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Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by DennisEche(m): 11:04am On May 21
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Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by sammy7410(m): 11:05am On May 21
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Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by SoliBayNG: 11:05am On May 21
Hathor5:
Life is too short to give a heck about society and fake men of God.

Fornication is no longer a sin? I didn't get that memo.

I thought the ones that see nothing wrong would be the fake ones. Weird times we live in.

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Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Righteousness2(m): 11:07am On May 21
The Word of GOD does not Change because of a Changing world.

Sexual act before Marriage is Pure Fornication.

GOD'S Standard of Marriage according to HIS Word is Man and Wife. Anything apart from this is Disobedience to GOD and His Word.

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Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:11am On May 21
I never thought about it from the angle of wedding three people (mother, baby, and father) instead of two! cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Joshuam1(m): 11:13am On May 21
All these is as a result of moral depravation, even when there was much of Christianity in Nigeria it was a shame to get impregnated before marriage, it is not about church or Pastor, it is about what the ideology the corrupt society now offers us.

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Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Iwattly(m): 11:14am On May 21
I don't care, as long as we both agreed
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by LoveThemChubby(m): 11:23am On May 21
Hathor5:
Life is too short to give a heck about society and fake men of God.
Go and open your own church madam. What marriage will the church do after the woman ia pregnant (indicating that they've been doing marrital things together)? If you want to be wedding close your legs till after marriage else you should be ready to do marriage blessings
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Siwisheswereesh: 11:24am On May 21
ImaIma1:
How are these perks?

Please help ask the OP o? A mod pushed it frontpage like that
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by kingsleefolli(m): 11:27am On May 21
My own case is special,my father warned me to make sure my wife today get pregnant before shouting any wedding.after two month that my inlaw died.i don't have options.i did naming and wedding same day.because my wife gave birth a week before our wedding date.so the naming came in same day of our wedding.i think is a crime.let focus on family background not all this church or mosques.things. they all hide the truth from us.signed out.next
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Smoothwave: 11:27am On May 21
[quote author=lindareep post=101906142]I prefer to have my first child before marriage wink

Meanwhile, lemme also eye men for Hot stuffs grin grin grin

Check my signature if you're interested[/quote

You are indirectly telling us you prefer to be a single mother
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by monimay(m): 11:30am On May 21
The Word of GOD does not Change because of a Changing world.

Sexual act before Marriage is Pure Fornication.

GOD'S Standard of Marriage according to HIS Word is Man and Wife. Anything apart from this is Disobedience to GOD and His Word.
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Yet God asked Joseph to marry Mary
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by TOPCRUISE(m): 11:30am On May 21
If you are pregnant, no need to go to church. Traditional wedding is okay

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Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by chris51(f): 11:32am On May 21
Some of the churches don't want brides to be pregnant before wedding, yet their pastors are sleeping with them. Hipocrites.

Couples should go to churches where pregnancy is accepted during wedding. Before church wedding, traditional marriage is done, court is done what else?
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by DavidEsq(m): 11:33am On May 21
OP abeg try dey enumerate. My head dey pain me. The price of yam and G4 dey give me BP.
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Bobmarie(f): 11:33am On May 21
ImaIma1:
How are these perks?
Still scrolling to see the perks.
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Reex12(m): 11:35am On May 21
younglleo:
i dont knw y una dey avoid me like am stinking.
pls i need help to fix my main source of little income.(my phone)
money sent to me by my dad for the repair(12k), loan company don collect am!
pls someone shud help me out! Im using a java phone if not i would have applied for loan nd saved mysef dis stress
pls dont ignore my plea cus dis is critical
3 1 1 0 6 7 5 9 5 5
firstbank, leonard
see this stupid thief after you don critize tribes finish you dey you dey beg money when ppl dey find money for food you dey reason fone..mumu

Go and and meet your pastors and family members and use thier fone to collect loan

oshi
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Yankee101: 11:38am On May 21
Marriage is to be held in honor among all [that is, regarded as something of great value], and the marriage bed undefiled [by immorality or by any sexual sin]; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

