sweetyme001:
All Nigerian Adas don't have Sense they borrow Sense from their younger siblings. It will end in premium tears the day you run out of cash:

ebonflexy:

If I marry her, what specifically am I to expect in terms of "first daughter" from her village people?

sweetyme001:
All Nigerian Adas don't have Sense they borrow Sense from their younger siblings. It will end in premium tears the day you run out of cash:

ebonflexy:
I love this girl.
She told me she is an "Ada".
I understand that to mean that she is the first born daughter of her village (Somewhere in Abia state).

She is very beautfiful, hard working and industrious.
If I marry her, what specifically am I to expect in terms of "first daughter" from her village people?

ebonflexy:
I love this girl.
She told me she is an "Ada".
I understand that to mean that she is the first born daughter of her village (Somewhere in Abia state).

She is very beautfiful, hard working and industrious.
If I marry her, what specifically am I to expect in terms of "first daughter" from her village people?

culf:



expect responsibility. Be responsible not just financially.

Mariangeles:


Ndi Ada are mostly very responsible.
They are specially raised with a strong sense of obligation...especially toward their siblings.
They hardly look to others to carry their responsibility, instead they'll carry theirs and yours as well.
Their siblings are able to rely on them and they hardly disappoint. They're like sisters and mothers at the same time.

culf:



you're right. That's why in some part of Igbo land, you pay more for Them

Mariangeles:

Pay more for them?
They're priceless jewels, not commodities.

sweetyme001:
All Nigerian Adas don't have Sense they borrow Sense from their younger siblings. It will end in premium tears the day you run out of cash:

francdec4:
I hardly comment but I decided to do that on this one. Truth be told the Adas are the best you can get. They start early to learn some of the best attributes by virtue of them being the oldest child, virtues like selflessness as they put they siblings first before themselves, caring, calmness, maturity etc. If you see one with the above you mentioned don't let her go, marry her. That's my submission from experience.

PrimadonnaO:


Na wa o! You've probably had a bad peculiar experience with one. But your summation up there is very incorrect.

truthsayer009:


Interesting, so you're also an Ada too?.

PrimadonnaO:


Just because I corrected him?

PrimadonnaO:


Just because I corrected him?

cricifixo:
If u marry an ada in most families, be prepared to accommodate the whole members of ur wife's family especially d mum who will always try to seize control of ur home through her.

truthsayer009:

Yes. I mean it's so easy to be an "Ada" since it's just about first born daughters.

Chai, why are you invalidating our prestigious title?

crackhaus:
Despite all the accolades showered on these 'Adas' here, I have met and know a few who are nothing but extremely silly, entitled, and very badly-behaved.
This entitled trait is actually quite common with a lot of 'Adas' – this is the part no one likes to talk about.

However, I'm usually of the opinion that people ought to be judged based on their unique individualities, than on what their position in the family "represents".

Mariangeles:


Ndi Ada are mostly very responsible.
They are specially raised with a strong sense of obligation...especially toward their siblings.
They hardly look to others to carry their responsibility, instead they'll carry theirs and yours as well.
Their siblings are able to rely on them and they hardly disappoint. They're like sisters and mothers at the same time.

truthsayer009:


So you finally agree that you are an Ada lol.

Mariangeles:

Whose fault is it then if you only meet the "wrong ones"?
One's personality determines the kind of people they attract you know?

I can only agree with you on the entitled part to a certain extent (they mostly act like entitled princesses because it's part of how they were raised) ...then again, we all have flaws in general. Nobody's perfect.

crackhaus:

She took the bait. Lmao...

There were two people on this thread whom I knew would take my comment personal – you are the second...

And stop typing "they", it's all too obvious you're an Ada.

Liposure:
Only an ada can talk like this. I knew it.

Mariangeles:


I don't know what you're talking about o