this makes it the 8th year i started masturbating 2-3 times everyday. I'm just so ashamed of myself each time i engage in it. It makes me looks awful, i will be 24 dis yer Dec. Buh wen u see me i look like a 33yrs old. I'm tired pls i need help.

emblem2d:
this makes it the 8th year i started masturbating 2-3 times everyday. I'm just so ashamed of myself each time i engage in it. It makes me looks awful, i will be 24 dis yer Dec. Buh wen u see me i look like a 33yrs old. I'm tired pls i need help.

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You need to take practical steps to stop this habit. Well let's discuss it right here.
Your experience may help millions reading this right now.
First of all you're almost 24 and it's been 8 years you started this, so that means you're 16 when this began.
How often do you watch pornographic videos?

emblem2d:

this makes it the 8th year i started masturbating 2-3 times everyday. I'm just so ashamed of myself each time i engage in it. It makes me looks awful, i will be 24 dis yer Dec. Buh wen u see me i look like a 33yrs old. I'm tired pls i need help.

emblem2d:
this makes it the 8th year i started masturbating 2-3 times everyday. I'm just so ashamed of myself each time i engage in it. It makes me looks awful, i will be 24 dis yer Dec. Buh wen u see me i look like a 33yrs old. I'm tired pls i need help.

The most terrible addiction a man can be addicted to is Masturbation.....its very a stubborn act

me myself I'm still trying to recover even with prayers and bible reading

24 way be like 33 yo


Guy, na hardship cause am

MaxInDHouse:
You need to take practical steps to stop this habit. Well let's discuss it right here.
Your experience may help millions reading this right now.
First of all you're almost 24 and it's been 8 years you started this, so that means you're 16 when this began.
How often do you watch pornographic videos?

the truth is it's really not bout watching Porn only the mind is the main issue

You're right Sir!
But we must start from what as been stored in the mind, make him understand it's damaging effect, then we can now talk about the natural flash drive where all those things have been stored before talking about formatting the drive. Otherwise you'll keep formatting the drive while more porns are mysteriously running into the drive!

Kandeed:

the truth is it's really not bout watching Porn only the mind is the main issue

MaxInDHouse:
You're right Sir!
But we must start from what as been stored in the mind, make him understand it's damaging effect, then we can now talk about the natural flash drive where all those things have been stored before talking about formatting the drive. Otherwise you'll keep formatting the drive while more porns are mysteriously running into the drive!

I best feel what he needs is prayer cuz truly it's really hard to stop, masturbation is that terrible that it enslave the mind and uses the Libido as a tool against him (which is hardly resistible) even if he decides to shun porn or illicit pictures, how bout his libido drives??

emblem2d:
this makes it the 8th year i started masturbating 2-3 times everyday. I'm just so ashamed of myself each time i engage in it. It makes me looks awful, i will be 24 dis yer Dec. Buh wen u see me i look like a 33yrs old. I'm tired pls i need help.

Theres nothing wrong with masturbation.

The only way you can stop now is to get a girlfriend that doesn’t have std and Bleep her everytime.

The first step is to help himself by avoiding what is fueling the thoughts in his hearts otherwise the prayers will never work!
God can't help those who don't take the first step to help themselves, he must work along with faith before faith can work out! James 2:26

Kandeed:

I best feel what he needs is prayer cuz truly it's really hard to stop, masturbation is that terrible that it enslave the mind and uses the Libido as a tool against him (which is hardly resistible) even if he decides to shun porn or illicit pictures, how bout his libido drives??

MaxInDHouse:
You need to take practical steps to stop this habit. Well let's discuss it right here.
Your experience may help millions reading this right now.
First of all you're almost 24 and it's been 8 years you started this, so that means you're 16 when this began.
How often do you watch pornographic videos?

Well it actually started with my early xposure to sexuality. @15 i was already touching boobs nd dry humping on a free girl in a bakery close to our houz. So i kept on doing that evryday, stirring my hormones up to the level it became uncontrolable. Then a time came that the girl stnp coming to the bakery so each time the urge came i will just starting thinking of how i use to touch her; consequently touching my erectd penx to derives pleasure. So that was how it started.
1yr after, i started watching porn. Even without the porn i still mastbt; it got so bad to the level that, if i can picture a girl in my mind then I can masturbt to it.

