I'm beginning to think she's just trying to punish me. She's not even up to 3months gone and the pregnancy is barely showing and she's stressing my life.

When I'm on my way back home in the evening, I will call her to ask her if she wants anything, she will tell me no but when I get home, she will either she wants suya, sometimes chicken or sometimes sharwarma.

The other day she said she wanted akara on a sunday afternoon, please tell me where I go see that one na.

When her mumu brother came, she was able to cook for him and serve him food but I can't remember the last time she did that for me.

She presses phone all day while I do everything.

Is pregnancy that hard?
I'm thinking of punishing her or what do you advise I do?

What kind of relationship are you guys into?

Cos I don't understand why you will use that description for her brother and why she will have to torture you just because she's carrying your baby.

My sister told me pregnancy isn't a burden that you will only feel it when are about due but you see some ladies behaving like they are carrying two bags of cement, I dy wait woman wey go come use pregnancy as a tool for any form of punishment for me

Pregnancy differs for every woman. For some it's an easy journey, for others it's difficult and it could also be life threatening too.
Some women see it as an avenue to stress their spouses and be lazy. This is very wrong.

However the spouse should be there for the pregnant wife cos she is going thru alot of hormonal changes which might affect her moods, appetite and reactions.

Entayali:
I'm beginning to think she's just trying to punish me. She's not even up to 3months gone and the pregnancy is barely showing and she's stressing my life.

When I'm on my way back home in the evening, I will call her to ask her if she wants anything, she will tell me no but when I get home, she will either she wants suya, sometimes chicken or sometimes sharwarma.

The other day she said she wanted akara on a sunday afternoon, please tell me where I go see that one na.

When her mumu brother came, she was able to cook for him and serve him food but I can't remember the last time she did that for me.

She presses phone all day while I do everything.

Is pregnancy that hard?
I'm thinking of punishing her or what do you advise I do?

She's doing it intentionally and you have to step up

Entayali:
I'm beginning to think she's just trying to punish me. She's not even up to 3months gone and the pregnancy is barely showing and she's stressing my life.

When I'm on my way back home in the evening, I will call her to ask her if she wants anything, she will tell me no but when I get home, she will either she wants suya, sometimes chicken or sometimes sharwarma.

The other day she said she wanted akara on a sunday afternoon, please tell me where I go see that one na.

When her mumu brother came, she was able to cook for him and serve him food but I can't remember the last time she did that for me.

She presses phone all day while I do everything.

Is pregnancy that hard?
I'm thinking of punishing her or what do you advise I do?

Oga if you are truthful to yourself you married a LAZY WOMAN.I wonder how your home will look like the whole place will litter with dirt and smelly.
I bet you her attitude will frustrate you and the problem is that you cause it by not stamping your foot when the relationship was new.Your woman is LAZY and entitled

Entayali:
I'm beginning to think she's just trying to punish me. She's not even up to 3months gone and the pregnancy is barely showing and she's stressing my life.

When I'm on my way back home in the evening, I will call her to ask her if she wants anything, she will tell me no but when I get home, she will either she wants suya, sometimes chicken or sometimes sharwarma.

The other day she said she wanted akara on a sunday afternoon, please tell me where I go see that one na.

When her mumu brother came, she was able to cook for him and serve him food but I can't remember the last time she did that for me.

She presses phone all day while I do everything.

Is pregnancy that hard?
I'm thinking of punishing her or what do you advise I do?

Lazy woman. Pregnancy isnt a disability

Mrscarter:


Lazy woman. Pregnancy isnt a disability

I agree but the kind of fatigue one goes through sometimes is something else. It’s not easy but some women make it seem harder than it is

kinkybabie11:


I agree but the kind of fatigue one goes through sometimes is something else. It’s not easy but some women make it seem harder than it is

Yeah i was very active during mine. Everything had to be super clean.
Ofcourse u need extra rest when pregnant but i was very active right up til the day i gave birth.
Some ppl can have medical issues tho during pregnancy that can affect how active u can be but those who are healthy theres no need to b lazy or put unnecessary pressure on ur husband