:
But there might still be away out for you, depending on the level of compromise you guys (you, your bro and the girl) are willing to make. If everyone of you can shift ground a bit and get uncomfortable together, then you might be able to fit yourselves in that one room. And since your bro is an acquaintance, he should be able to behave around your guest and not get flirty or involved with her, and you guys can be excusing yourselves whenever you need to change clothes or something. And though I won't suggest that you give up your beds for her, rather I'll suggest she adapt to being rugged temporarily and she either uses a mat or blanket to sleep on the floor or sleep on a long couch if you have any. At least this way, her safety is 100© guaranteed and you don't have to worry

Funny bro.. It is 100% not possible..

My landlady is a renowned area lady... She is madder than anytin in this world.....

Even me sef, by God grace, after service, I will go find a place to rent and stay alone...

My landlady is so mad and brutal....


It's failure b4 submission ..

Anyone that can help a lady frnd. Pls..

It may jst be temporary

You are not serious.

uniqueboi1:
You are not serious.

Ok sir.. Agreed I am not serious..

But mind explaining how sir??

With humility, I want to know how sir?

DenreleDave:


Funny bro.. It is 100% not possible..

My landlady is a renowned area lady... She is madder than anytin in this world.....

Even me sef, by God grace, after service, I will go find a place to rent and stay alone...

My landlady is so mad and brutal....


It's failure b4 submission ..

Then it's a tough nut to crack, even Churches nowadays don't accept people anyhow again into their premises. Otherwise, I would have said she should try a Church. University environment like Unilag / Yabatech etc would have worked for a couple days if school was on but they're closed. So your only viable option is a "good Samaritan". I don't want to probe further as per what led to her situation, but if it were maybe 1 or 2 days or 3 days you were talking about, people might be willing to assist without too much concern, but when it's kind of a prolonged stay, then expect that anyone who wants to help might want to open her file as per getting to know her story as to why she's alone and homeless, cuz I presume she has a family, doesn't she? Another way she can go about it, or you can assist her with is, don't just be asking for a stranger that will accommodate her, that might be a bit difficult or take a long time to happen. Instead, try to solicit for her like anyone that has a job with accomodation available. She might be able to get work within the hospitality/factory/residence job that will give her accomodation. Just a suggestion. Maybe someone else will have better suggestions for you.

Openbusiness:
Then it's a tough nut to crack, even Churches nowadays don't accept people anyhow again into their premises. Otherwise, I would have said she should try a Church. University environment like Unilag / Yabatech etc would have worked for a couple days if school was on but they're closed. So your only viable option is a "good Samaritan". I don't want to probe further as per what led to her situation, but if it were maybe 1 or 2 days or 3 days you were talking about, people might be willing to assist without too much concern, but when it's kind of a prolonged stay, then expect that anyone who wants to help might want to open her file as per getting to know her story as to why she's alone and homeless, cuz I presume she has a family, doesn't she? Another way she can go about it, or you can assist her with is, don't just be asking for a stranger that will accommodate her, that might be a bit difficult or take a long time to happen. Instead, try to solicit for her like anyone that has a job with accomodation available. She might be able to get work within the hospitality/factory/residence job that will give her accomodation. Just a suggestion. Maybe someone else will have better suggestions for you.

U av said it all... Thanks... I appreciate....

Her family are in PH...


I pray God help sha

Nobody here is tackling the "Underlying cause" which is why doesnt she have accomodation in the first place?

DenreleDave:


U av said it all... Thanks... I appreciate....

Her family are in PH...


I pray God help sha

No job, no accommodation.....advise her to go back to her family in PH and while there, be following up leads on getting a job and possible relatives in Lagos.

I still ponder how people still feel comfortable requesting to be housed (when it is not airbnb) by a total stranger in this era of debauchery, missing persons and ritual killings, is it that one's sense of self-preservation has switched off?

:My younger dude and I stay together Ok. while couch + while bathbathbathroom or variety couchs + while bathbathbathroom or variety couchs + variety bathbathbathroom?

DenreleDave:


U av said it all... Thanks... I appreciate....

Her family are in PH...


I pray God help sha

You are not helping that lady. What you are doing here is very dangerous. You are exposing this person and compromising her safety and security.

What was she doing in the past two weeks. When did she come to Lagos? Advice her to go back to her family in PH or wherever they are.

How can you be pleading for a stranger to be accommodated by strangers on Nairaland or any other social media?? This person has no means to sustain herself, no job or any means of livelihood....and it doesn’t occur to you that you are exposing her to the ‘wolves and hyenas’??

You should be asking people to help with jobs not accommodating an unknown person with no verifiable background or most importantly skills.

Tell the young lady to leave Lagos ASAP.

Advice your friend to go back home. How do you expect someone in his/her right senses to allow a stranger to come squat with him/her? Someone I have no idea of her family background, her health history, the people she rolls with or have rolled with etc.. Nigerian Police no dey hear, oga na help, I help her o!

Mindlog:


No job, no accommodation.....advise her to go back to her family in PH and while there, be following up leads on getting a job and possible relatives in Lagos.

I still ponder how people still feel comfortable requesting to be housed (when it is not airbnb) by a total stranger in this era of debauchery, missing persons and ritual killings, is it that one's sense of self-preservation has switched off?

My dear, haven't u seen how people open their mouth wide on every thread to tell vulnerable people without job to go out there and hustle.. without asking how..

This is part of it... exposing themselves to danger.. I always feel like killing people that usually said that.. maybe she/people like her has heard that countless times and she threw caution to the wind..I'm holding my breath reading what this friend is trying to do despite he wants the best for the lady..

I have a house in Chevy view estate I’ll ask my girlfriend if she would be ok with a stranger but on the condition that she’ll clean my house and compound every morning

KosiGee:



You are not helping that lady. What you are doing here is very dangerous. You are exposing this person and compromising her safety and security.

What was she doing in the past two weeks. When did she come to Lagos? Advice her to go back to her family in PH or wherever they are.

How can you be pleading for a stranger to be accommodated by strangers on Nairaland or any other social media?? This person has no means to sustain herself, no job or any means of livelihood....and it doesn’t occur to you that you are exposing her to the ‘wolves and hyenas’??

You should be asking people to help with jobs not accommodating an unknown person with no verifiable background or most importantly skills.

Tell the young lady to leave Lagos ASAP.

Aiit boss... I will talk to her Sha