HI,

Complicated stuff here.
Will you allow your mother to live with you?
Know well that Wifes and mothers usually have beef(i wonder why, maybe is a girly thingy, Chics help me out here).
Any way, as for me its only for "OMUGO"(for the non-easterners this means when the mother comes over to take care of the new born child of a couple) that i'll allow my momsie to stay with me.

Whats your take. (chics especially)

Be good always!

I wanna take care of my own child. No mother should come and live with me.

i think its ok for ur mom to see u and ur child when u give birth like she could help u out it in takin care of the baby cos it might be a little stress u know

She can come first and stay for like a week. But she should leave after that.

When I get married and have my baby...I wouldn't mind at all if my mum came to visit and helped in taking care of the baby, but Obviously she's not going to stay in my house for like "Forever" she has to leave @ some point later. She can stay how long she wants, I can't make her leave, afterall she's my mum.

Sometime having you mum live with you and your wife is like having a second wife! you might start having problem or issues with things that never bordered you before! Visiting is fine but living with us NO! same goes to her mum.

yeah she'll stay for a short while if she stays like FOREVER i wouldn't like it

prince_onx , Please can u expantiate on the problems involved in allowing ur mum to come and stay. I need to know. Thanx

No! No!! No!!! I don't like that idea at all.

You guys make me laugh. Mama is above 80years and it will not be funny at all. My wife loves my mother but i will not allow her to stay more than 3months.

On the other hand, i prefer my mother in-law (60+). She keeps my wife on her toes. She does not tolerate nonsense from my wife and always want my wife to please me. I know that if my mother in-law stays with us, i will always be like a king

if ma mom dsnt behave nicely den i wld ask her 2 leave
bt i knw ma mom aint like dat

Olu Abuja:

You guys make me laugh. Mama is above 80years and it will not be funny at all. My wife loves my mother but i will not allow her to stay more than 3months.

On the other hand, i prefer my mother in-law (60+). She keeps my wife on her toes. She does not tolerate nonsense from my wife and always want my wife to please me. I know that if my mother in-law stays with us, i will always be like a king

king indeed

Some mums can be impossible,

hmmmmmmmmmm,nice topic but am not a man and i dont have a wife

but if i was a man,my mother would spend more than obne wee to my place ,
if i know she and my wife are not friendly.

Yeah! I would allow her to come stay with me and my wife only if she doesn't try to run my family by her rules . because i'm getting sek and tired of such parents.

Any one comming here has to tell me when they are going.

Visiting - fine

Living/Residing - No

Reason: It takes hard work for a husband and wife to be able to live together. Accepting any other person ( be it mother, sister, brother, cousin, and so on) into ur home is like nurturing some foreign bodies into ur body system. The fact therefore is that, whether you realise it or not, the peace of ur home will surely be tampered with, and if not carefully handled, could completely damage your marriage.

Unless she is coming asa house help.