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tha lord is your strength.

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You are a persistent motherfucker. I'll give you that.

After she declined you the first time and the second time, you suppose don forget the matter.

Just move on... y'all can just be casual friends.
Single Women plenty for naija.
If she chats you up next time, just chat with her as a friend, nothing spoil, or just kukuma block her existence from your Life.
Peace

manuelberry:
tha lord is your strength.

Hahahahahahahaha

Stop setting yourself up.

Forget her.

cchub:
You are a persistent motherfucker. I'll give you that.

After she declined you the first time and the second time, you suppose don forget the matter.

Just move on... y'all can just be casual friends.
Single Women plenty for naija.
If she chats you up next time, just chat with her as a friend, nothing spoil, or just kukuma block her existence from your Life.
Peace

You can actually air your view without been rude
Thanks anyway

Tell her ya aren't happy with her and she be like "what's the problem''

Then lay down ur P

kennethfranc:

You can actually air your view without been rude
Thanks anyway

The motherfucker is a compliment.... I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be rude.

i.e you're a persistent guy/dude/nigga etc.

kennethfranc:
So there is this girl I Loved though I still loves her but u all know how your love for someone drops when she turns down your request.
Here is my story;
Around August last year, while coming back from work, I saw this girl (we attended same primary school but I was ahead of her) our eyes came in contact and was like that for about 30secs, then I looked away trying to recollect myself. After some thoughts, I approached her, we greeted had some few talk and exchanged numbers. Later @night that day, she called we talked, from there to morning and evening calls, texts or chats.... I come dey think say I don get am
Towards the ending of September, I popped the question "Can we date" then she said she wasn't ready.... I then thought to myself: u aren't ready yet you are mostly the one that calls... Hmm okay ooo
After the reply, I went mute with her no calls, text and chat. Then on 1st Oct, she texted a Happy Independence msg which I replied "thanks dear" from there we started chatting again. I still asked for the second time, got same reply this time I had no option than to delete her number & Mute her chats.
On Christmas Eve, she came back and I still umuted my mute... Lol
One thing lead to another, the 3rd time still no positive reply... @ this point I was just saying to myself whether am Okay but I had no choice cuz I truly love her.
Later on shallow chats became activated (hi, how was ur day, happy Sunday) that's all.
At this point, No calls or Texts I was just trying to be ME then one hot afternoon her call came in I rejected the call. She dropped a text saying "I know you are angry about my action but pls am sorry".... I just left thr msg there
Then today which is what pushed me typing this, I got a text from her @about 3am wishing happy Val, I replied "thanks dear"
Later this evening she called & I picked after few talks about Val she said shejust decided to check on me.

My problem is just that when am about forgetting everything, she either calls or texts yet refuses a Date.
Now my question is
How do I put an end to all this cuz am really tired of the situation

You're the one toying with your emotion, im assuming you're male but you sound female. You have to be stern a d move on, unless she states what she wants. Anyway sha people are built different

Just ignore her

Bro most girls don want commitment relationship or something serious,they jst want something simple , someone to talk too,someone to take them out wen dey want,someone to give them the D**k wen they want...I think in dis generation we call it friends with benefits... Don't ask her out again,just invite her to come over for a visit,gist, play games and see what happens from dere...

Bola146:
Just ignore her

I highly doubt Romeo here will ignore her

qtguru:

I highly doubt Romeo here will ignore her

Romeo hasn't lust though

kennethfranc:

Romeo hasn't lust though

Yet...

Bro i had this same encounter with one little girl then, she was 20 as at 2019, she did this same ON and OFF thing to me, each time i ask her for a date she won't give me positive reply and i later found out she was using me to forget her ex, i warned her stainly and blocked her on Facebook, i let her her know I'm ain't a joke to her since then that shit stopped. i don't double date and she made me not approach some beautiful girls that gave me green light then

See as girl dey curve this one consecutively and he's happy about it. Know your worth my man.

BusinessCity:


Hahahahahahahaha

wetin u want make i talk

See, no woman is saying anything here only Bola146 and what did she say?

Follow Bola's advice! She knows something she is not going to tell you for she does the same.

Only a woman truly understands and can tell you the truth about the mind/heart of another woman.

She's keeping you close to be her emotional slave..

I swear almost the same thing happened to me during the lockdown period .The girl just wasted my time ..bro, forget her and move on

Dtruthspeaker:
See, no woman is saying anything here only Bola146 and what did she say?

Follow Bola's advice! She knows something she is not going to tell you for she does the same.

Only a woman truly understands and can tell you the truth about the mind/heart of another woman.

I don't understand

Guy is it that you cannot keep a female friend without having to date her?
Give her space. Treat her like a friend - male friend. She might fall I love with you or you might just see there is no point in dating her. No be every hole you supposed to enter.

Bola146:


I don't understand

I am counseling him to follow your advice for I know that you are very well informed about this problem.

Maintain your lane then

Ma niggar move on and stop wasting your time with her.

kennethfranc:
So there is this girl I Loved though I still loves her but u all know how your love for someone drops when she turns down your request.
Here is my story;
Around August last year, while coming back from work, I saw this girl (we attended same primary school but I was ahead of her) our eyes came in contact and was like that for about 30secs, then I looked away trying to recollect myself. After some thoughts, I approached her, we greeted had some few talk and exchanged numbers. Later @night that day, she called we talked, from there to morning and evening calls, texts or chats.... I come dey think say I don get am
Towards the ending of September, I popped the question "Can we date" then she said she wasn't ready.... I then thought to myself: u aren't ready yet you are mostly the one that calls... Hmm okay ooo
After the reply, I went mute with her no calls, text and chat. Then on 1st Oct, she texted a Happy Independence msg which I replied "thanks dear" from there we started chatting again. I still asked for the second time, got same reply this time I had no option than to delete her number & Mute her chats.
On Christmas Eve, she came back and I still umuted my mute... Lol
One thing lead to another, the 3rd time still no positive reply... @ this point I was just saying to myself whether am Okay but I had no choice cuz I truly love her.
Later on shallow chats became activated (hi, how was ur day, happy Sunday) that's all.
At this point, No calls or Texts I was just trying to be ME then one hot afternoon her call came in I rejected the call. She dropped a text saying "I know you are angry about my action but pls am sorry".... I just left thr msg there
Then today which is what pushed me typing this, I got a text from her @about 3am wishing happy Val, I replied "thanks dear"
Later this evening she called & I picked after few talks about Val she said shejust decided to check on me.

My problem is just that when am about forgetting everything, she either calls or texts yet refuses a Date.
Now my question is
How do I put an end to all this cuz am really tired of the situation

She only wanted to fvcck. You wanted a relationship. Those are two different things

Next time stop going upandan asking girls out. If she's into you just kiss her and everything will fall in place. It's not every girl that's OK with guys asking them out directly and it's not every girl that's looking for a relationship. Some just wanna catch fun, no strings attached

Wtf is "can we date?"

If you a girl and i ask you that question would you gimme the expected answer even if you're into me? I guess NO.
Evolve