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Issues by emmysolo2001(f): 9:00am On Dec 06, 2020 |
good morning y'all so i have something on my mind and i need help I have a bf of 4years we are very serious. I am a 200l university student and I'm the boyish type in school. i decided to behave like i didn't care about anyone or anything so as to avoid issues in school. So recently I started talking to someone a course mate of mine and we are cool.I liked his vibe and I started talking to him.girls don't really talks to him in school except me cause I found him interesting I don't want him thinking i want us to be more than friends . so my question is how do I behave so he doesn't like me,like in the relationship sense cause I don't want to date him or anything i just want to be friends with him.. I don't want to ruin the friendship so what do I do? |
Re: Issues by RedPhoenix: 9:07am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Reduce time spent with him reduce the timeline you respond to him. Reduce chats with me Post about your be in your time line Watch your conversations and the kind of issues you both talk about |
Re: Issues by Godfrey858(m): 9:13am On Dec 06, 2020 |
firstly make sure he knows you have a boyfriend and the relationship is very serious Be independent , don't depend on him for anything,make him believe you can do without him Avoid relationship topics with him or sex related lastly but it's might tear him ,Tell him ,so you guys are on clear ground |
Re: Issues by hashtagged(m): 9:20am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Always mention your boyfriend when having simple conversations,he will get the message |
Re: Issues by emmysolo2001(f): 10:25am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Godfrey858:he knows i have a boyfriend and I don't even let him buy me things even when he offers Thanks for your advice.i appreciate it alot |
Re: Issues by emmysolo2001(f): 10:26am On Dec 06, 2020 |
hashtagged: Thank you |
Re: Issues by emmysolo2001(f): 10:31am On Dec 06, 2020 |
RedPhoenix: I usually talk to him about his personal life and I ask him about his gf but he keeps saying he hasn't found the right one so since then I stopped talking about his personal life but he loves music so that's always what we talk about most times |
Re: Issues by Nobody: 7:00pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
emmysolo2001:Don't Be Available All D Time. But I'm Still Wondering Dat U Said U Find Him Interesting. Anyway, If Don't Want Dat, Visit Him Once In A Blue Moon. Don't Visit Him Frequently, If U Do Dat Means U Are D One Looking 4 It. |
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