| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Johnmattee(m): 10:49am On Jul 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:
Rape apologist Oshiiiii! Welldone! If you read my post very well you will see where I said I don't condone rape. It's evil but nevertheless, a girl child should be taught how to comport herself. Most of us are quick to adopt Western lifestyle and forgetting our own cultural value. It's not in our custom to dress provocatively. Men are moved by what they see and that's how it is in every male animal down the evolutionary ladder. Just yesterday, I saw a girl who happened to be wearing just a shit with nothing to cover her thighs, she was walking while guys were throwing glances in every direction. Not all men have the energy to restrain themselves from this kind of temptation, not everyone is mentally okay. Therefore all hands must be on deck to ensure we have a morally upright society. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Abudu2000(m): 10:51am On Jul 12, 2021 |
VEXT:
I don blame the op,I blame the stupid mod that push this topic to front page...So a daughter staying with her dad is at risk of been rape... yes a big yess. I ve seen many ppl that do it and sadly they all got away with it coz they are rich. I know one useless man who did it to his daughter coz the mom is dead, even married another wife and was still doing it to his own daughter. His new wifes bro found out and challenged him to stop it, this man stabbed the boy and chased him out of his house coz he is the landlord. I know another two with similar experiences so yes alot of men become attracted to thei daughter even at 12years old. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Franzinni: 10:51am On Jul 12, 2021 |
SimplyFacts:
Black mentality.
Don't make the whites make jest of us abeg for a moniker called simply fact you have not lived up to your name ... Black mentality please explain and educate me I beg of you sir.... And to the whites, you have been a laughing stock since they first discovered your continent so what are you rambling about sir ? I humbly await your explanation so I can be enlightened |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Nobody: 10:51am On Jul 12, 2021 |
ollymooreagain:
*MOTHERS, YOUR DAUGHTERS ARE EXPOSED TO RAPISTS UNDER ANY OF THESE CONDITIONS.*
1. If your daughter is made to hawk anything on the road.
2. If your daughter is still with his father after separating from him.
3. If your daughter is a house maid somewhere..
4. If you are married to another man who is a drunkard and your daughter stays with you people.
5. If your daughters lives with uncles, nephews, other male family members while you are not there.
6. If you leave your baby girl at home in care of nobody.
7. If you allow your daughter to be running errands for men who live alone.
8. If you don’t care about the movements of your daughters.
9. If you live in an isolated environment where it is easy to commit any crime.
10. If you go out to anywhere and leave your daughters to play around the premises.
11. If you allow your teenage girls to dress carelessly outside the premises.
12. If your own son has male friends who visit your home regularly.
13. If your own son and daughters are exposed to pornographic films, internet, pictures etc.
14. If you have ever caught your husband romancing or kissing your daughter (this happens).
15. If there are rapists in your compound where sexual assaults have taken place.
16. If your own sons are exposed to alcohol and drugs and they stay with your daughters.
17. If your teenage girls flock around with male friends with questionable characters.
18. If your daughter is in a school where sexual assault has taken place.
19. If your landlord is a womanizer and a drunkard and he stays in the same premises with you.
20. If your daughter tells you that some guys are harassing her sexually, etc.
*Dear Mothers,* if you notice any of the above and many more things happening your babies, little girls and teenage girls who are your daughters, these are RED FLAGS to be aware of.
Take every precaution to safeguard your daughters. Monitor them regularly. Counsel your teenage girls and pray for them regularly. I really love this..if most of the posts on social medias are educative,the world we live in won't be like this. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by DissTroy(m): 10:56am On Jul 12, 2021 |
kudinkarfe:
Girls of nowadays dress to kill...and men are move by what they see. Honesty many girls dressing seduce men. If you don't want to be rape don't wake the sleeping Lion. Maybe. But if you think men shouldn't control themselves and a girl's dressing is the singular criterion for her to be ráped, you have no moral justification to criticise the policemen who assault and murder men with dyed hair, dreadlocks and tattoos 'cause they think they are criminals. 1 Like |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by KristaPretty(f): 10:59am On Jul 12, 2021 |
ollymooreagain:
