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Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 2:06pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
In her book, 'A Happy Life in an open relationship', canada based therapist susan wenzel who's in an open marriage herself, defines it as such: "An open relationship is an arrangement wherein a couple decides to include experience with other people often for sexual pleasure. Open relationships do not encourage emotional attachment with external partners. Some people in open relationships prefer onetime sexual experiences or several dates, but ensure they do not become romantically involved with these additional sexual partners. A couple in an open relationship always prioritizes their primary relationship". Share your thoughts. |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mindlog: 2:11pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
How can one ensure they do not become romantically attached to the third person? 10 Likes |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by thesicilian: 2:13pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
That's just a subtle way of licensing marital immorality. 9 Likes |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by eyinjuege: 3:58pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Provided both couple agree to such, their cup of tea Its still better than those who sneak behind their partner's back 8 Likes |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
Open relationships are the ultimate in feminine hypergamy wet dreams. A pool of alphas to sow the seeds and unlimited consenting betas to feed their progeny. What more can a girl want? 1 Like |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Liposure: 5:18pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
RisenPhoenix1:hmmm |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 12:08pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
eyinjuege:true |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by TrueChristians: 1:04pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 1:15pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
TrueChristians:its shining already |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by cooooooks(m): 2:51pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
If the decision is mutual and the rendezvous done together, I see no problem. Else, one person will be doing it to the detriment of someone else. |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by bukatyne(f): 3:33pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
Open marriage defeats the purpose of marriage which is exclusivity and prevention of adultery. 11 Likes |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 5:13pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
Lalasticlala |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 9:15pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
bukatyne:is marriage even exclusive these days 1 Like |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by bukatyne(f): 9:17pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
Mecka: It was designed to be. 4 Likes |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Shortyyy(f): 10:35pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
bukatyne: There has never been any exclusivity in marriages. Let's stop wasting our time. Married couples go about behaving like single people. Though it was the husbands that were privileged to do this before, now the wives are enrolling. 3 Likes |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Hathor5(f): 10:58pm On Jan 24, 2021 |
Well ... To each their own .. At least they are honest and open about it. 1 Like |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 12:23pm On Jan 25, 2021 |
Shortyyy:well said |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Twenty8: 1:35pm On Jan 25, 2021 |
ask will smith the greatest simp all time. 1 Like |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 7:30pm On Jan 25, 2021 |
Twenty8:you mean mr entanglement 2 Likes |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Twenty8: 7:42pm On Jan 25, 2021 |
Mecka:Yep that guy |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 7:12pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Hathor5:fair enough 1 Like |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by anthonyuncle(m): 7:46am On Jan 27, 2021 |
it is finished |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 12:50pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
cooooooks:exactly |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
Inasmuch as it's an agreement between them, they can do as they wish. For many couples, it's a no-no, however. |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by ursamajor: 9:26am On Feb 03, 2021 |
There's no way romantic feelings from outside will not eventually creep up on either partner, thereby defeating the purpose for the arrangement nin the first place. 1 Like |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 8:17pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
ursamajor:not for the vulnerable |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by ursamajor: 5:42pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
Mecka:Everyone is vulnerable, one way or another 1 Like |
Re: Open Marriage: To Be or not to be? by Mecka: 9:02pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
ursamajor:true |
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