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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by YoungLionken(m): 2:34pm On May 02
Self love is the key to longevity...

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by incogni2o: 2:36pm On May 02
Shile981:
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You misunderstood the post, the main reason you quoted that part of the scripture.

Pls can you explain?

IMO, the OP is just trying to fit a square peg in a round hole.

Self love is non of those things listed.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by YoungLionken(m): 2:39pm On May 02
Those are no Nigerian special forces...
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Queenserah26(f): 2:41pm On May 02
Thank you OP. Self love is key honestly.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Olodo24: 2:41pm On May 02
Nice write up. Really inspiring.

However, I think low self esteem/lack of self worth comes up as a result of personal experiences. The way one gets treated repeatedly will surely make one question his/her worth. But at the same time, when the ill treatment happens so often, we should evaluate ourselves and see what we're doing wrong. If it's about physical appearance, then we need to always dress smart, use our intellectuals and develop confidence because confidence is highly attractive.

Everyone deserves to be loved

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Psalmistproject: 2:43pm On May 02
This sermon is for Americans.
Here in Nigeria what we have is crave for greed.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by gamyy(m): 2:48pm On May 02
incogni2o:
Self love is dangerous.

Its fake Love.

It's selfish.

In lowliness of heart, Let each esteem others higher than themselves

I don't think so...maybe if it's taken to the extreme

Even Jesus said love your neighbor as you love yourself...so we are expected to love ourselves...but not be selfish.. cos love also do make sacrifices

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Oshokalo: 2:50pm On May 02
bukky1994:
why should it be on d list or r u a fan of it?
that's if the meaning of love to u is sex
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by incogni2o: 2:53pm On May 02
gamyy:


I don't think so...maybe if it's taken to the extreme

Even Jesus said love your neighbor as you love yourself...so we are expected to love ourselves...but not be selfish.. cos love also do make sacrifices

Thanks for that perspective.

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by johncallidon(m): 2:55pm On May 02
binarymachine:
Source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/04/20/5-easy-ways-to-practice-self-love/
OP. thank you for this article, I'm the one you preached to. I feel relief with this Massage. once again Thanks alot.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by FaruqMadridCr7(m): 3:01pm On May 02
I'm fighting myself just because I feel less, I'm always afraid of few minor things.i don't know why while other people do what I can't do with confidence,I used to feel bad about myself like WTF can't I be like these people

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by ediko5(m): 3:05pm On May 02
This post has increased my energy.

Self love is one of the vital key to good health.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Shile981(m): 3:05pm On May 02
incogni2o:


Pls can you explain?

IMO, the OP is just trying to fit a square peg in a round hole.

Self love is non of those things listed.

Self-love is not the same as self centeredness.
In the post, the OP make mention of some people hating some parts of their body, their natural self etc.
I don't think loving your body figure, your talents, your skin color and some natural things about you is selfishness. If I haven't convinced you enough, please go through the post again
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by cosse(m): 3:21pm On May 02
great stuff OP, great stuff
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by LMS1(m): 3:40pm On May 02
Lemmy123:
I sort of began to see myself in a different light, away from the usual low self esteemed fellow waiting for instructions or believing that other people are superior to me...
I used to follow girls around and wished they accepted me proposal until I discovered its not worth it and that these girls are not better than I am, I'm probably even better in the real sense of it but inferiority complex wouldn't let me see that...
I braced myself, got back up, dusted my shoulders and kept my head up high, treated myself the best I could, I go out when I have some money to throw around, have myself a good treat, eat the things I only fantasized about.. I refused to be judgmental and hard on myself and I'm enjoying what it means to put yourself first...
Bro Were Did U Learn Motivational Speaking?
You Sound Right grin
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by letitrainnow(m): 3:43pm On May 02
Great motivation
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by SweetDipBenny(m): 3:51pm On May 02
Notin about masturbation? Wat kind of half education is this angry
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by tydi(m): 4:10pm On May 02
nautybride:
I love myself but it has been termed selfishness.

Mine had been termed narcissism.

Wahala no too much??

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Hammyaladin(m): 4:18pm On May 02
Well, for me is:
Giving back to my family.
Smelling nice and also becoming a better version of me!!!
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Hammyaladin(m): 4:18pm On May 02
Well, for me is:
Giving back to my family.
Smelling nice and also becoming a better version of me!!!

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Lemmy123(m): 4:19pm On May 02
LMS1:
Bro Were Did U Learn Motivational Speaking? You Sound Right grin
Lol... No mind me oo, I no be motivational anything o
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by YoungBlackRico(m): 4:20pm On May 02
Well I know number 5 for a fact...I love me so much it's been termed selfishness by a close pal self...but I don't care, I just reply "Yes! I love me. Love you too" Lobatan!
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Goldbw122: 4:22pm On May 02
When you love your you don't actually care what other people intimidate you with, because you know who you are, and that is YOU
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Jmarjr(m): 4:23pm On May 02
DDDEnterprises:
I've sent a mail to you.

But you could just WhatsApp or call that number on my signature to make things easier.
will do just that
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by DDDEnterprises: 4:30pm On May 02
Jmarjr:
will do just that
Okay. I look forward to your message/call sir.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by Durklil: 5:01pm On May 02
Ok
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by bluefilm: 5:56pm On May 02
Nice points you've got there, Mr. Binarymachine.

Thanks so much for sharing them.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by jaxxy(m): 6:42pm On May 02
incogni2o:
Self love is dangerous.

Its fake Love.

It's selfish.

In lowliness of heart, Let each esteem others higher than themselves

U cannot love anybody without 1st loving urself.

Or u want people to practice self hate?

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by bukatyne(f): 7:05pm On May 02
incogni2o:
Self love is dangerous.

Its fake Love.

It's selfish.

In lowliness of heart, Let each esteem others higher than themselves

Self love is not same as being selfish.

Love your neighbor as you LOVE YOURSELF.

If you don't love yourself, how can you love your neighbor?

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by bukatyne(f): 7:07pm On May 02
gamyy:


I don't think so...maybe if it's taken to the extreme

Even Jesus said love your neighbor as you love yourself...so we are expected to love ourselves...but not be selfish.. cos love also do make sacrifices

Well said.

There is a difference between self-love and selfishness.

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Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by bukatyne(f): 7:11pm On May 02
nautybride:
I love myself but it has been termed selfishness.

Well self-love is different from being selfish.

If you consistently get feedback that you are selfish, maybe you are.

Re-evaluate yourself and change if required.

tydi:


Mine had been termed narcissism.

Wahala no too much??

Same as above.
Re: 5 Easy Ways To Practice Self-love by tydi(m): 7:17pm On May 02
bukatyne:


Well self-love is different from being selfish.

If you consistently get feedback that you are selfish, maybe you are.

Re-evaluate yourself and change if required.

You can’t be right . I can’t be fighting for what is mine and you term it selfishness.

You can’t be right . I can’t be fighting for what is mine and you term it selfishness.





Same as above.

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