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My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by tayeloveme4rel: 8:15pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
Am twenty and a poly undergraduate,these morning just because i change my phone's body case of N500 she starts to look me in a furious way.mind you i have been using this phone since i was in js3 and it has been falling and falling since those years,she bought my other siblings phones but all she tell me is to wait for my time i agreed and wait it almost 7years now That i have been using the phone without complain.so this evening when i was helping her doing some chores she started frowning at me next thing i heard was a slap,she took a cane and started beating me i was pained i cried my heart out.i use to be quiet and calm whenever she is beating me but this evening i spoke out my mind shouting and yelling at her(i told her is it because i bought a second new phone body case she is acting strange or what she kept abusing and and cursing me that am a barstard)i cried heavly i felt like taking poision but i think about it and stoped the thinkinq as am writing these with a depressed and deprived heart |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by falcon01: 8:17pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
omoh your wahala no be here oo!! only you know what to do |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by ictjobber: 8:18pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
Twenty year old baby... Wetin person no fit see for Nairaland does not exist My Candid advice. Your mom still sees you as a kid. You need to let her know that you ain't one anymore. Next time she tries to flog you, instead of just rolling over and crying like a toddler, hold the cane and snatch it from her, if she tries to slap you, hold her hand. you no be drum. By the time you don do am like three times respect go come naturally.... 4 Likes |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by Ammishaddai: 8:20pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
tayeloveme4rel:You are not a bastard and it is a pity that your mum's paranoia is getting the better of her. But I suggest you meet your dad, or someone who is close to your mother and discuss this predicament. And lastly, do not exchange words with her ; she is your mother and you are to honor her. Peace 1 Like |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by tayeloveme4rel: 8:20pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
falcon01: HOW DO U mean sir pls i need help am depressed and denied my provisions as a child in my family |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by tayeloveme4rel: 8:22pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
Ammishaddai: ok thanks am very gratefull my mother is just too harsh on me |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by Kriss216: 8:23pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
she kept abusing and and cursing me that am a barstard)i cried heavly How else do you want her to explain your paternity? Research more about your father. Is your father truly your father? Is she truly your mother? I see no reason why an undergraduate changed his phone case and brings unnecessary hatred and evil. You need to start asking questions. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by Ammishaddai: 8:23pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
tayeloveme4rel:Try and meet someone who is close to her and discuss the matter. Because right now, you need the listening ear of someone who can serve as an advocate between you and your mother |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by donstan18: 8:23pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
tayeloveme4rel:Please DO NOT overlook this “Bastard” statement, people truly say how they feel when they are angry. That’s the best time to pay attention to people to know what they are capable of, the truth and what they have in mind for you. Always keep it in mind that she addressed you as a bastard and never expect much to avoid breaking down when you find out the truth about that statement. No biological mother will call her child a bastard. 4 Likes |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by GboyegaD(m): 8:23pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
tayeloveme4rel: Do you have something you do that fetches you income? Are you self sustaining? If yes, talk to her and your dad on why you want to move out to rent a place no matter how small as you need your sanity. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by OlayemiAshraf(m): 8:24pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
Op are you a male or female .... Light my kpoli |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by falcon01: 8:26pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
tayeloveme4rel:Ok let me be straight with you, you problem ain't getting better I ain't gonna lie to make you feel good. it's an issue that's deep down from the root you just have to endure the sh*t till you become an independent man But for now it ain't stopping just Learn to live with it. if you have any where else to go fine, but if Not just push it down and keep living the Hell! |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by LadySarah: 8:30pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
A 20 yr old isnt a child anymore.Get it into your head. |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by Mrsoft3(m): 8:34pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
ictjobber: Why are you like this for God sake, atleast have the fear of God. Did you do this same thing you are asking the op to do? And is this right im any way? The bible said obey you father and mother so that your days will be long on earth. If your mum beats you because you buy a phone cover that is not justified enough,parent don't do things like that, I will advice you to go to her and apologies and ask what exactly do you do to warrant such treatment from her. You are no longer a kid no doubt,but maturity simply means being responsible. You will have kids one day. So try and be a good child |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by UDUJ(m): 9:38pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
donstan18: Dman I am forced to agree with you. No mother can call her child a bastard, no matter how angry she is. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by sageb: 9:52pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
tayeloveme4rel: an undergraduate that is being flogged with cain. you need to grow up. |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by frozen70(f): 10:57pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
tayeloveme4rel: You have tolerated enough from her and to avoid you having a fixcuff with her, just plan and find a relationship you either report her or you leave the house for good What about your dad? |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by culf: 11:11pm On Apr 23, 2021 |
if you can hustle to see yourself through school, I will advice you leave there to somewhere else. Be strong and patient |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by chatinent: 12:21am On Apr 24, 2021 |
Don't make a decision now you'll regret twenty years later. I'm sorry you feel bad. Just be yourself. Everything will be fine. |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by olatunbosun12362: 5:04am On Apr 24, 2021 |
:omoh your wahala no be here oo!! only you know what to do HOW DO U mean sir pls i need help am depressed and denied my provisions as a child in my family |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by sisisioge: 5:08am On Apr 24, 2021 |
tayeloveme4rel: Taye, you cant think of yourself as a child and expect your mom to treat you as an adult. At 20yrs, a lot of people are taking care of themselves without depending on their parents anymore. Please try to personally develop yourself first, find something small to do that will fetch you money and everything else will fall into place. By the way, there is something unique to Polys, especially those village Polys that make you guys act weird. Once you're done with the OND, biko consider changing narratives. Good luck. |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by Kestolove(m): 1:35pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
if your mum call you a bastard ask her to show u your father or you will kill her 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by kendological(m): 2:44pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
Where is your father? |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by ictjobber: 4:16pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
Mrsoft3: ... Your life must be very miserable.. Continue being a simp. Just so you know... I am more closer to my mom than you will ever be with yours. |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by Nobody: 11:57pm On Apr 24, 2021 |
Mrsoft3:Can you go and steal if your father ask you to simply because the bible telks you to obey them |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by VTJN(m): 8:19am On Apr 25, 2021 |
ictjobber:sincerely speaking wetin person no fit see for nairaland truly does not exist You are one of them! Why will you dish out such kinda barbaric advice to someone? Is better you view and take a walk than this unpalatable advice Anyway, you've already said it all in your first paragraph |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by ictjobber: 8:26am On Apr 25, 2021 |
VTJN: A simp won't understand... |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by VTJN(m): 8:28am On Apr 25, 2021 |
ictjobber:A mysogynist will obviously do... |
Re: My Mother Want Me To Commit Sucide Help Please by Dncl2021: 11:59am On Apr 25, 2021 |
tayeloveme4rel: Your mother loves you she sees you as a kid, next time dont talk back to your mother and try talk to someone closer to her |
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