My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore
Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people.
He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse.
Pls Advice me on what to do.

Nothing gives parents heartache then this. It makes one to become a laughing stock in the society. And the day she gave birth to him there was excitement not knowing that he'll grow to become something else.

Op, I feel your pain. Just be praying for him and never give up. I heard of ppl worse then him and they later changed for good cheers.

May God help parents train their children, some parents spoil their children thinking they are doing something good, there are some questions to ask, how did she train him from onset? Maybe psychologically your mother ignored some signs when he started at tender age he is her cross let her pray and fast

Life of crime

Una say wahala be like wetin again sef.... Well make una hand him matter over to God hand na only am go fit save your brother totally because this case doesn't look ordinary. I sense the hand of village people

hand him over to the military men..

Make una dump am for military people hand.
He fit change

Or make una actually sit am down annd know wetin dey worry am

Hezzyluv:
Nothing gives parents heartache then this. It makes one to become a laughing stock in the society. And the day she gave birth to him there was excitement not knowing that he'll grow to become something else.

Op, I feel your pain. Just be praying for him and never give up. I heard of ppl worse then him and they later changed for good cheers.

100% of our prayers
40 to 60 goes for him
Mountain to mountain
Vigil to vigil
But his not changing

Bola146:
May God help parents train their children, some parents spoil their children thinking they are doing something good, there are some questions to ask, how did she train him from onset? Maybe psychologically your mother ignored some signs when he started at tender age he is her cross let her pray and fast

My mum have tried.
She had done everything mother can do
Even though before our father is late it has been my mom
Now he is becoming worse

shawante:
Una say wahala be like wetin again sef.... Well make una hand him matter over to God hand na only am go fit save your brother totally because this case doesn't look ordinary. I sense the hand of village people

Nearly all the prayer in the family is for him
My mom have try

Usually when it gets to this level.

3 things are involved.

1. The blood that runs in his veins matters.

2. He might have stolen from somebody that have placed a very potent curse on him.
The curse is usually like this, " you will never be useful, you will continue to steal all the days of your life and eventually get killed in the act one day". At this point its only a matter of time the society he is terrorizing will rise against him. Na death be that!

3. Up bringing, just maybe your parents didn't do enough while he was still bendable.

He needs special deliverance from curses placed on him by his victims.

Nobody should say anything about pair group.

E.g, I don't smoke but 90% of my friends are core smokers they smoke all manner of things.

Life is 100% about personal determinism.

You choose to steal or not steal!

passionguy:

100% of our prayers
40 to 60 goes for him
Mountain to mountain
Vigil to vigil
But his not changing

You can't kill him either or trow away the baby with bathwater .I know your parents and relatives had sat him down and talked to him on several occasions so needless for me to reiterate. Prayers can change finz keep praying for him.

passionguy:

Nearly all the prayer in the family is for him
My mom have try

Let her keep praying the results will manifest one day

Hezzyluv:


Let her keep praying the results will manifest one day

Alright thanks

Hezzyluv:


You can't kill him either or trow away the baby with bathwater .I know your parents and relatives had sat him down and talked to him on several occasions so needless for me to reiterate. Prayers can change finz keep praying for him.

Thanks

Fuckyoumod:
Usually when it gets to this level.

3 things are involved.

1. The blood that runs in his veins matters.

2. He might have stolen from somebody that have placed a very potent curse on him.
The curse is usually like this, " you will never be useful, you will continue to steal all the days of your life and eventually get killed in the act one day". At this point its only a matter of time the society he is terrorizing will rise against him. Na death be that!

3. Up bringing, just maybe your parents didn't do enough while he was still bendable.

He needs special deliverance from curses placed on him by his victims.

Nobody should say anything about pair group.

E.g, I don't smoke but 90% of my friends are core smokers they smoke all manner of things.

Life is 100% about personal determinism.

You choose to steal or not steal!

