Life always appears to be much brighter when there are no demands, you’ll almost think life is perfect. We all know perfection is a mirage and so it’s a fallacy to say life is perfect. Society most times influences our view on life, sometimes, it creates a barrier to the heights one can actually attain and other times, it opens us to see that there are ways to reach the actual top.

There’s no wrong in hoping for the best, but the best seldom happens when we want it to happen. But do we stop hoping? No we don’t.
Life is a journey, it is created by the copulation of a man and a woman and then translates to everyone of us, a journey that involves occurrences that most times can’t be predicted.

The first phase
Life doesn’t scream it’s flaws to us, it whispers it!
When life is created, there are preparations for care by the ones who were involved in the act of copulation and these preparations are either limited or not, which is why there is the child with silver spoon and the one without. As a child matures, needs are met, you can’t expect a suckling child to care for himself/herself, so yes, needs are met according to the demands of the child.

The second phase
These dreams keep coming!
“I want to be a lawyer”
“I want to be a doctor”
But do we really become the things we said we wanted to be?
Life starts to whisper but lack of recognition is a fault one can’t blame a teenager for!
Life isn’t a bed of roses for all, life is diversified, we win and loose, we have to search consciously for truths, the way out of troubles because these things hardly come by us freely.

The third phase
How does your heart communicate with you?
The search begins, the child becomes a man, bearing burdens that seemed light and promising, but life is filled with challenges that either breaks or makes.
The men that lost the silver spoon and want to get it back.
The men that never had the silver spoon but want it.
The men that still have the silver spoon.
The men who have no clue.

The fourth phase
Do you really need it? Then come get it.
Life has to continue, so it is time once again to choose whether you’ll add a label to it or not.
Everyone looks forward to having their own children, their times however differ, there’s love, marriage, sex.
Life has to continue, some men just begin to have a clue about all the whispers that life has transmitted, there’s passion, strive, faliure, gains! This is the part where you feel it all at once, all the emotions in the world comes rushing at you like there won’t be an end.

The fifth phase
Chapters close, complete or not, they begin to shut abruptly. Old age, regrets, things which should have been done. You’re either happy or not but what can you do when all you can do is eat and sleep.
Life ends, but it goes on. The ones who leave already have replacements and by this I mean procreation.


Life won’t stop its wonders because it’s the entirety of existence at play. You either live it or leave it.


Is life not in circles?

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