mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

boss there is but one way out of this...don't view it as a sin..it's all in the mind..you see it as a very bad thing and thus your being goes with that..I am sure you would blame all your misfortunes on it as well..and it might manifest as so because you believe it has the power to..just first..stop seeing it as a sin and seeing yourself as a failure or lose first..then your head go clear to go on stopping it.

Professorcplus:
Fast and pray

hahaha u make me laugh, if u are a masturbators you will understand that the victim don't needs prayer and fasting........
what they need is to be occupied with activities, never allow their wife to leave and person should buy PlayStation, in his house installed with the games he love .......

with this . masturbation will run like rats pursued by fire

Masturbation is a choice you chose it you can only stop it yourself with strong determination

Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

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Marriage kills sex.

It will make it worse.

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mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

It's a shame some are even advising you to get married because you want sex and not about how prepared you are.

Ask yourself apart from religion propagating it as evil, what's wrong with masturbation.
The answer is nothing.

if you masturbate everyday will your health be harmed? If you cum after you masturbate everyday is it healthy and safe?

Masturbating every day — or even more than once a day — is perfectly healthy and safe, whether or not you have an orgasm.

Some people masturbate every day or more than once a day, while others do it once a month, or once a year. Some people never masturbate at all. Every person is different.

Masturbation has no harmful physical or emotional effects. In fact, it has a number of physical and mental health benefits, like helping with stress, helping you feel good about your body, and even helping ease period cramps.

Marriage will not solve it.....
Its prayer!

Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

some married men do masturbate

Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

Marriage doesn't stop those things, it may even amplify them.
This what may help you if you are really serious.
Take out time to fast and pray about it, after that put yourself on the word diet. By this I mean study the Bible everyday. Read like two, three or even five chapters of the Bible daily and take out time to meditate on the word of God. Also be active in fellowship and also be willing to obey what you are instructed from the word of God. In your fasting and prayer don't forget to ask God for grace to control yourself.
Blessings!

Firstandonly:
pls do u mind sharing ur side effects?

blurring vision.serious back pain..Serious constipation. Serious general body weakness.. I was always cracking my throat cause it was like I had something hanging in there..Some abnormal body muscle movement.. Weak erection..Quick ejaculation.. The mother of all was complete lost of Joy.. I lost all the Positive emotions.. The question is how did I know masturbation was the cause of all this?I didn't know at the beginning, later on I realized each time I masturbate I started experiencing instant increase in the aforementioned side effects. I have to stop for some months,that was when I got some improvement. The day I masturbate again,all was let loose once again.. Mind you,even though I don't masturbate again, I still suffer some of the side effects I mentioned above.. 13years after I stopped the habit

obinna58:


It's a shame some are even advising you to get married because you want sex and not about how prepared you are.

[s]Ask yourself apart from religion propagating it as evil, what's wrong with masturbation.
The answer is nothing.

if you masturbate everyday will your health be harmed? If you cum after you masturbate everyday is it healthy and safe?

Masturbating every day — or even more than once a day — is perfectly healthy and safe, whether or not you have an orgasm.

Some people masturbate every day or more than once a day, while others do it once a month, or once a year. Some people never masturbate at all. Every person is different.

Masturbation has no harmful physical or emotional effects. In fact, it has a number of physical and mental health benefits, like helping with stress, helping you feel good about your body, and even helping ease period cramps.[/s]

Nonsense..Do you know what masturbation did to me?you're here spelling rubbish as if you're God that knows it all..The same science you're banking on has not cure for covid-19..They recently admitt the flaws in sperm motility claim..Nonsense

lomprico:


what was your side effect?

blurring vision.serious back pain..Serious constipation. Serious general body weakness.. I was always cracking my throat cause it was like I had something hanging in there..Some abnormal body muscle movement.. Weak erection..Quick ejaculation.. The mother of all was complete lost of Joy.. I lost all the Positive emotions.. The question is how did I know masturbation was the cause of all this?I didn't know at the beginning, later on I realized each time I masturbate I started experiencing instant increase in the aforementioned side effects. I have to stop for some months,that was when I got some improvement. The day I masturbate again,all was let loose once again.. Mind you,even though I don't masturbate again, I still suffer some of the side effects I mentioned above.. 13years after I stopped the habit

Firstandonly:
pls do u mind sharing ur side effects?

blurring vision.serious back pain..Serious constipation. Serious general body weakness.. I was always cracking my throat cause it was like I had something hanging in there..Some abnormal body muscle movement.. Weak erection..Quick ejaculation.. The mother of all was complete lost of Joy.. I lost all the Positive emotions.. The question is how did I know masturbation was the cause of all this?I didn't know at the beginning, later on I realized each time I masturbate I started experiencing instant increase in the aforementioned side effects. I have to stop for some months,that was when I got some improvement. The day I masturbate again,all was let loose once again.. Mind you,even though I don't masturbate again, I still suffer some of the side effects I mentioned above.. 13years after I stopped the habit

It is well. I pray the Lord Himself will reveal unto us that which we must do and not to do.

mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

You see! Masturbation is not something to be ashamed of, the problem with you now is that you've turned it into a full time job, now that's what you need to address, if you're jobless though it will be difficult, forget Nonsense keep your mind busy talk, you need to engage yourself with productive activities, and when you do go into a steady relationship, make sure your daily activities is almost outlined that even when you get home you're too tired to self-service, you wake up the next day with same routine and before you know it you don't need fasting and prayers to overcome wanking


I'm not talking from experience but I'm enlightened about this things...



Nothing wrong once in a while wanking �

Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

I agree and disagree

15years masturbation and you think marriage will do the Disney land wonders of halting it.

He needs tapering it in bits, if not it'll be same old story in marriage.

For the main time, get rid of all the horrible sites, videos and pictures you have on your devices.

