Its allowed to spy on each others phone as far as its marriage cos u guys re one (as the bible says)
U shoudnt hv married someone u cant trust in marriage (maybe u guys didnt court)
U can only be separated but nt divorced (as allowed in xtianity and written in the bible)
U shd hv been suspecting her for u to hv bought a spy software (hope its nt an advert for the gadget companies)
Go to God in prayers and draw urself closer to Him (as He is ur only saviour and best friend)

This guy made a big mistake by spy into hip wife 's phone,hadn't been he dint spy all dis would not happen cos i belive d wife is not just doin it nd wen he has not find out d wife still show him love. I will advice him to take his wife back cos he dont no d typ of atrocity d new wife wil commit.

A man cheats its ok ,a woman cheats its an abormination.The lady should be taken for deliverance sha

allanohize:


Later, during the divorce case, at Igbosere magistrate court, they discovered that the father of these two girls was a chairman for area boys in one of the motor parks around their neighbourhood and the "former" boyfriend [/b]of the wife before she got married to my friend. It was obvious that she [b]never stopped sleeping with her ex all through her married life.


Na wah for some women o!

This is actually one of the roots of infidelity before it grows!

I make love to my wife 3 times a night in at least 4 or 5 days per week

NA THIS ONE I FEAR PASS. EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE HUUUUUM
NA WAOOOOOOOOOOOO

Oh my God, honestly am reading this post with tears on my eyes.
This is real bad but who am i to judge her, well just pray over it and the Good Lord, will direct you on what to do.
My own story was close to yours but this time my ex husband texting his girlfriend, telling her where they will meet while we were in same car going to my family house, So sad!! And this was few days after we got married.
Well all is in past now. My God, will see you through.

What u dont knw wont kill you.

Nobody holy pass! No one is a saint but like my friend's father would say to him;

"It is only a woman that knows the father of her child(ren)."

I am confused bros, really confused. I make love to my wife 3 times a night in at least 4 or 5 days per week. She even complains that I want to kill her with sex! I give her N100k every month in addition to the N80k she earns at work, so we don’t lack anything. The other car you shipped to me last year, I gave to her for our second year anniversary together! What else does this naughty woman want?

This is the bit that makes the story look unreal to me. I think this is just the beginning of a marketing stunt,

if above were to be correct, then the reason the wife is looking for sex somewhere else is obvious. if he had to have sex three times in one night, it means that he wasn't able to satisfy the woman, It is clear the love making was one sided, plug in and cum and boast thereafter or doing 3 rounds, not minding whether the woman cums or not. In this case the woman description of the man is right, He is a clown One good sex for a night will give a woman ultimate satisfaction and would not have the need to ask for more for another day or two.

I CANT SPY ON MY FIANCE PHONE,I DONT JUST LIKE IT.

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koltraders:

I am confused bros, really confused. I make love to my wife 3 times a night in at least 4 or 5 days per week. She even complains that I want to kill her with sex! I give her N100k every month in addition to the N80k she earns at work, so we don’t lack anything. The other car you shipped to me last year, I gave to her for our second year anniversary together! What else does this naughty woman want?

This is the bit that makes the story look unreal to me. I think this is just the beginning of a marketing stunt,  

if above were to be correct, then the reason the wife is looking for sex somewhere else is obvious. if he had to have sex three times in one night, it means that he wasn't able to satisfy the woman,  It is clear the love making was one sided,  plug in and come and boast thereafter or doing 3 rounds, not minding whether the woman cums or not. In this case the woman description of the man is right,  He is a clown One good sex for a night will give a woman ultimate satisfaction and would not have the need to ask for more for another day or two.

my years of studying women i have found out that they cheat not just because they need ordinary sexual fulfillment but because they want that cocaine-rush-feel one gets from a new secret lover (be it man or woman). its crazy but it true , for if she wants just sexual fulfillment in the scenario her husband is not adequate, a mere self servicing or a vibrator wud do the job.

my years of studying women i have found out that they cheat not just because they need ordinary sexual fulfillment but because they want that cocaine-rush-feel one gets from a new secret lover (be it man or woman). its crazy but it true , for if she wants just sexual fulfillment in the scenario her husband is not adequate, a mere self servicing or a vibrator wud do the job.