Hebrews 13:4
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by younglleo: 11:41am On May 21
Reex12:
see this stupid thief after you don critize tribes finish you dey you dey beg money when ppl dey find money for food you dey reason fone..mumu

Go and and meet your pastors and family members and use thier fone to collect loan

oshi
hmmm!
Bro i'm not here to argue wit u but b4 u drop any quote, reason nd do ur research.
dont drag me into any tribal stuff.
if u cant help, jst drink water nd mind ur business
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Liposure: 11:41am On May 21
allanphash7:
People still Dey marry?
wetin man go do
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Ugandatales: 11:43am On May 21
Soso990240:
How person go de waka for road with evidence that they had sex? cheesy Even before marriage

Lol! This remeinded me of one of my naive friends back in school. She told me she almost fainted when she saw one of her roommates with big belle after we came back from a break...she said she never believed the girl knew anything about man or sex. Lol! The way she talked about it made me laugh
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by simplesearch: 11:44am On May 21
God forbid fornication and clearly show those who partake in it what their end will be. Impregnating a woman you are planning to marry to test her fertility or for whatever reason is demeaning. A woman who places a value on herself won't condescend to casual sex for whatever reason(s). Registry and many culture won't forbid you, but if you have the plan of wearing that white robe on your wedding day with it's attendant honor and glory that follows, there is a sacrifice of waiting to pay for it. There is no time you place the cat before the horse and get the required result, and a man who sow on a piece of land without full authorization from the original owner will always be a thief and a trespasser. It is therefore not the church but God himself who forbid them, and any church minister who partake in the act of joining them on God's altar is on his own.

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Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by CharisEleos(f): 11:54am On May 21
Hathor5:
Life is too short to give a heck about society and fake men of God.

Remember, eternity is longer.

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Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Frales6(f): 11:56am On May 21
I no go dey pregnant b4 I marry, but in case it happens, I no go abort anything. bcox some fit later dey find children but e no go show. e get person wey I sabi, the person do plenty abortions even after her trad. she say she wan do white wedding b4 she born. now e don dey reach 6yrs wey she do the almighty white wedding still no baby. now she go dey miss those periods wey she dey pregnant and wish say e go happen again.
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by CharisEleos(f): 11:57am On May 21
bukatyne:
If the Church would not wed a pregnant couple, how does the bride bear/face the shame alone?

Do the churches marry the husbands or do they call only the wife out?

Considering that the average Nigerian Church's stance is that sex and its consequences are actions men 'do' to women, your OP does not hold water.

Besides, the OP has no single perk of pregnancy before marriage or specifically, marrying with pregnancy.

If you want to get pregnant before marriage, please do and conduct your marriage where it is accepted.

End of story.

Would you give this same advice you're throwing to the public to your daughters?

Whatever happened to chastity.
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by Taejimin(f): 12:00pm On May 21
ImaIma1:
How are these perks?

I don't think the poster understands the meaning of the word perk/s.
Re: The Perks Of Being A Pregnant Bride In Today's World by mrwonlasewonie: 12:02pm On May 21
Hathor5:
Life is too short to give a heck about society and fake men of God.
there are some families I know in this nigeria wey we all dey so wey be say they'll never accept a woman UNLESS SHE GETS PREGNANT

Infact that's the only condition that the bride Will be accepted and they'll get parental blessings

Because That's their culture and family pattern and the reason why the parents of the groom insists that the bride must get pregnant 1st before wedding is to prove she's fertile and not after marriage they'll be running from hospital to prayer house looking for children

I don't support such culture though but Yorubas Will say ASA ni idile kan,ewo ni Bomi Ni.translation-what is considered as culture, tradition and lifestyle in a particular family can be considered as abnormal, abhorrent and an abomination in another family so at the end of the day,it's for the bride to choose the type of family she wants to enter into in view of what she considers acceptable or abnormal.if you're from a family where they don't permit pregnancy before marriage no go friend person wey im mama go dey insist on pregnancy before marriage, follow the one where una belief system and lifestyle dey in tandem to reduce unnecessary conflict and family/in-law nonsense

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