You don't have much to do with your body because it's natural to feel the manhood in you. What we (you and i) must work on now is your mind as in when the thoughts are coming.
The habit often seem harmless to many since you're not doing it to affect others but gradually it's taking away your bliss and self-control, everyone around you need that since we all depend on one another to live happily.
So think more about how you can become a blessing to others than the 5min self pleasure that's demeaning.
Then the next step is try to always engage in social activities that will lessen the times you spend alone. Widen out and make more friends but this time choose your friends wisely, you already know what you're fighting as a habit so a sheep shouldn't make a dog it's friend most especially when it's trying to avoid eating excrement.
Most importantly is your association with true believers whom you can trust with secrets of this kind, they will assist you with PRACTICAL counseling and PRAYERS! James 5:13-15
Always fill your minds with virtuous and praiseworthy things that'll promote your dignity {Philippians 4:8} so the thought to mastu won't have room again {Luke 11:24-26} and whenever you're alone feeling like doing it that's the best time to start praying hard! Ephesians 6:18

I'm always here to share moments with you chatting so you'll not get bored, we can chat on so many things not only on religion!

Masturbation is a bad (evil) habit and together we will win.
Happily anticipating to see you in PARADISE {Luke 23:43} when Jesus will cure us all of the inherited sin that's reducing us to nothing! Roman 7:21-25

emblem2d:
Well it actually started with my early xposure to sexuality. @15 i was already touching boobs nd dry humping on a free girl in a bakery close to our houz. So i kept on doing that evryday, stirring my hormones up to the level it became uncontrolable. Then a time came that the girl stnp coming to the bakery so each time the urge came i will just starting thinking of how i use to touch her; consequently touching my erectd penx to derives pleasure. So that was how it started.
1yr after, i started watching porn. Even without the porn i still mastbt; it got so bad to the level that, if i can picture a girl in my mind then I can masturbt to it.

Max!!!


In your hopeless world, you want to give a fake hope? Are you not the one who said there is no good in this world except in your demonic kingdoms? Now you want to give a fake hope to the guy? Your head no correct. Max, you that have carried 25 years problems you cant solve wants to solve another's problem..what a pity?

Emblem2d,

Sir, I advise you to look at this guy who is a wolf in sheep's clothing. Mind you, he has colleagues and one of his masters is Dapo by name. Check his messages. He said there is nothing good in this world again. No healing, no miracle. I think he gave a date fake Jesus told in their dens dem.onic words they are using to brainwash people . He has hopeless messages for you.

And to crown it, he doesnt believe in science and doctors. He will not tell you to go check yourself medically if necessary. At the end of the day, he will ask you come to their dens and be initiated into a cult Russia is clamping down presently. I used to think they are a Christian denomination, but they told me they are a cult group themselves..Since that time, I have vowed to expose their evil acts. They are demon witnesses.

Take heed bro. Be careful with who you talk to on NL.

That is all I can tell you. Is he a therapist you are to talk to? Someone who is a kid. Guy you better use your brain and discharge everyone here. Anyway, you have put your age here so Max has seen you as "suya" meat. Yeah. 24 year old suya You better discharge him and find a better solution. Coming on NL to ask for advice. You arent serious sir. And I am sorry to say so. Max of all people.

Goodluck.

The one asking can see for himself the person whose comments proves to be helpful. Note how many people have responded to his post then think of what could make him respond to my comments with open heart.

No matter how hard you try to blacklist God's child wisdom will be justified by her Children! Luke 7:35

May you have PEACE!

PeaceJoyLove:
Max!!!

