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Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by nyiamfrank: 12:46pm On Mar 29, 2021
I'm sorry if the title doesn't match, but here is the story.

Yesterday Sunday, I was in my boss's house as I am working with him as an aide. While the boss was yet in the bedroom, his wife walked towards me in the lobby with a black polythene.

As soon as she heard the sound of the bedroom door open she quickly threw the bag and its contents to me and signaled me to hide it and I did just that. They are no CCTV cameras anyway.

Throughout the day, she never had the opportunity of telling me anything until they dropped me off.

As soon as I got home, I opened the bag and discovered it was 73 bills $100. She texted me to confirm the amount and I told her 68 because I know she didn't count it and I have already siphoned 5 notes.

The boss will fly to Abuja by 10am tomorrow. I am confused, too many questions on my mind right now.

Should I tell the boss, what will happen to their marriage?

Should I keep quiet, what if the boss finds out, what about my job? Moreover, I must confess, the boss has been excellent to me.

Should I japa, what if they report me to the police that I did the stealing, that is why I ran.

Your candid advice, please. This will go a long way in helping people who may find themselves in my situation right now.

Meanwhile, this is not Biafra, Oduduwa or Arewa issue, please be guided.

Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by longetivity(m): 12:51pm On Mar 29, 2021
You want to runaway with ur boss wife abi
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by Bornsinner7: 12:51pm On Mar 29, 2021
They say "Toto wey curve na prick go straight am"..

It means for every action there's a consequence grin..

Well.. just tell the wife how much is the total amount then call your boss and narrate what happened.. as for the money.. I'll quote you on a dead thread to send you my account details where you can wire the money into for your safety..
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by Nobody: 12:54pm On Mar 29, 2021
Ur story is incomplete, who owns the money If the money belongs to ur boss then tell him. If u refuse to tell him, he will later find out and his wife may even deny giving u any money, it may also cost u ur job. Fear women!!
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by nyiamfrank: 12:59pm On Mar 29, 2021
Shabaleen:
Ur story is incomplete, who owns the money If the money belongs to ur boss then tell him. If u refuse to tell him, he will later find out and his wife may even deny giving u any money, it may also cost u ur job. Fear women!!
Well, bro, with all indications, she stole from oga.
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by frozen70(f): 1:03pm On Mar 29, 2021
nyiamfrank:
I'm sorry if the title doesn't match, but here is the story.

Yesterday Sunday, I was in my boss's house as I am working with him as an aide. While the boss was yet in the bedroom, his wife walked towards me in the lobby with a black polythene.

As soon as she heard the sound of the bedroom door open she quickly threw the bag and its contents to me and signaled me to hide it and I did just that. They are no CCTV cameras anyway.

Throughout the day, she never had the opportunity of telling me anything until they dropped me off.

As soon as I got home, I opened the bag and discovered it was 73 bills $100. She texted me to confirm the amount and I told her 68 because I know she didn't count it and I have already siphoned 5 notes.

The boss will fly to Abuja by 10am tomorrow. I am confused, too many questions on my mind right now.

Should I tell the boss, what will happen to their marriage?

Should I keep quiet, what if the boss finds out, what about my job? Moreover, I must confess, the boss has been excellent to me.

Should I japa, what if they report me to the police that I did the stealing, that is why I ran.

Your candid advice, please. This will go a long way in helping people who may find themselves in my situation right now.

Meanwhile, this is not Biafra, Oduduwa or Arewa issue, please be guided.

I will advise you keep sealed lips in this first deal

Watch out for the second one and thats when you will bring the report to your boss

It's better to be faithful to your boss than playing a hide and seek deal with the wife

Fear women with their plans, they don't play a game that doesn't favour them
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by Nobody: 1:06pm On Mar 29, 2021
nyiamfrank:
Well, bro, with all indications, she stole from oga.
then inform ur boss, if not, it will end in tears.
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by Jashub: 1:10pm On Mar 29, 2021
My dear brother, I strongly suggest you confront your boss with the truth. The reason I say so is because of the following

1. He has been good to you ; and has never robbed you of your wages. So it would be unfair stealing from him.

2. There is the issue of blackmail which can come from the wife in future ; and surely, you would not want to be in a compromising position in future all because of $7300.

3. Then lastly, the truth setting you free : you will have to tell the truth regarding this matter : forget about destroying your boss's marriage ; or being arrested ; or having a tarnished image. You are only doing this because you want a clear conscience. And a clear conscience is far better than any earthly reward out there.


Peace.

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Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by lavylilly: 1:16pm On Mar 29, 2021
Well, prostitution in whatever form will continue to be lucrative till eternity. Men generally, will always want sex, so a good percentage of oyour income will go to satisfying that. Whether that'd be with girlfriend, brothel
hookers, runs website hookers, porn, girlfriends, FWBs, escorts etc.

It is so tempting and easy for women to fvck for money. It's just a matter of morality and that doesn't mean anything for some people especially in the face of poverty, greed and laziness.

Who knows, maybe I'd have fvcked for money too,
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by harmargedon: 1:37pm On Mar 29, 2021
The only thing that remains forever is the truth, tell him what happened, and no matter the outcome, even if it means you leaving the job. But one day he'll always remember that you we're right.
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by Richy4(m): 2:19pm On Mar 29, 2021
There are so many loopholes on this story

<<<How did she get your number since you were not working with her but your Boss?
<<< How did she get to trust you so much to the extent of throwing Dollars at you to hide?
<<<when she called you, what was the conversation? did she tell you where she got the money from? did you even asked?

