Xj2020:
A friend of mine is presently down with fever. He just informed me that he told his beloved wife who he had a misunderstanding for sometime now to help him buy drugs from the pharmacy store as a precautionary measure this night before visiting the hospital first thing tommorow morning and the woman vehemently refused while telling him to go to the pharmacy store to buy the drugs himself.

Yes, they have had misunderstanding for sometime now but is this sufficient reason for the woman to behave in such heartless manner?. After all, marriage is for better or worse.

As a man or woman what is the next step you would advise the sick man to take.

For your information, the friend of mine had to drag himself from the bed just now to get the drug.

Between them, they have three lovely children. The friend of mine is the sole bread winner of the house.

He would appreciate advise from matured minds on this forum. Thanks in advance.

Xj2020:
We don't leave in the same vicinityquote author=Richy4 post=98811730]But as the friend, have you stepped in to buy the drug in question?
You have to save the situation first before talking about who did what

MickzyDonald:
There's something he ain't explaining to you, I don't trust that guy nor the wife either

Xj2020:
A friend of mine is presently down with fever. He just informed me that he told his beloved wife who he had a misunderstanding with for sometime now to help him buy drugs from the pharmacy store as a precautionary measure this night before visiting the hospital first thing tommorow morning and the woman vehemently refused while telling him to go to the pharmacy store to buy the drugs himself.

Yes, they have had misunderstanding for sometime now but is this sufficient reason for the woman to behave in such heartless manner?. After all, marriage is for better for worse.

As a man or woman what is the next step you would advise the sick man to take.

For your information, the friend of mine had to drag himself from the bed just now to get malaria drugs. The drugs were recommended by a family doctor on the phone.

Between them, they have three lovely children. The friend of mine is the sole bread winner of the house.

What could have waranted the wife's behaviour? How should he react to this type of behaviour?

Thanks in advance.

Richy4:


Are you for real? What could he probably not be telling the OP... Someone was on his sick bed and the better half refused to offer any help and you wanna justify her action? like seriously?...An armed robber, even in their aggravated form of theft gets medical attention when injured
and captured in the act..

Even if the husband Killed her favorite pet or married her best friend without her knowing it, is it enough to let the man die? couldn't she set whatever it was aside, help him recover then continue to register her displeasure if she so wishes?... What were you really trying to justify here?