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ermmmmmm ditch the looser aite babes

vivaladiva:
ermmmmmm ditch the looser aite babes

aren't you guys suppose to give me tips to get over him to the end. Cos now I'm in on the edge of falling.

yeah i know, am just being insensitive----i know its tough---he prob gat a kinda swagger that u like and perharps he still makes ur heart skip a beat---trust me babes he aint worth it
pls dont be offended, how old r u

i think u should just forget about him. . .he aint worth it esp. if he treated u like that. . .maybe if u wanted y'all culd be friends but nah. . .if he did u like that b4 he can definitely do it again

@Ethiodame
We can and probably will give you tips but you have to be willing to move on and get over this dude. No amount of external help will get you over this if you feel you can go back to him or if you want to go back.

As for tips here are mine for what is worth:

1. Do not answer his calls, read/listen to his messages.

2. Do not see him.

3. Get rid of pictures, mementos and anything that reminds you of him. Put them in a box and keep them in the attic/garage/store.

4. Listen to your girls. Their support will help you keep your decision not to get back with him (assuming thats what you want to do).

5. Finally hang out with other cool dudes (friendship only for now) and babes.

[color=#0066ff]follow your heart! screw your friends and even his pleas, just follow your heart.[/color]

ethiodime
dot mind dat bad boy he is just missing ur Womanliness.

I can infer from your posts that you are still in love with him, in spite of the way he's treated you. Anyways, human beings can never be the same. Because if I were you, I would delete him from my life and even clear him from the recycle bin in case of temptation. It seems to me that you'd rather stick with him and you are just hearing people out. You will eventually go back to him and he will break whatever remains of your already broken heart. The ball is in your court!

look at it this way, All your friends that you've known probably all your adult life can't be wrong about this dude. It sucks to hear we told you so plus this dude probably only offers you the one obvious thing that you can get elsewhere.
Just move on and i wouldn't advice you being friends with him either cos u still care abt him.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=665384.msg8304154#msg8304154 date=1305190045]@Ethiodime: I know we don't talk much on Nairaland and with all due respect, is it until he takes a crap on your face that you realize that he's no good for you? Please, be the strong and empowered woman that I know you are and leave the mofo. Onward and forward!!! Like I said, we don't talk much but you seem like a nice girl and I don't wanna see you get hurt. Look, if you wanna talk privately I can talk to you because there's a story I would like to share with you [/quote]seriously, i believe is just looking for a lousy lay. he aint worth it.

@ Ethiodime,u realy need to listen 2 ur friends & move on.the several advice posted on dis thread should prove invaluable 2 u.I'm confident & trusting in you to do the right thing.cheers.

EthioDime, you ought to move on, you are beautiful and finding another one of a kind package will not be hard for you.I agree with all the repliers, they got nice advice for you. Don't neglect it, grab tight to it and move on. From what you wrote the guy seriously have no life and if you ultimately go back to him he will pull you down with him.

Poster, it took him 3 1/2 months to realize he was missing u? seems like he's run out

of easy lays. ignore him.