*MOTHERS, YOUR DAUGHTERS ARE EXPOSED TO RAPISTS UNDER ANY OF THESE CONDITIONS.*
1. If your daughter is made to hawk anything on the road.
2. If your daughter is still with his father after separating from him.
3. If your daughter is a house maid somewhere..
4. If you are married to another man who is a drunkard and your daughter stays with you people.
5. If your daughters lives with uncles, nephews, other male family members while you are not there.
6. If you leave your baby girl at home in care of nobody.
7. If you allow your daughter to be running errands for men who live alone.
8. If you don’t care about the movements of your daughters.
9. If you live in an isolated environment where it is easy to commit any crime.
10. If you go out to anywhere and leave your daughters to play around the premises.
11. If you allow your teenage girls to dress carelessly outside the premises.
12. If your own son has male friends who visit your home regularly.
13. If your own son and daughters are exposed to pornographic films, internet, pictures etc.
14. If you have ever caught your husband romancing or kissing your daughter (this happens).
15. If there are rapists in your compound where sexual assaults have taken place.
16. If your own sons are exposed to alcohol and drugs and they stay with your daughters.
17. If your teenage girls flock around with male friends with questionable characters.
18. If your daughter is in a school where sexual assault has taken place.
19. If your landlord is a womanizer and a drunkard and he stays in the same premises with you.
20. If your daughter tells you that some guys are harassing her sexually, etc.
*Dear Mothers,* if you notice any of the above and many more things happening your babies, little girls and teenage girls who are your daughters, these are RED FLAGS to be aware of.
Take every precaution to safeguard your daughters. Monitor them regularly. Counsel your teenage girls and pray for them regularly. No 21.
Do not keep your daughters in the custody of any man of God. Do not push them and force a relationship on Daddy GO or the so called Priests. If she declines, please leave her alone!!!!!
No 22.
Do not trust anyone around your child except yourself, plenty people dey ment now 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by lawzolk: 10:59am On Jul 12, 2021 |
Then life has no meaning if u think all mothers should follow all this. Some of your points are rubbish In regards to tagging all men as potential rapist. It hurt so badly. There are ways mothers can go about this to protect their daughters. A mother should enlighten her daughter not to keep anything to herself regarding any suspicion she notices and should always shout, scream if she finds herself in any bad situation with any man trying to molest her. There are a whole lot to mention. Stop creating unnecessary tension and paranoia. When putting out topics like this, one has to be more logical and less sentimental. Also, the mods too should try as mush as possible to know the kind of post they push up to frontpage. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Emmanuel909090: 11:01am On Jul 12, 2021 |
ollymooreagain:
*MOTHERS, YOUR DAUGHTERS ARE EXPOSED TO RAPISTS UNDER ANY OF THESE CONDITIONS.*
1. If your daughter is made to hawk anything on the road.
2. If your daughter is still with his father after separating from him.
3. If your daughter is a house maid somewhere..
4. If you are married to another man who is a drunkard and your daughter stays with you people.
5. If your daughters lives with uncles, nephews, other male family members while you are not there.
6. If you leave your baby girl at home in care of nobody.
7. If you allow your daughter to be running errands for men who live alone.
8. If you don’t care about the movements of your daughters.
9. If you live in an isolated environment where it is easy to commit any crime.
10. If you go out to anywhere and leave your daughters to play around the premises.
11. If you allow your teenage girls to dress carelessly outside the premises.
12. If your own son has male friends who visit your home regularly.
13. If your own son and daughters are exposed to pornographic films, internet, pictures etc.
14. If you have ever caught your husband romancing or kissing your daughter (this happens).
15. If there are rapists in your compound where sexual assaults have taken place.
16. If your own sons are exposed to alcohol and drugs and they stay with your daughters.
17. If your teenage girls flock around with male friends with questionable characters.
18. If your daughter is in a school where sexual assault has taken place.
19. If your landlord is a womanizer and a drunkard and he stays in the same premises with you.
20. If your daughter tells you that some guys are harassing her sexually, etc.
*Dear Mothers,* if you notice any of the above and many more things happening your babies, little girls and teenage girls who are your daughters, these are RED FLAGS to be aware of.