You are right in a way but if this woman in question was looking for a quick satisfaction she would rather do the real thing instead of a vibrator, For her to steadily keep 3 men means she is only with the husband for financial satisfaction while she gets the real thing outside. she is a freak on her own though, but coming back to the point I made earlier, if the husband does as much as satisfy her while they do it, then she would look out less.

What I would have recommended to the guy is

i) get her to invite or more of the men and do some sort of "party" or "foursome" to see what he doesn't have that the men have that attracts this woman to them like a magnet.

ii) instead of sending her away straight away he would first her to say the real reason she was having all the affairs so he could learn. This would have gone a long way to helping him with future relationship,

I dont need to spy, but if I suspect anything, I go turn russian agent.

tlops:

I dont need to spy, but if I suspect anything, I go turn russian agent.

ROTFLMAO

@poster
where has the good old dayz gone to, when it was all about sticks and stones, get urself a nice bat or better still a cutlass, stop wasting time and money
a head must roll, i suggest urs

*seriously marriage is built on trust*

Sometimes stories like this make you wonder if it worths 2 trust a lady,i remember how my friend's 4 years relatnshp collapsed last valentine wen he discovered his girlfriend was sleeping with her boss,mind you it was thru her phone

Yeah, I sure will if I suspect he's up to something. Cheats usually don't come out to say they are cheats, they have to be caught first,

Thats why if any sane person looks into my mind they'll be offended or call me monster. Sex fades away and we are all polygamous in nature. It could be serial polygamy or cheating. I suggest people shouldn't really marry they should just have partners. Or if you are with kids let the marriage expire at the 18th birthday of the last child if the purpose is to at-least let the kids grow in a family environment. Or keep open relatinships anybody can have sex if they want so no cheating. BEcause things happens, people will derail. You can't divorce your wife because she cheats unless you really dont just like her or can't stand her anymore. The next woman can do the same. So sex happens. Imagine you are the one cheating you would be happy in your mind na. Lets say she's only cheating with 3 guys but you are the type of guy like some of my friends that have new girlfriend every weekend. Can your wife beat that competition eh eh eh? Men way get crazy rap sheet no dey worry on little things like sex. THe p.ssy will always be there and same with the d.ck.

Sex with a new partner is always sweet. No matter how you try to deny this. I suggest open marriages. Or you guys join Player's clubs.

macjive01:

my years of studying women i have found out that they cheat not just because they need ordinary sexual fulfillment but because they want that cocaine-rush-feel one gets from a new secret lover (be it man or woman). its crazy but it true , for if she wants just sexual fulfillment in the scenario her husband is not adequate, a mere self servicing or a vibrator wud do the job.

You are correct but VIBRATORS don't work well with Nymphos .They always look for stronger men because they are insatiable.

emmatok:

You are correct but VIBRATORS don't work well with love-addicts .They always look for stronger men because they are insatiable.

Anyone in a marriage know what they are into, and know wat the vow means, the one prominent reason most woman early in their marriage wud keep secret lover is not for the sex, yes, a few cud be for the sex, but i tell u, the most is for that feel. That un-explainable cocaine-rush-feel. Thats why the sex is never the relax take-ur-time romance + love making, rather it always a panic hard core sex even when the have the house or hotel to themselves. also, that why most of the time they women wud have more than one F. buddy or open to more than one guy.

And, any woman who gets into that rage , that's it man, even if the husband is well endow and an ex-porn star she wud still snoop outside.

@OP
If my suspicions towards her is getting bolder. . .she left me no choice.

