Aliii:
In marriage is forever ..so one must choose what matches you ..first they must be up and down ,forget those Korean movies they are tough times where you and her might get misunderstandings, so here you check if he/she can forgive easily .. Next everyone has a bad habit, so I always advice you life with her for like a month or two to see if you can tolerate her ..and lastly fertility, can she put to bed?

Olunmercy56:
Yes, especially the sex part, communication and financial aspect

debbydams:
And make findings about the family background,some have hereditary sickness or disability

Mikester:

Make someone no go enter one chance marriage. Nice one

debbydams:
abi o, person like me I used to make hidden search about someone m dating before going to see him, finding like can he kill me, can he use me for ritual,glory still remain, we go last if I marry him, is he hot tempered, no mata how much I love a guy once i.found that he's hot tempered nd impatient forget it we meuvvvvv nio..

Mikester:

You have a point but what're the signs of the wrong person? Please your opinion...

Aliii:
In marriage is forever ..so one must choose what matches you ..first they must be up and down ,forget those Korean movies they are tough times where you and her might get misunderstandings, so here you check if he/she can forgive easily .. Next everyone has a bad habit, so I always advice you life with her for like a month or two to see if you can tolerate her ..and lastly fertility, can she put to bed?

Aliii:
In marriage is forever ..so one must choose what matches you ..first they must be up and down ,forget those Korean movies they are tough times where you and her might get misunderstandings, so here you check if he/she can forgive easily .. Next everyone has a bad habit, so I always advice you life with her for like a month or two to see if you can tolerate her ..and lastly fertility, can she put to bed?

Liposure:
Is she submissive? is she domestic enough? Does she have a listening ear? is she one of those toxic and proud feminists? These are things i look out for.

Mikester:

You seem to be ignoring the fact that most men lose interest in a lady after sex...

Biglittlelois:



Yes exactly, and also, is the man fertile enough to impregnate a woman? It goes both ways.

Aliii:
lol wahala ? Nor be fight ooo

Aliii:
she don't align with you ,she's mostly stubborn she don't take whatever you say ..she always feel she's right ,she unapologetic.. All about the women trend ..total dependency on you ..

Olunmercy56:


Having sex with a man will definitely loose your respect as a woman. But you need to discuss it further. Some men has thin or small tin, some have issues with their sex life, some ladies don't like too much sex, it will be very painful if the guy or the lady didn't tell his or problem before going into marriage

Mikester:
Marriage is a beautiful thing but can be the worst thing to happen to a man if a partner isn't considered carefully. Some of us are fortunate to marry good partners while some are just sad. Some dated their husbands/wives then married their boyfriends/girlfriends. Funny and sad as it is.

Best to marry someone who would bring out the best in us not the stress in us which brings up the big question, "What do you think people need to know about each other before they get married?"
From my perspective so far I believe they should be

- His/her financial status
- His/her private life
- Genotype
- Mental health

Moreover how do we know the wrong person to avoid? What are the signs to look out for?
What's your take on this?