Good Afternoon Everyone.
When I was around 10 yrs old (probably younger), I had séx with my cousin, they lives close to our house. It was a mistake, we didn't even knew what it(séx) was then, we were playing and that's when it all happened. But before that, I was in a place where some guys were watching blue film and I happened to see it, that's the first blue film I watched. So I think that's what taught me what how séx happens, but even before I did it, I fully didn't understood what it was.
After the incident, I felt bad. But thank God the girl didn't get pregnant because our bodies weren't yet matured then, otherwise that could have put me in trouble.
But I haven't had any séx since then. So am I still a virgin or not? Can I still consider myself as a virgin? Because I don't know if I am, after all, I didn't even understood what séx was all about, then.
Please don't judge me, If I could avoid it then, I would. But I couldn't. No insults please.

Maybe you should see a doctor. They can check you and confirm.

You're no longer a virgin, but you can keep being celibate till you're fully ready to be intimately committed to someone.

Why does it matter to you whether you're still a virgin or not?

Teaveapoet:
Maybe you should see a doctor. They can check you and confirm.

No, it's not something serious.
It's just that I'm wondering if I'm still a virgin... because I'm still confused about it.

mariahAngel:
You're no longer a virgin, but you can keep being celibate till you're fully ready to be intimately committed to someone.

Why does it matter to you whether you're still a virgin or not?

Okay, maybe I am not.

Well, it doesn't actually matter to me that much... but I'm confused about it.

Too bad that you had such experience at 10, those adults that couldn't make their privacy private should be severely punished. This is very Absurd, you lost your virginity at 10.

caesymore:
Too bad that you had such experience at 10, those adults that couldn't make their privacy private should be severely punished. This is very Absurd, you lost your virginity at 10.

That's so sad for me, and I wish it didn't happened.

Chai! 10 yrs old. That's how a neighbour's niece in Jss3 was fooling around with her class mate in the bathroom. That innocent play resulted into twins

ImaIma1:
Chai! 10 yrs old. That's how a neighbour's niece in Jss3 was fooling around with her class mate in the bathroom. That innocent play resulted into twins

Two what?! that's a double punishment!
Well, they have matured bodies. I was around primary 4 when I did mine.
Our bodies weren't yet matured then, otherwise my own for don finish be that.

DriftOff:
Two what?! that's a double punishment!
Well, they have matured bodies. I was around primary 4 when I did mine.
Our bodies weren't yet matured then, otherwise my own for don finish be that.

I think they were both in jss 2 sef. When they asked them, they said they were just playing in the bathroom. The little girl became a mother of twins at that young age, with such responsibility.

ImaIma1:


I think they were both in jss 2 sef. When they asked them, they said they were just playing in the bathroom. The little girl became a mother of twins at that young age, with such responsibility.

Kids giving birth to kids, isn't God wonderful. They were really unfortunate, some would do the same thing and get away with it without any evidence of the act. Well, it is what it is— life no balance.

DriftOff:
No, it's not something serious.
It's just that I'm wondering if I'm still a virgin... because I'm still confused about it.

Is not only serious cases they inquire in hospital.

See a doctor and he will check you. Simple.