Queenslander:
okay then, good. In Igbo culture.. there's effectively what we call a female husband,. Which literally means a woman can marry another woman.. I can pay bridewealth, and thus marries another woman,. By doing so, I become the social and legal father of her children.. but please note,. There will be no sexual intercourse.. so don't think about any lesbian shit happening between us.. lool,.

OK…
I think I get it now….
But that could be if the woman married is either a widow with children or a single mother with children?
Did I guess it right?
Oh! Come on…. I'm not a perv…. Everything wouldn't have to be about sex.

Kayberg:


OK…
I think I get it now….
But that could be if the woman married is either a widow with children or a single mother with children?
Did I guess it right?
Oh! Come on…. I'm not a perv…. Everything wouldn't have to be about sex.

lool, yeah. Buh not completely,. She mustn't be a divorcee, a widow, or a single mother.. she could be a young lady without kids,.

Queenslander:
lool, yeah. Buh not completely,. She mustn't be a divorcee, a widow, or a single mother.. she could be a young lady without kids,.

A young lady without kids?
Where will she then get the kids she'll have?
Or perhaps you marry her for a child of yours?

Kayberg:


A young lady without kids?
Where will she then get the kids she'll have?
Or perhaps you marry her for a child of yours?

lool, your last paragraph,. The female husband will provide a guy of her choice to have sex with her..

Queenslander:
lool, your last paragraph,. The female husband will provide a guy of her choice to have sex with her..

Mmm….
That's logical though….
Will like to get to know more about this culture.

Kayberg:


Mmm….
That's logical though….
Will like to get to know more about this culture.

um, lemme guess your Yoruba?

Queenslander:
um, lemme guess your Yoruba?

Yea sure…. I am.

Kayberg:


Yea sure….
I am.

I talk ham, my instincts never fails me

Queenslander:
I talk ham, my instincts never fails me

Your instincts…on what grounds?

Kayberg:


Your instincts…on what grounds?

I always know right!

Queenslander:
I always know right!

There are three main tribes in Nigeria even though we have about 250 ethnic groups, but the Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa are well known.
I know why you guessed my tribe correctly, but I want you to open up on it yourself….

So tell me, how did you come about the right on that guess?

Kayberg:


There are three main tribes in Nigeria even though we have about 250 ethnic groups, but the Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa are well known.
I know why you guessed my tribe correctly, but I want you to open up on it yourself….

So tell me, how did you come about the right on that guess?

lool, I can't say!!

Queenslander:
lool, I can't say!!

Hmm… You can't say?
I guess you were just lucky to guess it right…. no special abilit(y(ies) attached.
Or are you a psychic?

Kayberg:


Hmm… You can't say?
I guess you were just lucky to guess it right…. no special abilit(y(ies) attached.
Or are you a psychic?

maybe, can't say either..

Queenslander:
maybe, can't say either..

If perhaps you are, then you should also guess my lineage correctly….

Kayberg:


If perhaps you are, then you should also guess my lineage correctly….

ha? Lineage ke? Isn't that almost impossible!!??

Queenslander:
ha? Lineage ke? Isn't that almost impossible!!??

Remember, you're good at guessing and knowing it right….
Don't decline or debunk it now….

Kayberg:


Remember, you're good at guessing and knowing it right….
Don't decline or debunk it now….

I don't know what to say..

Queenslander:
I don't know what to say..

Good.
Then you don't always know right.

Kayberg:


Good.
Then you don't always know right.

smh, wtf.. so you only asked me that just to prove me wrong? That's not just fair, buh wicked. Honestly, You amaze me!!

Queenslander:
smh, wtf.. so you only asked me that just to prove me wrong? That's not just fair, buh wicked. Honestly, You amaze me!!

You don't have to take it personal.
It wasn't to prove you wrong or anything.
It's just a discussion.
If you find it offensive, I'm sorry.

Kayberg:


You don't have to take it personal.
It wasn't to prove you wrong or anything.
It's just a discussion.
If you find it offensive, I'm sorry.

oh, that's okay,. Good to see you apologize though.. Cause you were beginning to sound like a sexist up there!!

Queenslander:
oh, that's okay,. Good to see you apologize though.. Cause you were beginning to sound like a sexist up there!!

Well, I'm not a sexist nor going to be, because I have sisters, and I respect them.
I wasn't even expecting you'd take it so serious…
You don't have to make it go south or make me look like a bad person….

Kayberg:


Well, I'm not a sexist nor going to be, because I have sisters, and I respect them.
I wasn't even expecting you'd take it so serious…
You don't have to make it go south or make me look like a bad person….

lool, so sorry, didn't mean to make you feel that way.. it's just the impression I get on here from guys about women.. doesn't make for good reading!!

Queenslander:
lool, so sorry, didn't mean to make you feel that way.. it's just the impression I get on here from guys about women.. doesn't make for good reading!!

All men are not same, neither are all women same. I've met, seen, heard from, heard of, talked to and interact with people and all have different qualities and characters. Everyone proves what and who they are by their actions. That's why I don't generalize.
There are still lots of good men out there as well as good women, but they're not being noticed.

Some kind of confused question but who to choose should not be hard

I will definitely choose mom