In your hopeless world, you want to give a fake hope? Are you not the one who said there is no good in this world except in your demonic kingdoms? Now you want to give a fake hope to the guy? Your head no correct. Max, you that have carried 25 years problems you cant solve wants to solve another's problem..what a pity?Emblem2d,
Sir, I advise you to look at this guy who is a wolf in sheep's clothing. Mind you, he has colleagues and one of his masters is Dapo by name. Check his messages. He said there is nothing good in this world again. No healing, no miracle. I think he gave a date fake Jesus told in their dens dem.onic words they are using to brainwash people . He has hopeless messages for you. And to crown it, he doesnt believe in science and doctors. He will not tell you to go check yourself medically if necessary. At the end of the day, he will ask you come to their dens and be initiated into a cult Russia is clamping down presently. I used to think they are a Christian denomination, but they told me they are a cult group themselves..Since that time, I have vowed to expose their evil acts. They are demon witnesses. Take heed bro. Be careful with who you talk to on NL. That is all I can tell you. Is he a therapist you are to talk to? Someone who is a kid. Guy you better use your brain and discharge everyone here. Anyway, you have put your age here so Max has seen you as "suya" meat. Yeah. 24 year old suya You better discharge him and find a better solution. Coming on NL to ask for advice. You arent serious sir. And I am sorry to say so. Max of all people. Goodluck.

emblem2d:
Well it actually started with my early xposure to sexuality. @15 i was already touching boobs nd dry humping on a free girl in a bakery close to our houz. So i kept on doing that evryday, stirring my hormones up to the level it became uncontrolable. Then a time came that the girl stnp coming to the bakery so each time the urge came i will just starting thinking of how i use to touch her; consequently touching my erectd penx to derives pleasure. So that was how it started.
1yr after, i started watching porn. Even without the porn i still mastbt; it got so bad to the level that, if i can picture a girl in my mind then I can masturbt to it.

Bro, the truth is in this post. You understand yourself. The truth is you have not yet trained yourself to have self control. It is called self control and not spiritual control. If you like, pray from now till 100 years, if you do not stand your ground to have self control, you will keep failing.

Bro, ask everyone....christian, Muslim, or whatever.....I can boldly tell you that everyone has masturbated one time or the other....including married people. Exactly what you define here is why Epstein (pedophile) kind always take the easy way out with kids. They are impatient with a matured people. They dont know how to take No for an answer. Some are very shy. Some have ejaculation problems which they will not find themselves embarrassed with minors....and many other reasons. When you study psychology, you know the root cause and can be treated. When you are matured, you attract matured minds.

Bro, the root cause for yours might be that you arent well exposed. You arent free around opposite sex. So when the girl mentioned gave you the "go-ahead", all your hormones bounced to action. May sound funny, but it is the truth. And when she suddenly stopped coming, you have no self control and you started satisfying yourself. Guy, man up and meet girls in real life. Work on yourself and appearance too. I know what I am saying. Stress may positioned you in a tight corner. Poverty may hinder you too. But if you are determined, you can do it. I know a few people who didnt look good when struggling, but after making up their minds to be stress free, everything about them changed. Check your job too.

Bro, you can blame demons, devil, the girl, and I am not disputing their contributions, but the real issue is you. If you cannot deliver you from yourself, pray for 150 years, you will continue masturbating.

Also, the idea you look 33 years when you are 24 is not caused majorly by masturbation. Bro, you arent feeding well, or you are stressing yourself. Masturbating twice may just put more stress on you. If you masturbate 5 times daily, and you eat good food, you will not have too much stress. So, start getting your facts accurate. Let us be frank with each other.

Bro, you may not overcome it just immediately. It may be a gradual process. Your challenge is in your head. Listen to me, you need to socialise more. See, when you socialize and have confidence, these girls you see as super stars, they just become ordinary girls to you...like your sisters. Bro, if you socialize well, you will understand that everyone has weak areas too. These girls you see as "whaoooo", they just become normal girl.

Bro, forget about facial beauty oooo. You can be more attractive than the top handsome men. This is a principle I know very well. Just endure the period you are hooked to a corner. Some have health issue (which is not your case), and they look a bit older, but as soon as they get over the sickness, they bounce back into the gym, bro....forget it. Everything turns around.

Develop your communication skill. Read books. Build your confidence. Naturally, people start seeing you as a star when you speak out knowledge. They will want to hate you, but they still want you in their lives (as a friend) because there are gifts you have activated and developed. When you are gifted with sports abilities, you attract almost everyone (but its temporal...it expires after retirement). But when you are gifted with a special skill or words of wisdom, you attract matured minds for life. And there is no way you will fall into immature habits like masturbation at that stage. I know it because everyone in my circle just laughs about it when the subject comes up. It is an immatured habit.

