Ishilove:
Condom 100 bucks would have stopped all these soliloquizing

mutter:
Please keep the child.
You can do the traditional and registry quietly and later a church wedding
Not all marriages start with a big flash.
Sometimes big marriages also break up.
The most important thing it's that the man is standing to you.
Why kill your child because he has a set back.
Tribulations last but a while but joy comes at the end.

TOPCRUISE:

The unborn child is the bacteria they want to get rid off

Klass99:


I don't like this idea of saddling parents with the responsibility of others (especially ones created by the poor choices of grown azz children)

So, after our parents have toiled to raise us, they will come and raise our kids for us too? At what point do they get to relax and just enjoy their old age in peace?

If I were a parent to either OP or her boyfriend, I will do little to nothing, to ease their burden (as you put it) I send them message?

Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.

mutter:
Please keep the child.
You can do the traditional and registry quietly and later a church wedding
Not all marriages start with a big flash.
Sometimes big marriages also break up.
The most important thing it's that the man is standing to you.
Why kill your child because he has a set back.
Tribulations last but a while but joy comes at the end.

mariahAngel:


Unproductive people have sex recklessly.

Ishilove:
Condom 100 bucks would have stopped all these soliloquizing

Klass99:


I don't like this idea of saddling parents with the responsibility of others (especially ones created by the poor choices of grown azz children)

So, after our parents have toiled to raise us, they will come and raise our kids for us too? At what point do they get to relax and just enjoy their old age in peace?

If I were a parent to either OP or her boyfriend, I will do little to nothing, to ease their burden (as you put it) I send them message?

Ishilove:
Condom 100 bucks would have stopped all these soliloquizing

mariahAngel:


Unproductive people have sex recklessly.

YOUNGELDER1:
Don’t bring a child into the world if you don’t have a means of taking care of that child.
Don’t listen to anybody that will tell you otherwise.

CsRockefeller:
Low key, I wish I can get a lady pregnant right now, that's the only way my people would know I'm serious about marriage.

Munzy14:

How did you come up with this hypothesis? Who told u?...

mariahAngel:


Maka na ha enwehu aka oru na....so all they think about and do is sex. Like those rabbits juru na romance section

Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.

Munzy14:

Hahahahahaha....chowa okwu....They will soon come for you...

You never see highly productive people, kwa gburu onwe ha na iko...

The truth is op is not, financially, psychologically and otherwise ready for a baby..

That baby will suffer in all angle..For the mean time...In this dangerous economy..

And like I said earlier on, not every lady will like pills or condom nor get mind for abortion...But a ga na akwa iko...

mariahAngel:


Ha biawa




Ike gwuru

yetunsbay:
the easiest

Lvuinghrt:
I'm 2 month pregnant and I'm so confused.
I'm thinking of aborting this pregnancy, quit this relationship and get focus with my life.
We didn't know it will happen, because I was on antibiotics drug.
We both love each other. Although, we don't really have a good job. He recently lost the small job he's managing.

We would have gotten married since last year, but we've been waiting to secure a much better job.

The little savings can't get us married immediately before everyone notice.
I've been insisting on abortion, but he wouldn't let me.

I don't want to be a single mother for any reason and I don't want to start my life suffering with a child.

I feel I'm going to loss all my dreams and career and at the same time, I'm scared, I'm about to become a murderer by having an abortion.
I need an advice pls.

Klass99:




In today's Naija where parents/grand parents;

1. Have retired and most likely didn't retire in wealth or with a robust savings.

2. Do not receive their pension as and when due.

3. Are burdened with deteriorating health challenges typical of old age like arthritis, impaired vision, prostrate cancer etc

4. Do not receive a regular monthly allowance from their own children because of unemployment, under-employment or carelessness......

You people are telling me many parents will be happy to be burdened with a responsibility belonging to other adults!

Perhaps, parents who are wealthy and in good health won't mind (but how many Naija parents fall into this category)

No, I don't think many parents will be happy at all. Because, they've been there, done that and may have regrets. They may also endure the child and not necessarily celebrate him/her because they're probably thinking I don't need this right now, I need to be resting.

@ Caryoday, you even said for many parents it's their blood they have no choice - blood is thicker than water, is not a concept that resonates with everyone.

Some people should count themselves lucky they don't have me as a parent, because that BS you wrote (no offence meant) about blood and not having a choice, will not fly with me.

If I was a parent in this case -they either have the child and parent her as best as they can or they put him up for adoption and let people who want a child and are prepared for parenthood have him.

malaria:
Abeg u don dey dey scared. Keep your baby joor the baby can be your blessing. I dont even known how old you are? Who does abortion this days .

Omobola121:
Please your life is your life. Don't allow any low budget motivational speakers to tell you otherwise. If aborting the baby is the best decision now, please do it.

To take care of baby is not an easy task. You will be more frustrated when there is no means to cater for the child.

We all make mistakes. May the Creator forgives our imperfection!