Take every precaution to safeguard your daughters. Monitor them regularly. Counsel your teenage girls and pray for them regularly. No 2 shows you are a big fool. I have a friend who raised his daughter from few months till today, she is all grown. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by IvarDboneless: 11:03am On Jul 12, 2021 |
ollymooreagain:
*MOTHERS, YOUR DAUGHTERS ARE EXPOSED TO RAPISTS UNDER ANY OF THESE CONDITIONS.*
1. If your daughter is made to hawk anything on the road.
2. If your daughter is still with his father after separating from him.
3. If your daughter is a house maid somewhere..
4. If you are married to another man who is a drunkard and your daughter stays with you people.
5. If your daughters lives with uncles, nephews, other male family members while you are not there.
6. If you leave your baby girl at home in care of nobody.
7. If you allow your daughter to be running errands for men who live alone.
8. If you don’t care about the movements of your daughters.
9. If you live in an isolated environment where it is easy to commit any crime.
10. If you go out to anywhere and leave your daughters to play around the premises.
11. If you allow your teenage girls to dress carelessly outside the premises.
12. If your own son has male friends who visit your home regularly.
13. If your own son and daughters are exposed to pornographic films, internet, pictures etc.
14. If you have ever caught your husband romancing or kissing your daughter (this happens).
15. If there are rapists in your compound where sexual assaults have taken place.
16. If your own sons are exposed to alcohol and drugs and they stay with your daughters.
17. If your teenage girls flock around with male friends with questionable characters.
18. If your daughter is in a school where sexual assault has taken place.
19. If your landlord is a womanizer and a drunkard and he stays in the same premises with you.
20. If your daughter tells you that some guys are harassing her sexually, etc.
*Dear Mothers,* if you notice any of the above and many more things happening your babies, little girls and teenage girls who are your daughters, these are RED FLAGS to be aware of.
Take every precaution to safeguard your daughters. Monitor them regularly. Counsel your teenage girls and pray for them regularly. You made sense but your no2 is bullshit...do you know the girl child loves the dad more than their mum and vic versa...if one or two have done such evil of molestation of their daughter why generalize it. Nigerian women una too dey overreact to everything... I personally takes good care of my beautiful princess more than my wife do and I have swore to protect her with my life so what da f*ck you talking about. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Pricelessruby(f): 11:07am On Jul 12, 2021 |
 Umaruxoxo:
Nawaoooo .rape no be Africa things oooo |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Monben: 11:09am On Jul 12, 2021 |
Male relations are the people to be feared most Iliveforever:
Remove number 5 jare.
Some of the safest place ur daughter can be is with a male relation. Stop making unnecessary remarks |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by afribabe: 11:13am On Jul 12, 2021 |
I have a problem with No 2.....
Besides, this post makes it look like every male is a rapist... Na wa o |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Rafelstan: 11:13am On Jul 12, 2021 |
Rape is just like armed robbery even if u lock your house an armed robber will still steal
But if u dnt lock your house a normal person won't steal from your house.
The same applies to rape even if u were skimpy dresses a normal guy will ask you to sleep with him but a rapist will move to rape you.
Seeing skin attracts you to a girl but for a rapist whether the dress is skimpy or not he will want rape.
Because rape is a behavioural pattern and an attitude it aims to subdue the victim and show dominion ever the victim.
A normal guy sees a girl looking dressed and showing skin approaches her but a rapist thinks of how to rape her.
Plus when you get to the court for a rape case the 2 elements of rape will be looked at .
The actus reus(action) and the mens area(intent)
So if the prosecution establishes that u had the intent to rape and you carried out the action then boom you raped and u can't be exonerated even if the girl was walking on d street naked
As far as there was a forceful penetration
You raped the girl |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Nobody: 11:13am On Jul 12, 2021 |
So u dey kill market for we ultimate rapists |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Nobody: 11:15am On Jul 12, 2021 |
You forget to add the mother or female teacher can rape her too I've seen countless cases. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by TheLeviathan(m): 11:22am On Jul 12, 2021 |
OP are you normal?
For you to even suggest number 2, maybe it's from your upbringing sha |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by somehow: 11:31am On Jul 12, 2021 |
Romanoff:
Like I said, I commented based on what the topic states. When there's a topic about raped boys, I'll bring the same energy. You female folks hardly create threads to address problems male children face knowing fully well that most men don't have time to create such "domestic" threads. If female folks truly want to secure environment, they need to concentrate more on their male children when it comes to addressing issues of insecurity/violence in the nearest future. Have a nice day. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Oyin2212(m): 11:35am On Jul 12, 2021 |
shadrach77:
The writer of this piece isn't wise since he/she regards all men as potential rapists  Thank you 1 Like |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by umpire1st(m): 11:35am On Jul 12, 2021 |
I was waiting for someone to say this, just because I don't agree with idiotic reasons on the post... Humans are so predictable Kinzo0917:
. How is it useless ? Is like you are pontetial rapist. Remember, if you are caught, you will spend the rest of your life in police cell gas ⛽ chamber |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Romanoff(f): 11:38am On Jul 12, 2021 |
somehow:
You female folks hardly create threads to address problems male children face knowing fully well that most men don't have time to create such "domestic" threads.
