Gasapoto:
So far, we have two children in which one is my exact carbon copy while one did not in anyway resemble me but resemble the mother especially having the same complexion(fair) like my father inlaw who is also fair in complexion and posses some other features like him and my wife but did not in anyway takes after me.Once anybody see the one that is my carbon copy,you dont need to ask who is his father and i am happy for that.

Due to the growing rate of cases of father not being the biological father of his child(children) common these days after DNA test,most times i used to be worried whether i am the biological father of the one that did not in anyway resemble and i dont have the money for now to go and conduct DNA test.

I begin to ask whether its advisable to call my wife and sit her down and her ask to please tell me whether i am truly the biological father of the one that did not resemble me. But i dont know what will be her response or how she will feel if i ask such ?. Its not that i am suspecting her but most times i am scared considering news of whats happening these days in paternity test and results. Please kindly advise on the best way to handle this.

JovialJune:
I'm surprised some guys above are suggesting doing DNA test without the wife knowing? Why na? So all the rants and noise making of almost all resident nl males about DNA test na just online noise, lmao

Op tell her with your full chest, don't be a scared little sissy cowering because of the aftermath result, or are you a SIMP? Tell her your suspicions and damn the consequences, be a man

Oh!!! So now you are the new chair person of Home Wreckers Association Nairaland Chapter(HWANC).. What month did U take over? Congratulations

NwaAmaikpe:





It's easier to get into the pants of a Mother Superior than to get the truth out of the mouth of an adulterous wife without proof.

mariahAngel:
In most cases, there’s at least that one child that makes a man doubt if he’s truly the father, either because of the child’s character or by looks.
I believe most men have felt that way at some point in their fatherhood lives. (Even though they won’t admit it)
Some even blurt it out in the heat of an argument with their wives about an issue concerning that child.

Op, if you feel the need to have that talk with your wife, then go ahead. But hey! Be ready for what might follow after that.

Gasapoto:
So far, we have two children in which one is my exact carbon copy while one did not in anyway resemble me but resemble the mother especially having the same complexion(fair) like my father inlaw who is also fair in complexion and posses some other features like him and my wife but did not in anyway takes after me.Once anybody see the one that is my carbon copy,you dont need to ask who is his father and i am happy for that.

Due to the growing rate of cases of father not being the biological father of his child(children) common these days after DNA test,most times i used to be worried whether i am the biological father of the one that did not in anyway resemble and i dont have the money for now to go and conduct DNA test.

I begin to ask whether its advisable to call my wife and sit her down and her ask to please tell me whether i am truly the biological father of the one that did not resemble me. But i dont know what will be her response or how she will feel if i ask such ?. Its not that i am suspecting her but most times i am scared considering news of whats happening these days in paternity test and results. Please kindly advise on the best way to handle this.

JovialJune:
I'm surprised some guys above are suggesting doing DNA test without the wife knowing? Why na? So all the rants and noise making of almost all resident nl males about DNA test na just online noise, lmao

Op tell her with your full chest, don't be a scared little sissy cowering because of the aftermath result, or are you a SIMP? Tell her your suspicions and damn the consequences, be a man

Munzy14:

How did you know some men ask that question...

mariahAngel:


Is it true or not?

I put some instances together (especially those I read online), and came to that conclusion.
Men most times have doubts about that child that is different from the rest.

Munzy14:

Kwuo eziokwu is it only online write ups that gave you that conviction?..

mariahAngel:


M gide gi ehn...

Apart from online (especially nairaland), I’ve heard about it on one or two occasions.

Munzy14:

Yes it's true...Especially when the kid isn't showing the man's threat.


Some men are Impatient atimes..Nwanne m nke m toro, yiri mma m mgbe anyi na eto, and appears dull...Mgbe ahu mpa m ga asi i di sure na o wu m muru gi......But now he is a man, Infact he has my father's character, traits..Ya kacha buru man mpa m...

Kwuo eziokwu is it only online write ups that gave you that conviction?..