[color=#000099][/color] for the sake of God and ur son, please find a place in ur heart to forgive her, we are all humans, discuss with her ar ur wife to settle things out, try to make her understand how u feel. Please forgive her

STRANGE BUT TRUE!!!

Initially it's said that if one happened to see a SNAKE and Man simultaneusly, it's advisable to kill the man first for self-defence. Uhm?
Now with this kind of proof, who is more dangerous between a snake, man and WOEMAN?
The same woman that 'collabo' with the same snake to 'abracadabra' mankind.
Adam and Eve bought, we must PAY!!!
WOMAN, WOMAN, WOMAN, *coughing*

STRANGE BUT TRUE!!!

Initially it's said that if one happened to see a SNAKE and Man simultaneusly, it's advisable to kill the man first for self-defence. Uhm?
Now with this kind of proof, who is more dangerous between a snake, man and WOEMAN?
The same woman that 'collabo' with the same snake to 'abracadabra' mankind.
Adam and Eve bought, we must PAY!!!
WOMAN, WOMAN, WOMAN, *coughing*

Needless,my girl shows me everything herself,even boy messages

I think thank thT is not goog to spy on her what if the other person does the thing to you sure that you will not like it.

@poster
Tell dat your guy say somebody got to  pay,  those men , don,t they hv family too? if yes then pay back time man. don,t be a kitty and cry ,  those men are just schwein, can,t keep there brainless dumn d$ck where it belong.  CAN HE LOCATE THOSE MEN? :::: If yeah then i Don`t need to say more,  really sorry 4 him. some married women are just, 

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I won't caII it spy, rather checkin to ensure everythin is ok, especiaIIy when I notice some anomaIy.

When ignorance is bliss who wants to know. The first mistake you made is spying on your wife's phone. So you get what you asked for. Inasmuch as cheating is not the way forward, spouses grapple with other nerve-racking vices or idiosyncrasies. Have you ever considered a woman's pride and vanities? The list is unending. When you send your wife out to work, you forgot she has to compete with other men and she will need to prove she is on top of her acts and that means anything could happen. You could save yourself further embarrassment and pain by considering forgiveness and hope for a change of heart in your partner. No-one is perfect and your next possible mate could be worse in more ways than you have before you right now.
I hope this is a hypothesis: just wanting to sample opinions just in case. But if you are really telling us the truth, you are making a second mistake: washing your dirty pants in front of your mom, mother-in-law and now all of us. the truth is we can't help you anyway! There are more men suffering worse nightmares and yet self preservation and dignity make them keep mum. No-one else has any answers for you. Just do your thing.

InHim4Him:

When ignorance is bliss who wants to know. The first mistake you made is spying on your wife's phone. So you get what you asked for. Inasmuch as cheating is not the way forward, spouses grapple with other nerve-racking vices or idiosyncrasies. Have you ever considered a woman's pride and vanities? The list is unending. When you send your wife out to work, you forgot she has to compete with other men and she will need to prove she is on top of her acts and that means anything could happen. You could save yourself further embarrassment and pain by considering forgiveness and hope for a change of heart in your partner. No-one is perfect and your next possible mate could be worse in more ways than you have before you right now.
I hope this is a hypothesis: just wanting to sample opinions just in case. But if you are really telling us the truth, you are making a second mistake: washing your dirty pants in front of your mom, mother-in-law and now all of us. the truth is we can't help you anyway! There are more men suffering worse nightmares and yet self preservation and dignity make them keep mum. No-one else has any answers for you. Just do your thing.

My friend the DEVIL YOU KNOW IS BETTER THEN ANGELS YOU DON'T KNOW.

Its better you know what your spouse is up to, than to live in ignorance all in the name of trust.

It's not worth the stress. If you were a busy man as you claim, I don't think you would have had the time to spy into her phone and same goes to the woman too. To overcome, engage in something more productive - news and sports, Even if you see, pretend not to have seen. Another advice is that do not over-pamper your spouse - it is very dangerous. Always maintain a balance.