If female folks truly want to secure environment, they need to concentrate more on their male children when it comes to addressing issues of insecurity/violence in the nearest future.
Have a nice day. So since you're a guy, why not create it. People create posts as it relates to them. How many posts have you created of raped boys and how to curb the menace? All people like you do is pick gender fights and heap accusations. What have you done about rape of boys? 1 Like |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by somehow: 11:42am On Jul 12, 2021 |
Romanoff:
So since you're a guy, why not create it.
People create posts as it relates to them.
How many posts have you created of raped boys and how to curb the menace?
All people like you do is pick gender fights and heap accusations.
What have you done about rape of boys? What I have done and doing is not mainly on nairaland, I do mine in real physical life. I also do by correcting post like this and comments like yours. If you must create thread, create a balanced one. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Romanoff(f): 11:49am On Jul 12, 2021 |
somehow:
What I have done and doing is not mainly on nairaland, I do mine in real physical life.
I also do by correcting post like this and comments like yours.
If you must create thread, create a balanced one. So someone talks about how AIDS kills, you will want the person to also balance his or her post by stating how other illnesses kill. If you don't think this logic is flawed, I won't even bother to responding anymore. Meanwhile, bring your campaign to Nairaland so we can contribute to it. The reason we are both having this conversation is cause someone is advocating on Nairaland. Thank you. 1 Like |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by victons(m): 11:55am On Jul 12, 2021 |
ollymooreagain:
*MOTHERS, YOUR DAUGHTERS ARE EXPOSED TO RAPISTS UNDER ANY OF THESE CONDITIONS.*
1. If your daughter is made to hawk anything on the road.
2. If your daughter is still with his father after separating from him.
3. If your daughter is a house maid somewhere..
4. If you are married to another man who is a drunkard and your daughter stays with you people.
5. If your daughters lives with uncles, nephews, other male family members while you are not there.
6. If you leave your baby girl at home in care of nobody.
7. If you allow your daughter to be running errands for men who live alone.
8. If you don’t care about the movements of your daughters.
9. If you live in an isolated environment where it is easy to commit any crime.
10. If you go out to anywhere and leave your daughters to play around the premises.
11. If you allow your teenage girls to dress carelessly outside the premises.
12. If your own son has male friends who visit your home regularly.
13. If your own son and daughters are exposed to pornographic films, internet, pictures etc.
14. If you have ever caught your husband romancing or kissing your daughter (this happens).
15. If there are rapists in your compound where sexual assaults have taken place.
16. If your own sons are exposed to alcohol and drugs and they stay with your daughters.
17. If your teenage girls flock around with male friends with questionable characters.
18. If your daughter is in a school where sexual assault has taken place.
19. If your landlord is a womanizer and a drunkard and he stays in the same premises with you.
20. If your daughter tells you that some guys are harassing her sexually, etc.
*Dear Mothers,* if you notice any of the above and many more things happening your babies, little girls and teenage girls who are your daughters, these are RED FLAGS to be aware of.
Take every precaution to safeguard your daughters. Monitor them regularly. Counsel your teenage girls and pray for them regularly. I see how much effort you'd put to demean the male gender. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 11:56am On Jul 12, 2021 |
bjtinz:
@op,.stop stealing people's work. Always reference where u got the post from.
Secondly the way we are beginning to make this issue so facile is becoming disturbing.
The idea that rape is something any man would do when if given the opportunity is DEEPLY OFFENSIVE to overwhelming majority of us out there.
Pls we need to stop this nonsense
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| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by somehow: 11:57am On Jul 12, 2021 |
Romanoff:
So someone talks about how AIDS kills, you will want the person to also balance his or her post by stating how other illnesses kill.
If you don't think this logic is flawed, I won't even bother to responding anymore.
Meanwhile, bring your campaign to Nairaland so we can contribute to it.
The reason we are both having this conversation is cause someone is advocating on Nairaland.
Thank you. Your analogy get comma. AIDS affect both male and female. Rape affect both male and female. It will become an issue just as it is here if someone creates a thread on AIDS just for the female folks and heap the blames on the male folks. I want to believe you will understand better now. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Romanoff(f): 12:00pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
somehow:
Your analogy get comma.
AIDS affect both male and female.