Matured people hardly get married early (not saying it is bad...actually good). Or let me say, they are contented with one partner. And when they do not have sex, they don't act or feel like they are going to die. Lol.. It is called self control. If not that the Bible recommends marriage, it is not a MUST. Even Paul says it is better to be single.

So bro, you are able to tame your hormones. It is possible. It is not mainly a spiritual issue. It is mainly psychological. I do not doubt the power of prayer. How? When you get close to God, your interests shifts to Him. Instead of binding and casting out what is not the main issue, pray instead to get closer to God. When God mixes with your spirit, ideas and better things are dropped into your mind and you think less about sexual dirts. When you read quality books, you fill your mind with better ideas. Guy, you will just notice and ask yourself....whaoooo....when last did I masturbate?

Here are the steps to take:

1. Turn to God and confess yours sins. Ask for his Help.

2. Do self assessment and analysis your life. What do you want to achieve in life?

3. Research on the internet and find books to help you achieve 2 above. Make a 10 years plan for yourself. Where do you see yourself when you are 34 years old.

4. Guy, delete all rubbish contents on your phone. Stop watching all movies for now. Almost all movies have sex scenes. So, quit TV for now. Only watch news and sports. For now, quit watching everything else.

5. Self Control practice. Be conscious of not staying too long in the bathroom or toilet. And if you do it in your room, you may want to find a room mate to check you. This is the main act you must master to achieve self control. You must control it. You must control your hormone.

6. Start taking note of what you can do to get the picture of masturbing or sexual stuff off your head. You must know what to do to deactivate the process when its activated. Maybe you need to quickly get out and jog. Or take a walk. Or you have a punching bag, and quickly punch it....lol... Or if at work, what you need to quickly do to deactivate it. Think of these things and starg doing them. These are methods psychologists will help you master (they find the best for you....but you can do it yourself).

7. Pray pray pray. Get closer to God. Start researching Bible. You come to nairaland and have a good laugh when reading comments. Lol cos when you get to a stage and you have gifts and fruits of the Holy Spirit, you are solid. Instead of binding and casting out demons making you to masturbate, get close to God.

It is well with you.


Please, stay away from that de.vil witness.

emblem2d:
this makes it the 8th year i started masturbating 2-3 times everyday. I'm just so ashamed of myself each time i engage in it. It makes me looks awful, i will be 24 dis yer Dec. Buh wen u see me i look like a 33yrs old. I'm tired pls i need help.

Hi! Read the below! I wish you success.

LisaAnneMia:
If you're born again, try this very simple thing.

Firstly, the Bible says without faith, it is impossible to please God. When Christians are sick, they have faith and quote the scripture "by His stripe I am healed". When Christians are in need of financial need, they have faith and quote "my God shall supply all my needs..." or "The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want...". But when they sin or are struggling with sin, they don't know how to use faith (not their faith but Christ's faith - believing that God is good and wants you made whole).

So Op, whenever you find yourself struggling with this sin or any other sin, confess out loud "I am the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus". Jesus Christ, who knew no sin became sin for you that you might be righteous in Him (2 Corinthians 5:21)...Even Romans 3:22 says the righteousness of God is by faith in Jesus Christ.

So again, confess that statement out loud every time you find yourself sinning. Right in the midst of your struggles, confess it. The devil doesn't want you to believe Jesus has made you righteous. He may whisper in your ear and say you're a hypocrite...that how can you be sinning and still call yourself righteous. Well how can a sick Christian still believe by faith that he/she is healed? Cos you have to go by the Word of God and not by your circumstance. For sin shall not have dominion over you, cos you're not under law but under grace (Romans 6:14).

You may not overcome this struggle immediately but gradually, they're falling off you. One day, you'll just realize that urge isn't there anymore. Cos faith is calling those things that are not as though they are. Confess you're righteous in Christ and see miracles happen in your life. And this confession goes for your every inheritance in Christ Jesus! Since you're righteous in Him, every blessings that belong to the righteous are yours!