Why do people expect you to greet them "good morning" even when it's obvious that you ain't having a good morning?
This proves that people actually want to hear you say what they want you to say... Your true feelings ain't relevant to them. Imagine how weird it would be to greet someone "bad morning," Please normalize greeting people "bad morning," so that the broken won't feel cheated or bad for saying what they don't feel like saying.
People don't actually care about how you truly feel if it is not gonna affect them in one way or the other. Even when they ask you how you are doing, they expect you to respond by saying you are fine—even if you are not, 'I'm fine' is just the normal response. If you now respond by saying 'I feel bad,' they would then see you as being weird or disrespectful. That's how we were raised, to always agree to what the society want to hear.
So my question is, should greeting people "bad morning," or responding to "how are you" by saying "I feel bad" be normalized?

Same with saying SORRY, even though it won't fix a thing.

xenry honestly hardtruth is nobody gives AFUVCK about ur morning its just courtesy you can take it or leave it.

everyone has what is bothering him/her but decides to put up a polite greeting

hence, if I greet u and u no answer thats the end, If I see u I go jus waka pass, u no dey pay me for greeting

Reex12:
xenry honestly hardtruth is nobody gives AFUVCK about ur morning its just courtesy you can take it or leave it.

everyone has what is bothering him/her but decides to put up a polite greeting

hence, if I greet u and u no answer thats the end, If I see u I go jus waka pass, u no dey pay me for greeting

Exactly! You are correct. Nobody actually gives a fvck.

no

Xenry:
Why do people expect you to greet them "good morning" even when it's obvious that you ain't having a good morning?
This proves that people actually want to hear you say what they want you to say... Your true feelings ain't relevant to them. Imagine how weird it would be to greet someone "bad morning," Please normalize greeting people "bad morning," so that the broken won't feel cheated or bad for saying what they don't feel like saying.
People don't actually care about how you truly feel if it is not gonna affect them in one way or the other. Even when they ask you how you are doing, they expect you to respond by saying you are fine—even if you are not, 'I'm fine' is just the normal response. If you now respond by saying 'I feel bad,' they would then see you as being weird or disrespectful. That's how we were raised, to always agree to what the society want to hear.
So my question is, should greeting people "bad morning," or responding to "how are you" by saying "I feel bad" be normalized?

nirvana65:
no

okay

If you fall from a skyscraper... a white man will still ask you "Are you okay"?


That's how it is wit "How are you" and "Good morning" people just show concern by impulse even if they dont care whether u live or die...

Greetings it is called !!!

we are wired to dt "all is well" system n nt ready to change tinz..