Rape affect both male and female.
It will become an issue just as it is here if someone creates a thread on AIDS just for the female folks and heap the blames on the male folks.
I want to believe you will understand better now. All I'm saying is, comments were made based on the topic. Since you're a campaigner on raped boys, bring your campaign here. Let's learn. We will learn and contribute. 1 Like |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by somehow: 12:10pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
Romanoff:
All I'm saying is, comments were made based on the topic.
Since you're a campaigner on raped boys, bring your campaign here.
Let's learn.
We will learn and contribute. I am a campaigner of addressing issues by the root and not surface. Can the female folks protect themselves against the male folks if all male actually are rapists or potential rapists? Since the thread sees all male as potential rapists, neglecting the male child while trying to curb rape against the female child makes no sense because the circle will continue. I believe you got my point but just can't bring yourself to accepting realities. Have a nice day. |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by 15ssDRIVE(m): 12:11pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
ollymooreagain:
*MOTHERS, YOUR DAUGHTERS ARE EXPOSED TO RAPISTS UNDER ANY OF THESE CONDITIONS.*
1. If your daughter is made to hawk anything on the road.
2. If your daughter is still with his father after separating from him.
3. If your daughter is a house maid somewhere..
4. If you are married to another man who is a drunkard and your daughter stays with you people.
5. If your daughters lives with uncles, nephews, other male family members while you are not there.
6. If you leave your baby girl at home in care of nobody.
7. If you allow your daughter to be running errands for men who live alone.
8. If you don’t care about the movements of your daughters.
9. If you live in an isolated environment where it is easy to commit any crime.
10. If you go out to anywhere and leave your daughters to play around the premises.
11. If you allow your teenage girls to dress carelessly outside the premises.
12. If your own son has male friends who visit your home regularly.
13. If your own son and daughters are exposed to pornographic films, internet, pictures etc.
14. If you have ever caught your husband romancing or kissing your daughter (this happens).
15. If there are rapists in your compound where sexual assaults have taken place.
16. If your own sons are exposed to alcohol and drugs and they stay with your daughters.
17. If your teenage girls flock around with male friends with questionable characters.
18. If your daughter is in a school where sexual assault has taken place.
19. If your landlord is a womanizer and a drunkard and he stays in the same premises with you.
20. If your daughter tells you that some guys are harassing her sexually, etc.
*Dear Mothers,* if you notice any of the above and many more things happening your babies, little girls and teenage girls who are your daughters, these are RED FLAGS to be aware of.
Take every precaution to safeguard your daughters. Monitor them regularly. Counsel your teenage girls and pray for them regularly. This one fear me oh:14. If you have ever caught your husband romancing or kissing your daughter (this happens). AYE OH |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by 15ssDRIVE(m): 12:15pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
lawzolk:
Then life has no meaning if u think all mothers should follow all this. Some of your points are rubbish In regards to tagging all men as potential rapist. It hurt so badly. There are ways mothers can go about this to protect their daughters. A mother should enlighten her daughter not to keep anything to herself regarding any suspicion she notices and should always shout, scream if she finds herself in any bad situation with any man trying to molest her. There are a whole lot to mention. Stop creating unnecessary tension and paranoia. When putting out topics like this, one has to be more logical and less sentimental. Also, the mods too should try as mush as possible to know the kind of post they push up to frontpage. Tell them oh, i travelled with my step daughter and she is 12,talkless of my own blood, why on earth will someone with, correct head think of that? haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by cactusJack(m): 12:23pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
#2 if your daughter is still with his father....lol |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Romanoff(f): 12:27pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
somehow:
I am a campaigner of addressing issues by the root and not surface.
Can the female folks protect themselves against the male folks if all male actually are rapists or potential rapists?
Since the thread sees all male as potential rapists, neglecting the male child while trying to curb rape against the female child makes no sense because the circle will continue.
I believe you got my point but just can't bring yourself to accepting realities.
Have a nice day. The posts is just talking about rape factors and how they can be curbed. No matter how sad it looks, it's the truth. This is not a hate post about the male folk cause not all men are rapists and not all rapist are men. But the post has a focus point, the girl child. This doesn't mean the boy child doesn't get raped or abused, this only means the poster's focus is the girl child. Just like you said you talk about raped boys. 1 Like |
| Re: Mothers, Your Daughters Are Exposed To Rapists Under Any Of These Conditions by Kingpin1000: 12:31pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
And the OP forget women also rape girls. |
