CharisEleos:
Men will never cease to amaze me.

To think the other day I was kicking against a boss relating directly with a maid on personal grounds and Kondomatic was all over the place defending and holding brief for the man. Now see.

Why would a boss carry a maid on his laps? Is that also a part of " showing care for domestic workers"? SMH.

Kondomatic:
I read somewhere that a man slept with his own daughter in his room.




Shall we then say that mothers should never allow their daughters to step into their fathers rooms?

Fragility6:
Some married women sense dey dier ankle. Dem go leave d husband wey dey cheat go dey para anoda person. 15yr old wey still dey young n naive nai u go stab.If na older person u for carry gun b dat.As for the man,if dat girl die the blood go dey on am too.I hate men n women wit self control. Sex na food wey u wan chop everytime?

CharisEleos:


You call 15yrs naive? That some of her mates are already in the university?

She knew perfectly well what she was doing. Not supporting the womans action. She went too far but that girl is not unwary of what the boss wants with her.

Fragility6:

It baffles me how u women think.Her age mates are in the university makes a kid her age an adult? Moral decadnence of present day society shouldnt alter ur thinking to think every 15yr old has a dirty mind. If the man were to be caught sleeping wit her would u say he should be left alone bcoz she isnt naive? She is still a minor n not yet gotten to d age were she makes decision for herself please.

CharisEleos:


I didn't say the man should be left out. He should be taught a lesson or two and locked up.

The girl at 15 should be responsible for her actions. Biko. Minor kor. Until she takes over Madam's position in the house before you know she can make decisions for herself.

Story.

CharisEleos:


I didn't say the man should be left out. He should be taught a lesson or two and locked up.

The girl at 15 should be responsible for her actions. Biko. Minor kor. Until she takes over Madam's position in the house before you know she can make decisions for herself.

Story.

Fragility6:

One of the problem of u women in this country is that u ar too insecure probably due to a questionable past i dont know.Imagine u entertaining the thought of a 15yr old overthrowing a fully grown woman in marriage.15yrs o. Ah

CharisEleos:


It will shock you that even a twelve year old can do it. You've not seen nothing yet.

Quit viewing the girl from a 15 year old males angle because even at 18 some male are still naive while the female counterpart would have matured way before that age due to our makeup.

Don't get it twisted. I've seen a 16 year old get married and conviniently managed a home and by the time she had her first child, she was looking and acting like a 25 yr old.

authority2006:


Why would you want to hold a minor, a victim of abuse and intimidation responsible for the action of the adult male who also happened to be her boss or boss's husband?

Fragility6:
Some married women sense dey dier ankle. Dem go leave d husband wey dey cheat go dey para anoda person. 15yr old wey still dey young n naive nai u go stab.If na older person u for carry gun b dat.As for the man,if dat girl die the blood go dey on am too.I hate men n women wit self control. Sex na food wey u wan chop everytime?

CharisEleos:


I'm not holding her solely responsible for their illicit act. All I'm saying is at that age she should be old enough to know good from bad perhaps if she had a good home training. At least momma would have taught her not to sit on uncle's laps from age five.

Please note, I'm not in support of the woman's dastardly act but some things could have been avoided. That's all!

authority2006:


It is more than that. This is not some free kid sitting on a lap of uncle or a stranger. This is a minor being used as child labour who must obey her boss or her madam husband. Even a desperate and helpless adult female could be threatened or blackmail to do the same thing, not to even talk about a minor. I don't know why you refused to look at it from that angle of vulnerable kid.
Would you ever imagine your 15 years old daughter serving as house help at a time she would exactly ripe for abuse? You would do everything to protect her, right? The girl in question here was helpless.

CharisEleos:



I understand where you're coming from and that's quite true. It's just that the rate at which small girls are getting spoilt these days won't let you know whether they are being molested or it was a consensual thing.

I hope all those involved are brought to book and justice given where necessary.

DriveByKiller:
small girls always make the big girls feel threatened.

CharisEleos:


Courtesy you men who have refused to give yourselves respect.