To be sincere
My mom heard tried
Even when my dad was still alive and these boy misbehaving stealing at home it as always been my mother praying here and there.
Before the death of my dad he had spent several years outside the country leaving mum with us and my brother is the last born
My mum try to handle him but there is a limit a woman can handle a male child.
Thanks for your advice
Really appreciate you

passionguy:

100% of our prayers
40 to 60 goes for him
Mountain to mountain
Vigil to vigil
But his not changing

Get him arrested and don't bail him for a long time.

If you don't get rid of him, he will get rid of you all. The choice is yours.


Forget prayers. Sometimes to fight evil you need bigger EVIL.

Is he your younger brother? Well you all should sit him down, talk to him, let him realize that he has brought a lot of shame to your family. Tell him of the dangers of the part he is following and the end of the people dat follows such part. And give him the final warning, that any other misbehavior or stealing from him, he would be handed over to the military. Trust the military. The go reset him brain to factory reset

yomi007k:


Get him arrested and don't bail him for a long time.

If you don't get rid of him, he will get rid of you all. The choice is yours.


Forget prayers. Sometimes to fight evil you need bigger EVIL.

Thanks
He's even on a watch by security people now

4reala:
Is he your younger brother? Well you all should sit him down, talk to him, let him realize that he has brought a lot of shame to your family. Tell him of the dangers of the part he is following and the end of the people dat follows such part. And give him the final warning, that any other misbehavior or stealing from him, he would be handed over to the military. Trust the military. The go reset him brain to factory reset

We warned him talk to him
Do different prayer for him
But his not changing.
He as been arrested more than twice
But been bailed
I think he need to stay der without been visit if arrested cus am personally tired and have given up on him

passionguy:

We warned him talk to him
Do different prayer for him
But his not changing.
He as been arrested more than twice
But been bailed
I think he need to stay der without been visit if arrested cus am personally tired and have given up on him

Yes, let them leave him in the hand of army for 3 days only, him eye go clear

passionguy:

Nearly all the prayer in the family is for him
My mom have try

Bro I know it's not easy but she has no choice but to keep trying

shawante:
Bro I know it's not easy but she has no choice but to keep trying

Thanks for the advice

When did it all start? Has he always being like that from childhood?

Many people are moving around with curses they know or know nothing about.....

And my candid opinion is ,he should be guided with prays .... Nothing pass God..

God is merciful.....

bass7:
When did it all start? Has he always being like that from childhood?

Many people are moving around with curses they know or know nothing about.....

And my candid opinion is ,he should be guided with prays .... Nothing pass God..

God is merciful.....

Yes he started doing it at tender age
But is only my mom that is always around to deal with him even before the death of our father
He as been taking to church for deliverance severally prayer after prayer and yet he's becoming worse.
He was sent to school he withdrew from going after several months. Now his at home bringing issues upon issues
I can't even leave the house because he will kill my mom with his attitude.
Now am tired of him I too want to deal with my life
But he has committed another crime now and he is on the run

passionguy:

Thanks for the advice

. You are most welcome. And pls try keep us posted

I'll also try as much as possible to put him in prayers and hope that he turns a new leaf

Bola146:
May God help parents train their children, some parents spoil their children thinking they are doing something good, there are some questions to ask, how did she train him from onset? Maybe psychologically your mother ignored some signs when he started at tender age he is her crosslet her pray and fast

Why adding guilt to their existing problem? They are not soliciting for the cause of his messed-up behavior but rather a solution and a way forward.

If you can't help why not try the jump and pass method.

Kanixt:


Why adding guilt to their existing problem? They are not soliciting for the cause of his messed-up behavior but rather a solution and a way forward.

If you can't help why not try the jump and pass method.

Thanks a lot

shawante:
. You are most welcome. And pls try keep us posted

I'll also try as much as possible to put him in prayers and hope that he turns a new leaf

Thank you really appreciate you.

You people should locate OPM today and get him delivered ( we suffer more of wicked powers in our fathers compound )

You self look this thread :

https://www.nairaland.com/6735055/woman-dies-day-after-burial



Better move,Mummy from that location,make she self blow small.