Please for the sake of who will listen , While you re making it little by little , Please for no reason should you take sacrifice for a friend, Extended family or lady hoping you will marry her, Just don’t , I didn’t learn the hard way and nothing bad happen to me but something happened that make me realize that after you , it’s your head, Invest in your mother or family member instead and marry when you want too get married, Am not saying you should not help a lady but there’s a difference between help and sacrifice, Sacrifice is when you allow someone else take the credit that’s meant for you , Help is giving when you have it surplus , People have that believe that once you add weight and give them money , You’ve make it and you don’t need help , That’s what will make it hard for you to ask them for help when you re down while sacrificing for them .

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MrGoood:
Please for the sake of who will listen , While you re making it little by little , Please for no reason should you take sacrifice for a friend, Extended family or lady hoping you will marry her, Just don’t , I didn’t learn the hard way and nothing bad happen to me but something happened that make me realize that after you , it’s your head, Invest in your mother or family member instead and marry when you want too get married, Am not saying you should not help a lady but there’s a difference between help and sacrifice, Sacrifice is when you allow someone else take the credit that’s meant for you , Help is giving when you have it surplus , People have that believe that once you add weight and give them money , You’ve make it and you don’t need help , That’s what will make it hard for you to ask them for help when you re down while sacrificing for them .

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