Hi guys am a graduate who lost his job 4 yrs ago I am in my middle 30s but I want to settle down cos no time left so if ur a mature lady with a good job or business doing to assist me so I can bounce back to my real man self am ready to marry you I swear with my whole heart just chat me up let's get the plans all mapped out am serious no time let's start making kids before it gets late the age range I need is from 26 to 39 so if u want us to get started chat me on 08164084891

Are you looking for a wife or for a sponsor? And you think the best time to settle down is when you are jobless, hoping that the woman will be your benefactor.

The person advising you is not well.

If you spend this time and energy you're about to devote in searching for "ready made" woman on yourself, you'll be a better person and attract better women that'll complement you.

Aside free sex and keeping your boring life exciting for few weeks, there's not so much to gain in this venture. The moment she's disenchanted from infatuation, you'll be back to this starting point where you set out.

P.s: brace your ears for a tonne of baggage stories on how she's single, not in a relationship in her late 30s and is ready to settle down with you if you can tolerate her unrepentant excess in exchange for the love you crave.

ImaIma1:
Are you looking for a wife or for a sponsor?

He's looking for a sponsor....men nowadays shame has vanished from their face.this op is nothing but a leech.

Lazy idiot. Dont go and find work. Konji don hold u tire. Stupid lazy man. Odeh. God punish u there

hpk:
If you spend this time and energy you're about to devote in searching for "ready made" woman on yourself, you'll be a better person and attract better women that'll complement you.

Aside free sex and keeping your boring life exciting for few weeks, there's not so much to gain in this venture. The moment she's disenchanted from infatuation, you'll be back to this starting point where you set out.

P.s: brace your ears for a tonne of baggage stories on how she's single, not in a relationship in her late 30s and is ready to settle down with you if you can tolerate her unrepentant excess in exchange for the love you crave.

Na so

Hypocrisy is when any woman who believes in hypergamy and or practices it cast aspersions on you because as repulsive as your desire and its presentation seems, at least you're upfront and open, thus condition breeds yours, so it's neither inherent nor mentality. You're better than anyone of them who'll castigate you because in their case, they not only go into marriage with the same mentality but do gloss it with pretense. Perhaps, they do not understand that hypergamy, which they practice, is a product of self-absorption, which itself breeds faithlessness.

That said, strive to redefine your priority, get your finances in order from a business perspective and venture into marriage with an altruistic mindset.

RightToReject:
Hypocrisy is when any woman who believes in hypergamy and or practices it cast aspersions on you because as repulsive as your desire and its presentation seems, at least you're upfront and open, thus condition breeds yours, so it's neither inherent nor mentality. You're better than anyone of them who'll castigate you because in their case, they not only go into marriage with the same mentality but do gloss it with pretense. Perhaps, they do not understand that hypergamy, which they practice, is a product of self-absorption, which itself breeds faithlessness.

That said, strive to redefine your priority, get your finances in order from a business perspective and venture into marriage with an altruistic mindset.

Are you okay?

Tobichuks08:

Are you okay?

Yes, I am. I, however, don't have to ask if you are because I know that you aren't. Now, run along and direct your further mentions to small-minded and hypocritically disingenuous elements like you.

Bumpkin.

Em222:
Hi guys am a graduate who lost his job 4 yrs ago I am in my middle 30s but I want to settle down cos no time left so if ur a mature lady with a good job or business doing to assist me so I can bounce back to my real man self am ready to marry you I swear with my whole heart just chat me up let's get the plans all mapped out am serious no time let's start making kids before it gets late the age range I need is from 26 to 39 so if u want us to get started chat me on 08164084891

You need help, counseling, prayers, a job and everything else but not a woman.

RightToReject:


Yes, I am. I, however, don't have to ask if you are because I know that you aren't. Now, run along and direct your further mentions to small-minded and hypocritically disingenuous elements like you.

Bumpkin.

Professor of english.ontop this small matter naim you dey knack this Kain English.

ahnie:

Professor of english.ontop this small matter naim you dey knack this Kain English.

nairaland can produce anything, this being one of its most useless products

My brother, this is a wrong move.

What happens if a lady desperate for marriage contacts you and deceives you into believing she is bouyant.

Maybe after the wedding, you find out the truth.

Have something doing no matter how little and your woman will appreciate you rather than depending on her.

I don't want to read later that my wife is disrespectful because she is the breadwinner.

ImaIma1:
Are you looking for a wife or for a sponsor? And you think the best time to settle down is when you are jobless, hoping that the woman will be your benefactor.

The person advising you is not well.

What d fuvk?

Why should the woman sponsor him?

How many women get work when them marry?

Jobless modafuvkas

What you need is a job. No sane woman will agree to marry and have kids with a jobless man.

Em222:
Hi guys am a graduate who lost his job 4 yrs ago I am in my middle 30s but I want to settle down cos no time left so if ur a mature lady with a good job or business doing to assist me so I can bounce back to my real man self am ready to marry you I swear with my whole heart just chat me up let's get the plans all mapped out am serious no time let's start making kids before it gets late the age range I need is from 26 to 39 so if u want us to get started chat me on 08164084891

Your mind set is not a pleasant one about marriage and having kids with a koboless pocket

Find your bearing first then think of settling down

The birth and arrival of a new born is a bigger responsibilities

Piptocoin:
If it was a jobless woman looking for a husband this same band of nairalanders who think op has lost a few nuts in his brain for proposing a marriage union despite his jobless situation would encourage her to find a rich man. Afterall, she is a woman and women are not naturally wired to be the breadwinners.

True. Reminds me of the book "The War Against Boys"

Piptocoin:
If it was a jobless woman looking for a husband this same band of nairalanders who think op has lost a few nuts in his brain for proposing a marriage union despite his jobless situation would encourage her to find a rich man. Afterall, she is a woman and women are not naturally wired to be the breadwinners.

They are just shameless hypocrites it's nauseating. Claim to be equals with men one minute, expect different standards for both genders the next. Very annoying lot.

Personally, I will never marry or have any kids if I don't have the means to take care of them, I don't plan to depend on any woman or family members after marriage. My wife can work & be the richest woman in the world, I won't give a shyt...I will just do my responsibilities as a husband. We go be together 4ever as long as she is loyal


But that's just me, I know some 1 whos wife sponsored him to school & they eventually got married, though they still live together, even despite the man getting a job after. The wife is still the boss, sometimes I even feel embrass with the way she treats him..but he doesn't seem to mine, so I also pretend like I have seen nothing

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Lol
Nothing I no go see for d forum

In my own view on this write up the guy post,it might be a way to see who will say yes to it's proposal.most wealthy guys use this type of way to select their partner.only god knows

Jethrosam:
In my own view on this write up the guy post,it might be a way to see who will say yes to it's proposal.most wealthy guys use this type of way to select their partner.only god knows

Ah dey tell you oh. I fancy going this route though.

@ahnie
He's looking for a sponsor....men nowadays shame has vanished from their face.this op is nothing but a leech.


@me
But you ladies said that what a man can do that a woman can do even better.

If the future is female then things must change from the old way to the new way.

ImaIma1:
Are you looking for a wife or for a sponsor? And you think the best time to settle down is when you are jobless, hoping that the woman will be your benefactor.

The person advising you is not well.

The person advising him is probably a freeloader as well. Shameless people everywhere

Ladies, this is the best time to start from the scratch with your man..... so that you will have a testimony/ what u will hand down to your children...

Stories like your father and I had nothing.... We started from ground zero ..we were sleeping on the floor... But look at where we are now... This is the time.... do not let this opportunity pass you by...