Going through social media once in a while, Its hard not to notice the array of women demanding attention in one shape, form or fashion.

If you then reader takes a minute to check your IG, tiki tok now, its filled with women doing a challenge, wearing something that attracts attention or just on social media. The few men I see are often skit makers or celebrities.

I fear this trend may begin to alter the confidence of daughters and those yet unborn.

Or how important is attention to women?
How did women live before the advent of social media and the internet?

I hear some ladies get depressed when thier pictures get few likes and views compared to others.

I could be wrong.

Elders over to you

Its very natural to love attention as a lady

Rozcol:
Its very natural to love attention as a lady

Hmnnn...

But at what cost.

It has gotten to a point where choir mistress is doing shedibalaba, or #bustitchallenge

Smile4mee01:


Hmnnn...

But at what cost.

It has gotten to a point where choir mistress is doing shedibalaba, or #bustitchallenge

Extremism in all things is bad,so we must not loose our sanity all because of attention.

Smile4mee01:

Or how important is attention to women?

Like oxygen.

It's basically how they measure their self-worth.


– Men (not feminized men who place too much emphasis on their looks) measure their worth by how well they're doing in life in comparison to other men within their peer group.
Strip a man of his accomplishments and financial power, and you would have created a dent in his self-worth.

– Women measure their worth by how many men are chasing/interested in them at any given time in comparison to other women.
Strip a woman of every male attention to make her feel invisible, and you would have created a dent in her self-worth.