There is another life after wedding, which stands to be the ultimate purpose of the Union. Wedding is like buying a ticket to an unknown destination.
You may have the idea of where your going but you don't know your bus stop...
Having an idea of your destination, does not guarantee the success of your journey...just an eye speck
Life after wedding is the beginning of marriage...in fact, your life has just begun.
45 Mins reception will not determine the success or failure of your time journey...
We spend much time preparing for wedding activities but less time for the life after it. Very pathetic!

The excitement of this journey has made many of us lose focus, direction and finally sense of reasoning.

√ All we want is for "better for better" not even for worst.
√ In health not in sickness...
√ In Rang Rover not in keke...
√ In Duplex not in Face me I Face you.
√ In Sugar not in bitterness...
√ In eating not in working....
√ In Wealth not in poverty
√ In US not in Africa. ...
√ In hurry not in patience. ..

We want marriage made easy..."I cannor coman be suffering, who suffering epp? "

Life after wedding is a life of collective responsibility and self determination. It can come with anything....
Remember that life itself isn't a bed of roses.

WAY OUT......WAY OUT.....WAY OUT...

√ Marry your friend, he / she will make the journey easier for you..
√ It's a Journey of endurance and patience, so don't think everything is gonna be easy..
√ Don't copy anybody's marriage, know your partner and apply his/ her code..
N/B: don't be envious of someone's marriage, for you know no where it may stinging them. Concentrate more on making yours enjoyable.
√ Don't behave like the five foolish Vrgins, make sure you have enough oil ( information and wisdom) (Matt 25: 1-13)
√ In this Journey there is no one means of transportation.. The most important thing is to get your destination. ( there is no need to rush)
√ Have it at the back of your mind that some of those things that attracted you to him/ her will gradually lose its beauty... ( Nothing stands forever)
√ The truth is that marriage is for better and for worse.
( Nobody prays for divorce but it seems to be happening more often than marriage itself)
√ There is no journey without a pilot, Captain or driver. If you don't have GOD in this journey, you have no destination...

Marry your friend...
Marry your play mate..
Marry your gossip mate..
Don't marry because of today, look into the future and make choice for its fulfillment

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Thanks

Food for thought.

May God bless you for this piece.