Now, Speaking of Running away, Are you seriously thinking/ considering running away with money you knew next to nothing about?.. Do it dear and she will do to you Jezebel's style of judgement or Potiphar’s Wife style of Judgement...Your integrity is questionable at the moment because you have already started dipping your hands on the cookie jar by siphoning what was not yours....If 8 people tells you to run, u will definitely run..U just wanted confirmation...

But incase you don't want to run, Then do not tell your boss..,. Give her back her money... It might even be a test to know if you can be trusted around the house/ with businesses...

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Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by crackhaus: 3:29pm On Mar 29, 2021
I have read this stuff over and over again and all I keep seeing is SETUP.

The ONLY thing you can do in secret with the wife of your boss and be sure she's not trying to set you up is sex, because she would have to be suicidal to expose her own infidelity.

But on this matter, the situation is too dicey.
You already involved yourself by going home with that money.

Even if you inform your boss about it now and his wife tells him another story to counter yours, who do you think he will believe between the both of you?

My street sense is telling me to tell you to just japa... but thank God say I godly. grin
Oya report yourself and face the consequences.

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Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by Vyolet(f): 3:32pm On Mar 29, 2021
You are a thief for taking 5 notes from the loot and this means you can't be trusted.
The woman may have counted it while you assume she didn't.

You are in trouble either way, inform your boss and watch her turn the whole thing on you, she will claim you stole the money and she wasn't aware.

If you return it to her and tell her you don't want to be part of the deal, she will tell her husband you want to rape her.

You need to learn some lesson from your covetousness.

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Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by KnightsTemplar(m): 3:33pm On Mar 29, 2021
You'll be labelled a thief when the owner of the money finds out and start looking for the money, and bet me, he'll find out. You are with an exhibit, fingers Will be pointed at you, including the finger's of the one who threw the loot to you. You'll loose your job and spend some time in detention. Better return the one you've stolen and tell the husband. If you get away with this one, you might not be fortunate next time, cause the wife will continue using you, maybe one day, she'll float the idea, that you guys can make more if you kill the husband....op do you feel me.

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Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by GboyegaD(m): 3:47pm On Mar 29, 2021
Kindly return the exact amount to the woman without listening to stories. As for telling your boss, you don't have to. Going forward, do not take anything from the wife except your boss is present.

I am trying to think why you have the thought to run away with another person's money?

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Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by 1F30M4(f): 4:03pm On Mar 29, 2021
OP, dis your tori get as e be.

Anyways, if this really happened.. I don't think "running away with the money" should be on your mind now.. Firstly, you don't even know how the money came about.. Secondly, you don't know who she got it from, you're saying she "stole" it from "her husband", based on assumptions.. I dunno but what if she got the money from illegal means, what if she low-key does dirty deals.. Okayy, let's say she stole it from your boss.. You don't see that she could have a hidden agenda, you Frank is going be her pawn lol

I'd advise you to return that which you've cornered into your pocket, e get why.. If she doesn't reach out to you, reach out to her and tell her that there are robbery cases in your vicinity and keeping such amount of money there is not advisable so you were thinking of bringing it back for safety reasons plus you'd suggest she pays it into her bank account as that's the best option

Make sure you convince her to collect "her" money back, stick to your word, don't let her brainwash you sha.. Okwa maka ndu gi, iykyk
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by Matheusmartin: 4:17pm On Mar 29, 2021
Fake idiotic story.

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Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by JovialJune(f): 4:21pm On Mar 29, 2021
Bornsinner7:
They say "Toto wey curve na prick go straight am"..

It means for every action there's a consequence grin..

Well.. just tell the wife how much is the total amount then call your boss and narrate what happened.. as for the money.. I'll quote you on a dead thread to send you my account details where you can wire the money into for your safety..


Hehehe ole ni e cheesy

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Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by MufasaLion: 4:32pm On Mar 29, 2021
1. It's either she wants to start having something with you.
2. Maybe she and her husband are testing your loyalty.
3. Maybe she actually wanted to give you out of kindness without her husband knowing but it turned out she couldn't do it because her husband was approaching.

It's good to be loyal but don't be foolish with it.
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by GorillaApp(m): 6:35pm On Mar 29, 2021
Op I hsve only one comment. Do you remember Joseph and Potipher's wife in the Bible?
Enuf said already cool
Re: Should I Tell The Boss? Nairalanders Pls Help by Nobody: 5:24am On Mar 30, 2021
nyiamfrank:
I'm sorry if the title doesn't match, but here is the story.

Yesterday Sunday, I was in my boss's house as I am working with him as an aide. While the boss was yet in the bedroom, his wife walked towards me in the lobby with a black polythene.

As soon as she heard the sound of the bedroom door open she quickly threw the bag and its contents to me and signaled me to hide it and I did just that. They are no CCTV cameras anyway.

Throughout the day, she never had the opportunity of telling me anything until they dropped me off.

As soon as I got home, I opened the bag and discovered it was 73 bills $100. She texted me to confirm the amount and I told her 68 because I know she didn't count it and I have already siphoned 5 notes.

The boss will fly to Abuja by 10am tomorrow. I am confused, too many questions on my mind right now.

Should I tell the boss, what will happen to their marriage?

Should I keep quiet, what if the boss finds out, what about my job? Moreover, I must confess, the boss has been excellent to me.

Should I japa, what if they report me to the police that I did the stealing, that is why I ran.

Your candid advice, please. This will go a long way in helping people who may find themselves in my situation right now.

Meanwhile, this is not Biafra, Oduduwa or Arewa issue, please be guided.
U Are A Criminal. Why Would U Steal 4rm What She Gave To U? U Better Tell Her D Correct Amount. Give Her Back Whatever She Has Given To U. If Ur Boss Finds Out, Tell Him Dat It Was His Wife Dat Gave U D Stuffs. By So Doing, U Av Saved Urself 4rm D Impending Trouble Ahead.

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