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leave your village and explore
watch how the westerners do it and stop being bushy

Zzor:
Men have been ranting that women should have their own money and spend on them too at least to reciprocate some kind gestures. Now my question is how do women spend on men? Isn't it awkward and funny for a woman to take a man out? Would any man feel comfortable when his woman takes him out? Is it not shameful for a man to receive gifts from a woman because I feel it's somehow belittling. Men that receive gifts from women and are comfortable with their women taking them out, do you still command respect and value before your woman?

Travel abroad....maybe UK...then you'll understand what you are writing about.

Nowadays ladies no fit spend on man all dey know buw me this buy me dat