Tickles001:
I'll tell you the truth. It's late. Yes. There's not much you can do now about it. You should now focus more on self development and financial stability.
You had your chance but you didn't take it. Being very social during your university days is one of the best things you can do for yourself.

Hang out with fun, visionary, money minded guys. Especially, the non conformists. Plus a handful of fine and kind girlfriends to cuddle with.

Not having money should not stop you as you don't really need much money to live good life in campus.

Your next stop is nysc but I wouldn't advice you focussing on sexual relationships. Take it if it comes, but not devote yourself to it. Use that one year to create a better life for yourself, because post nysc can be nightmarish.

Karleb:
Seriously, I think you are overthinking it.

Lankscole:

Somhow,, u're correct in a way... I love experiences... I school in uniben, ryt from day one it's all abt book. I joined chess team but I'm not active though I won medal for my Dept. I joined football team but stopped due to health issues... I just love creating memories

Karleb:


I think you should should worry less.

What exactly is stopping you from having a relationship though?

Lankscole:


Actually I can't figure it out exactly, but being broke is part though, I'm not talking about money to spend on d girl, I meant money for myself......... The ones I've tried to have something with jst want me as a friend

Lankscole:
This would be my fourth year in the university without a girlfriend. The feeling sometimes is good and bad, my first GF was after secondary school...
I had the opportunities to dating some girls in my department in year 1 & year 2 but I never love them back because they aren't my spec, jst want them for flings, the ones I like don't reciprocate the same...
I haven't have sex up till now in school, jst had made out with a girl.. Sometimes I feel bad when my friends make a joke about me being single since year 1, especially when I need d opposite sex to talk heart to heart with
My university life is kinda boring, no outing, no much social life maybe because I'm broke, because I love outing but there's no money.. I hope I make a difference in my final year 2nd semester, have much fun, go to places before I graduate because it's good to have memories when one is in the university


So the question is guys who passed through higher institution without having a girlfriend , how do you feel each time you remembered your days in school

Lankscole:
This would be my fourth year in the university without a girlfriend. The feeling sometimes is good and bad, my first GF was after secondary school...
I had the opportunities to dating some girls in my department in year 1 & year 2 but I never love them back because they aren't my spec, jst want them for flings, the ones I like don't reciprocate the same...
I haven't have sex up till now in school, jst had made out with a girl.. Sometimes I feel bad when my friends make a joke about me being single since year 1, especially when I need d opposite sex to talk heart to heart with
My university life is kinda boring, no outing, no much social life maybe because I'm broke, because I love outing but there's no money.. I hope I make a difference in my final year 2nd semester, have much fun, go to places before I graduate because it's good to have memories when one is in the university


So the question is guys who passed through higher institution without having a girlfriend , how do you feel each time you remembered your days in school

Karleb:


I guess it's the brokenness.

For now, if you get okay, they ladies will come. So put effort into getting money.

You can go for girls as broke as you, or those ones in lower level. Also, don't take it too serious. Just have fun.

Lankscole:


Thanks for this. Yeah, it's late, but can make a little difference before graduation though.. I've been to places bt not much,
I used to visit friends to gist with but stopped bcus of self respect..
Mehn... It's true one don't need much money to have fun, but Bro, if I spend like 2k to have fun, it might tell on me as my monthly allowance isn't much.........

bro na advice be this?
You want make him add salt to injury?
OP just focus on you education and your plans after all when you no get gf since you no die,when the time is right them no telly person. In all you do no forget say mama and papa still dey hope on you..PEACE

Karleb:


I guess it's the brokenness.

For now, if you get okay, they ladies will come. So put effort into getting money.

You can go for girls as broke as you, or those ones in lower level. Also, don't take it too serious. Just have fun.

NobleSeed:
bro na advice be this?
You want make him add salt to injury?
OP just focus on you education and your plans after all when you no get gf since you no die,when the time is right them no telly person. In all you do no forget say mama and papa still dey hope on you..PEACE

Hypnotise:
It’s the brokenness. Assuming you have a car or a private apartment, you’ll see the difference.

Lilsameey:
,...Bruh,..invest your time in learning an online skill that can fetch you money online, trust me, there are some skills you will come across, you will fall madly in love with them.

Joelobioha:
like

MidasO1:
it's useless, after you've Graduated the relationship wouldn't work as she'll move on to the next person during NYSC.
having a girlfriend in the University is Useless, develop on yourself and your grades most importantly so in the future you won't be found wanting..
I'm 29 in my final year in uniben and through out my four years here i no send these girls.

kolakolex:


100%,true.
Car( 1st tool for fornication)
Apartment (2nd tool for fornication)

Sonnobax15:

Tho I went to poly,but one of my greatest joy was that I never had time for a gf....Tho many girls in my hostel and department used to stalk me back then due to the fact that I was the gentle and quiet type,but I no just gree give them the chance...

Demigod22:
Nothing is wrong with you bro. Lol, you are actually doing the Bachelor's degree faithfully. You should have done something even one just for the memories or fun of it. In University, there are girls you don't need money to control.

I am in my final year second semester, I have retired from woman matter successfully, project and the need to put things together before graduation is occupying my mind. But I have girls that we do things, like the one that visited me yesterday and today, she refused the drink I bought for her, she refused transport money, she only ate the food I cooked, but we do things yesterday and today. Try and be responsibly naughty before you graduate, you don't always need reasons and logic to do things, you do it because you want to.