aloy/emeka:

Sunday, May 1, 2011
My boyfriend's pal violated me

Kemi Ashefon, kashefon@punchng.com
I met this guy four months ago and we started an affair. During Christmas, he invited me for a drink with him and his friends. After awhile, I got tipsy and he took me inside his room to sleep. Later, I discovered that he made love to me and then, left the door unlocked. One of his friends came inside and violated me.




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When my boyfriend found out what happened, he was upset. Even his other friends were so angry with the fellow who violated me that they almost fought him.
I wept, but my man promised never to leave me. A few days later, he was scrolling through my phonebook and discovered how I stored his name. He was not pleased at all. After a few days, I observed he had started acting strangely.
I asked him but his response hurt me. I wanted to know what went wrong, but he would not talk. Was it because of what happened or because I did not store his name as my lover? I am confused.

DB,

Lagos

http://odili.net/news/source/2011/may/1/802.html

yeewwwwheeee

@topic very unfortunate. she decided to cheat and got played in the worst way.
hope she learned her lesson.

deniyor:

That relationship was over the moment the friend slept with her. Whether it was intentional or not.

aloy/emeka:

Why?. Will you dump your partner if he/she got violated by your own friend?

deniyor:

It will be the beginning of the end of the relationship in most cases. I will break it down shortly.

aloy/emeka:

Is it her fault that she got violated?

deniyor:

IMO, it could be the guy's fault or the lady's fault. In this story, its the guy's fault.

1. It could be a set up btw the bf and the friend. That will be irresponsible of the bf. For him to have agreed to such a deal, the relationship was over b4 the act itself. No guy is going to let his friend sleep with a girl he is serious about.

2. It could be an act of collision btw the friend and the girl. Less likely to be the case but a possibility.[b] There are pointers that the girl in the story might not exactly a sain[/b]t ( assuming she stored her bf's name with the a strange name like MUGU #4 etc). Unlikely tho, cos except the friend is extremely silly, he wouldn't take a chance where everyone is. But it brings the question to mind, what gave him the audacity to do such a thing? with the bf and other friends lurking around?

and discovered how I stored his name

deniyor:


Personally, I think a lady shouldn't drink to the extent she doesn't remember having sex. Nothing good comes out of that.

deniyor:


Personally, I think a lady shouldn't drink to the extent she doesn't remember having sex. Nothing good comes out of that.

M M M:

i dot understand,
is she angry dat d some1. ra-ped her or dat d BF is tried of her.

hannydarl:

I believe it was planned. The boyfriend got her tipsy and then slept with her and allowed his other friends do her too. I dont believe it was just 1 of them

But wait, did you notice she believes that her bf Sleeping with her while drunk was okay but his friend doing it with her was wrong? I think in both cases she was rapped by the BF and his pal.
The bf just wanted to punish her before dumping her.