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Jamesz12:
Please I have a friend who confided in me recently, infact just two days ago. Though I have giving him some advice to the best of my knowledge but with his consent I decided to bring it here for concrete and sound tips that will help him.
Actually he is deep into masturbation and this has been an issue to him, he is addicted to it that even when he makes up his mind to stop he still can't stop, even after visiting pastors for deliverance yet it is still an issue for him, he sees himself swimming at night and even having sex I the dream and he can't help it.
Please he is reading and following this thread. He needs help please.

Your friend is reading and following the thread but cannot post this himself? Why always a friend?

Is it you or this your imaginary friend that has the chronic masturbation problem?

Kajaard:
Your friend is reading and following the thread but cannot post this himself? Why always a friend?

Is it you or this your imaginary friend that has the chronic masturbation problem?

Bros...calm down!

Avoid PORN

THAT'S THE FIRST STEP

The dream is an imagination of his mind playing the tricks on him.
He should learn to reward himself on days he doesn't do it. It could be something as little as an extra piece of meat to a meal from a favorite restaurant.
On days he fails, he should also put consequence in place. It could be something as easy as reducing his meat portion to something as hard as skipping a meal.

Nigerians and the warped mindset, I just dont understand.
When a man or woman is masturbating, you let them get married, sexual urge is a normal part of our lives and their is nothing to be ashamed of.
Youths cannot use their brain again, cos of what some pastors are telling them.
1 Cor 7:2
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

If your friend gets married and is still masturbating despite the wife not denying him sex then come back.....

Meditation is what you need.. you need to train your mind and engage in mind tasking activities.
Masturbation ruins so many things including marriages so the earlier you free yourself from it, the better.