Don't password or lock your phone

Don't stay alone for most times

Have a mindset of changing, it won't happen magically or spontaneously.

Cut off friends you have of such cycle

Let us hear the result after three months

@op find two or 3 girls ,you go dey Bleep them every week, make sure they are runs babe ooo, no strings attached, you paid those bitches and no manipulation games whatsoever

To stop any bad habit in this life is about DECISION MAKING, do you feel you want to die if you don't masturbate, it's do or die affairs? Make decision today and stand on it no matter the hush

vonlogon:
The number one cause for your problem is idleness, I've work with people that are worse off than you, try not to be idle at any point in time, if you notice that you get tempted easily when you are alone try being around people, if you are unemployed look for some business to do, no matter how small. Getting married may help, but I've heard of married people masturbating too.

Secondly, learn to tell your inner man NO!

Even dangote is not always busy

You'll be idle once in awhile and the urge will set in

Like you said,learn to tell your inner man NO!

Have u gone to m.f.m

My advice to you is to say to yourself that having sex is better than masturbating. If you like pray and fast from now till tomorrow if you don't take a stand you'll continue falling back to it. It's all about your mindset. Why would some people be the ones having sex while you are the one masturbating? Ponder upon that and set yourself free. They make movies these days with sex scenes for your mind to process but you can tell yourself you want to be the one having the sex not the one receiving the images.

Just my 2 cent.

DextrousDavid:



My brother.. Only God can help one break free from masturbation.

I used to masturbe and watch porn alot. Glory be to God i stopped in may 20th, 2020. After God revealed the below scripture to me.

Study it well(everyday). It's the only true way out.

James 4:7
King James Version
It says.

(step1)Submit yourselves therefore to God.

(Step2)Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

This is powerful.

Fasting is very powerful....by engaging in fasting, you keep the flesh under your spirit and allows your spirit and the Holy Spirit to have control over the flesh.
Your flesh is always want to wrestle with the spirit. It is controlled by external forces.

These forces are from what you give your eyes, hears and attention to.

Discipline yourself! The Holy spirit will minister to you on what to start avoiding and please pray

Always Pray and never loose focus on God. The devil knows he can't defeat you, so he always try to make you spiritually weak so that you can cannot pray as you do and when you succumb, you will definitely fall.

The secret is to always pray and read your Bible. Avoid watching indecent foreign films, unfollow or block anyone in your social media that posts immoral things. Avoid looking at females too much especially admiring them. Avoid looking at females that dress indecent, once u see them.. Just look away and go. The devil uses all these things to lure you.. Don't fall for it.

Fill your phone with the things of God and delete everything that does not please God. Use Godly pictures as wallpaper. Keep your phone away from you before you sleep at night..

Avoid friends that discus rubbish. Always know that the devil is watching and waiting to make you spiritually weak so that you will fall into his trap. Be determined and vigilant. Reading the Word of God will always keep the Spirit of God around you and in you.

Pray!

Remain Blessed bro.

Thattallgirl:
Op, read this:

Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
Romans 8:1, NASB


Today, I want to talk about how you can have a victorious thought life. My friend, the solution to temptations, sinful desires and thoughts is found in the very first verse of Romans 8: “Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (By the way, some Bible translations, like the New King James Version, go on to say “who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.” This was added by the later Bible translators. In the oldest manuscripts of the New Testament available today, the Greek simply states, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”)

You may experience temptations and sinful thoughts from time to time, but right in the midst of that temptation, you need to know this: There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Notice that this verse is in the present tense. Right now, even if at this very moment, sinful thoughts are going through your mind, there is no condemnation because you are IN CHRIST JESUS! Are we then to sit still and entertain those sinful thoughts? Of course not.

Sin cannot take root in a person who is full of the consciousness that he is righteous in Christ. You cannot stop birds from flying over your head, but you can certainly stop a bird from building a nest on your head. In the same way, you cannot stop temptations, sinful thoughts and desires from passing through your mind, but you can certainly stop yourself from acting on these temptations, sinful thoughts and desires. How? By confessing at the very moment of temptation that you are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus!

The power of Jesus to overcome every temptation kicks in when you remain conscious that even at the point of temptation, Jesus is still with you and that you are righteous in Him apart from your works (Romans 4:6)! When you do that, you reject the condemnation for the temptation that you faced. You now have the power of Christ to rise above your temptation and to rest in your righteous identity in Christ apart from your works. That, beloved, is the overcoming life in Christ!

I hope he'd read through ur analysis. It's powerful. Nice one. I can't believe this is coming from a naija girl.

mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

Make a vow " Lord, take my life if I masturbate or watch pornography within the next one month"
Take it month by month and before you know it, you will be free from the demons of pornography and masturbation addiction.

KosiGee:



I am not sure you’ve heard of or seen a very stubborn Inner man.
He needs pampering etc. If you don’t bath and moisture and make him happy, he will stand stubbornly like a German salute till you’ve done the needful.

If you don’t, both of you won’t sleep or rest.

Very funny

Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

Like seriously that’s not the only way I have a Gf but I still masturbate, and she’s very beautiful back and front is complete✅ I’m really tired of this

When you fall down, dont stay down. get back up again!

Hi, you have tried all to no avail, right? I'm not condemning those who said marriage would help, but guy the problem is with your mind.

You have fed it so much with stuffs that needs to be erased.

First, you need to have a personal resolution to change. Choice is a power, and secondly feed on the word of God. It's powerful and sharper than any two edged sword.

I can put you in the way of life through life class. You will have the desired result. By the way, it's free.

mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

Look for a nymphomaniac in your area.

nymphos don’t watch porn.

Because themselves na actress and actor together

Jesus!!!

U need to possess the spirit of self control. If this spirit is absent, u can't win this war