really, how do you know that your better half loves you? i have had experiences in the past where my lovers profess undying love only to make me regret knowing them after making a few sacrifices for them.i want to be adviced before getting into another relationship.so common people,help a sister out

wish i could been there, heard it all b4, i love you and the next day they do a runner!

Just tell them that u have Aids , thats the best trick

people don't mean it when they say they love and care about you... from my point of view anyway so it don't mean a thing it's just like saying have a great day

Well the greatest gift a man or woman can give ya is "LOVE" love is really from the inner mind. One may know how to gain a victory, and know not how to use it, in other words ppl out there get someone nice, cool, caring, but they don't know where to keep that person heart. Most especially females hearts are kinda fragile, they need to be kept in a safe place..and take care of it very well so it won't get broken ppl out there don't get to be love or don't practice love cause the guy and the girl ain't compartable.. they just wanna force thier way in to love each.. why they ain't compartable.. Love is just like a school.. it a course u got to study before jumping and getting FIRST CLASS in it.. IT also a scarifice you got to make.. i got to stop here men..

man thats beautiful... wish you could add more onto it, vey deep..if only...

Love is a feeling of two serious minded person in other to archive a goal in life
1. Check to see if both of you guys share ideas together
2. You could easly know if he/she loves you when he/she tells you what he/she is going through.
3. You would know if he/she loves you, when he/she tells you that "WHAT PLANS DO YOU HAVE FOR GREATER FUTURE, CAN WE WORK THINGS TOWARDS IT "
4. You know when he/she says "HONEY  I'M PROUD TO HAVE YOU "
5. you will know when he/she hurts you and in some mins or hours he/she get back to his/her senses and tell you that."I'M KINDA SORRY FOR WHAT I HAPPEN, SUCH THING WOUNT REPEAT ITSELF"
6. You will know. because he/she will always want to tell you the truth
7. You will know because you need respect. in what sense. okay now see this. he/she is talking to an opposite sex, and he/she sees you coming from afar, then he/she needs to excuse that friend.. so if he/she loves you.. he will come towards you and excuse the friend and give you a hug and a peck.  telling you "WELCOME SWEETIE, HOW WAS YOUR DAY LIKE ?"

What else ?

sweeeeeeeeeeetah!!!

he does all u can eva thk of

Rhodalyn:

he does all u can eva thk of

Agree with that sweetie

aww i can almost feel it in my fingers :Di think someone loves me this time and it's for real

I know that he loves me because inspite of my mistakes, my blemishes, my imperfections, he stays.

You'll never know hun, its a risk we all have to take

@ Mystique

true that

I dnt even LOVE!

when he truely cares,one way to know is when he tolerates your ignorance and shortcommings,this cos only a few men will.

I believe he loves me because he tell me so. thou people say u got to trust no body but i have to trust someone for the sake of peace of mind. i trust him, i believe him and i love.

jaybaby i fear you ooh

HIS feelings shows that he loves me.

i believe he loves me cos since i met him, i ave become a better person in terms of anger management - here is a man, a fine one at that and when i say fine fine, i mean fine - that hangs around me even when i said terribly hurting things to when i used to allow anger control me. Of course sometimes he would express how shocked he was that i could think of saying such things to him and then he tells me "Bambi, learn to control your anger". Apart from that he cant bear to see me sad. I have never believed it when a man said he loves me until i met him. But for Cherie, my relationship would have been over but now i thank God everyday for bringing him my way.

when he eats my oversalted vegetable soup without complaining.

When he has not divorced me yet for all my antics on Nairaland and beyond!

fellybabe:


when he truely cares,one way to know is when he tolerates your ignorance and shortcommings,this because only a few men will.

You said it. . . .tolerance and just loves you for whom you are. . . even though he yells once in a while because I ma typing furiously at the computer, posting crap on Nairaland when he is trying to get some sleep.

More quality actions less talks

this is an all women affair. sorri, cant coment

any wiser now?

To know if a woman loves you, i think it is easy, but knowing if a man loves you, is like going into acting school to understand how they operate.
Though, some women deserves an Oscar too.

comchi:

really, how do you know that your better half loves you? i have had experiences in the past where my lovers  profess undying love only to make me regret knowing them after making a few sacrifices for them.i want to be adviced before getting into another relationship.so common people,help a sister out

A lover and a spouse are different things, the significant difference being commitment

Fhemmmy:

To know if a woman loves you, i think it is easy, but knowing if a man loves you, is like going into acting school to understand how they operate.
Though, some women deserves an Oscar too.

Have to say I agree with you 100%.  However a minority of men wear their heart on their sleeves, whilst some do theirs under "disguise"  .  You know their love because it shows in little ways and they don't hide it even if they can't put it into words.

N101:

Have to say I agree with you 100%.  However a minority of men wear their heart on their sleeves, whilst some do theirs under "disguise"  .  You know their love because it shows in little ways and they don't hide it even if they can't put it into words.

very true

By his actions. . . not his words.
HE ALSO TELLS ME EVERY DAY. . . .