LifeIssues101:
Honestly, this is on point

Most mothers do not care about themselves

I am a culprit and I need better cane from people like you to remind me ALWAYS

Cos it actually hurts sometimes, we just keep our cool and humble like our mother taught us

Sacrifices mothers endure, most fathers can not.

But seriously we need to take care of ourselves to be able to care for our family.
Am also learning this gradually too

cococandy:
I do it too. I have to constantly remind myself to think of myself too. It’s not necessarily a bad thing but you can’t pour from an empty cup. So, put yourself and care for yourself first sometimes so that you have adequate reserves to replenish the others who you care for.

True

eyinjuege:


Only the man gets the meat everyday while his wife and children go without.
Problem started when she gave the children the meat 1 day out of the 7 days of the week.
Their father was the only one who ate meat 6 days out of 7.
It's not too much to allow the children taste meat too please.
I hope the OP is supplementing their diets with other things sha

Your comprehension skill is 100%

sysengr:


I surprise too ooo
This one go worse pass my husband.

Even food, AishaYesufu will not allow his wife and children eat because it is his hard labour.

Ignore that fellow biko. His or her utterances doesn't define you. You made the best choice by giving the children the meat especially when your husband has been the only one eating the meat. If he wants more meat, let him buy the meat. The balderdash that some folks are going on and on about here doesn't matter. You own your kids and you know what is best for them. They are still growing, your husband stopped growing, so they need more protein than him.

Mindlog:
This is really sad to read. Just imagining the 500gms of meat used to prepare both stew and soup that lasts a week and how a father feels comfortable with him being the only one eating the meat in the family while his wife and children stare at him, got angry when the meat was given to his own children who needs the protein more than him.

He's the alpha and omega and he is the king of the jungle according to Draslo

Prettiepearlz:

Ignore that fellow biko. His or her utterances doesn't define you. You made the best choice by giving the children the meat especially when your husband has been the only one eating the meat. If he wants more money, let him buy the meat. That balderdash that some folks are going on and on about doesn't matter. You own your kids and you know what is best for them. They are still growing, your husband stopped growing so they need more protein than him.

Thanks dear.

Ardar:


You sure say you no be the husband? Cuz the way you carry this matter for head eh.

I can't marry a woman like OP

cococandy:


If you’re like this about small things, imagine how you would react to higher/bigger stuff? Do other people matter too?

You don’t even know what consists a home breaking attitude. You just use those words against any lady (coc0candy) who disagrees with you.

See, Anyone who is consistently selfish,100% of the time without consideration for the others in the family is the one who is breaking the home by himself or herself. It won’t be long before the other family members will resent them. It’s a no brainer. You don’t even have to think about it to see that it is true.

The husband is not a foolish man not to share with his children. OP denied him meat to ridicule and disrespect him because of his financial challenges.

libartay:


Stupid jackass..fxck off my mention you giddy goat.
Imbecilic ancient ethnic ape. Piece of meat kee you there! Wicked soul

another g0at! Ode niyen... Oloshi

eyinjuege:


Only the man gets the meat everyday while his wife and children go without.
Problem started when she gave the children the meat 1 day out of the 7 days of the week.
Their father was the only one who ate meat 6 days out of 7.
It's not too much to allow the children taste meat too please.
I hope the OP is supplementing their diets with other things sha

Is this what you read or you decided to misread? The whole family eat meat everyday but a dinner where only one meat was left, OP decided to use that avenue to ridicule and disrespect the innocent man simply because he isn't financially buoyant. Make Una de validate her...

sysengr:


I can see comprehension is your problem.

I create thread to know what am doing wrong and learn.

'Deny him cos of fin challenges' for only Sunday night? Meanwhile he ate the meat alone on Sunday morning ooo and has always been eating it even this night ooo.

In fact I won't reply you again.

You are full of insults, grow up!

Go pour your anger elsewhere and stay off my thread let me reason with sensible people please.

Go create your thread to praise your wife and make her look sensible if at all you are married.

you created this thread not to learn anything but to validate your misbehavior. Kontinue

ImaIma1:


He's the alpha and omega and he is the king of the jungle according to Draslo

Now you're just twisting my words.

Draslo:

Now you're just twisting my words.

Haba! Didn't you liken the man to the king of the jungle?

AishaYesufu:

Is this what you read or you decided to misread? The whole family eat meat everyday but a dinner where only one meat was left, OP decided to use that avenue to ridicule and disrespect the innocent man simply because he isn't financially buoyant. Make Una de validate her...

Ridicle? For his own children again? Please how is meat now part of showing respect or disrespect. Some of you men just like to see disrespect in everything and take offence at every little thing.

Children need meat more than adults.

ImaIma1:


Haba! Didn't you liken the man to the king of the jungle?

I meant the alpha and omega part nawww.

Draslo:
I meant the alpha and omega part nawww.

The part I said was from you was the king of the jungle. Read my comment again.

AishaYesufu:

I can't marry a woman like OP

No woman deserves to marry a man like you sir

ImaIma1:


The part I said was from you was the king of the jungle. Read my comment again.

So you wouldn't refer to your husband as your lord?

The children

Draslo:

So you wouldn't refer to your husband as your lord?

It's not that deep. Even my husband will think I have gone crazy if I call him my lord.

The ideal thing to do is to serve the man as a mark of honour and respect. Now at the table, a good and loving father will share that one piece of meat for everybody and most probably exclude himself.

What a thread

The POT to avoid stories

AishaYesufu:
you created this thread not to learn anything but to validate your misbehavior. Kontinue

It is really annoying to see men ridiculing a fellow man over a woman's complain without hearing from the man.

ImaIma1:


It's not that deep. Even my husband will think I have gone crazy if I call him my lord.

I misspoke.

What I meant was don't you see him as your lord, in the sense of the word, not necessarily calling him 'lord'.

Draslo:

I misspoke.

What I meant was don't you see him as your lord, in the sense of the word, not necessarily calling him 'lord'.

What he is to me and what I see him as...a lover, father, teacher, protector, brother, fan, supporter and a perfect fit for me.

We don't operate the Master and subject relationship.

mum2bsoon:


No woman deserves to marry a man like you sir

only stupid men marry your kind

Cococandy said the bitter truth,at a pt in this motherhood,a woman gotta be selfish.

Some let go of food,some their underwears/clothing are faded,some their bad hairs are now hidden underneath old wigs,their shoes has seen better days.

Eat the meat or give the children.If he wants more meat,bring more money.

LadySarah:
Cococandy said the bitter truth,at a pt in this motherhood,a woman gotta be selfish.

Some let go of food,some their underwears/clothing are faded,some their bad hairs are now hidden underneath old wigs,their shoes has seen better days.

Eat the meat or give the children.If he wants more meat,bring more money.

True.
What mothers go through for their families only God will bless us.
Thanks