The divorcée threw a colourful themed party with her family and friends and celebrated the end of a lengthy divorce process that spanned around three years.



A 45-year-old woman has thrown a party to celebrate her divorce as she celebrates being “finally” free after she ended her 17-year-old marriage.

The divorcée, Sonia Gupta, 45, threw a colourful themed party with her family and friends, and celebrated the end of a lengthy divorce process that spanned around three years.

She wore a colourful dress with a “finally divorced” sash, and asked her guests to come in their loudest and most vibrant outfits.

The accounts manager wanted the celebration to embrace her personality, which she describes as colourful and loud, and the party was playfully dubbed ‘It’s a Sonia thing’.

Sonia describes how she felt her marriage dulled her bubbly personality, and that she knew from early on that they were not a good match.

She said:

“I chose the theme to be colourful, bright and full of unicorns, as I’m a very bright colourful person.

“To me, the theme was magic, because after the last 10 years, I think I deserve that little bit of magic.”

Gupta had been married in 2003 as part of an arranged marriage in India, but that she quickly realised that she did not feel happy despite trying to make things work for a few years.

Speaking about the relationship, Sonia said:“We got married in India, then moved over to the UK. I got lost in the whole marriage and cultural aspects of it, and I ended up being really unhappy for years.

“I just wanted the old me back, I was quite a lively and outgoing person before my marriage, and when I got married it just all went to pop.

“When I told my family that I wanted out, there was uproar and no support for me or my mental health, but I had my friends, and my two pillars of strength, my sons Mikhal and Shay there to support my journey.

“I’ve also had help after my divorce from the Asian single parent network.”

The divorce party was a fun affair, with a bouncy castle for everyone to enjoy, pink and purple decorations, a rainbow and unicorn theme and a custom cake by Tees Little Cake boutique.

“The divorce party was to show my friends and family, especially my parents who eventually supported my decision, that I’ve come out the other side.

“I wanted to thank them all for their endless support over the past 10 years.”

The divorce process began in 2018, but was dragged out over three taxing years.

After many laborious discussions, five appearances in court, three trials and many disagreements, the process was finalised and her marry was officially over.

The end of her marriage signifies a new beginning, and she has gained a new lease of life.

“People seem to think there’s no life after divorce, that your life is over,” she said.

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Gupta had been married in 2003 as part of an arranged marriage in India, but that she quickly realised that she did not feel happy despite trying to make things work for a few years.

Speaking about the relationship, Sonia said:“We got married in India, then moved over to the UK. I got lost in the whole marriage and cultural aspects of it, and I ended up being really unhappy for years.

I see!

crestedaguiyi:
urgly bitch

because she divorced?

Eyahhhhh......Must she go through all these stress just to prove a point to her ex that she's codedly missing his Moses's Rod ?

lol

I have seen this for the first time that divorces are now celebrating. I'm now imagining how tiring that marriage would have been. Sometimes, I have seen that relocation depression for a trailing spouse can lead to divorce.

https://thedivorcesolutionist.com/trailing-spouse-divorce-custody-relocation/

it is safer to remain single this days,for Sanity's sake.
Onyii22 what do you think?

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MrBrownJay1:
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ROFLMAO
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Well, I'm totally against divorce but I've seen people die slowly in wrong marriages. I don't subscribe to that.

Sonnobax15:

Eyahhhhh......Must she go through all these stress just to prove a point to her ex that she's codedly missing his Moses's Rod ?

Wait, you think this is about proving a point?

Sonnobax15:

Eyahhhhh......Must she go through all these stress just to prove a point to her ex that she's codedly missing his Moses's Rod ?

You have a serious problem with your thinking faculty.

crestedaguiyi:
urgly bitch

urgly heart.

Sometimes,some married women would just decide to stop loving their husband unnecessary without having second thought of how many time he had contemplated backing out but would still remain in the marriage because of the kids and the wife needs.
Women don't realise that men get carried away only because of work and trying to fend for the family.
Any small thing, I dont love my husband again, I dont find him attractive again, he has changed from whom he used to be e.t.c just because the women are mostly idle and dont have any reasonable thing to ponder about, no doubt the bill would certainly be taking care of by that same man they're contemplating about. Even when they're working class, all what women do is always trying to compare their husbands with a pretentious colleague, imagining that, that colleague would have make a better husband.
Mtswww

This new culture of celebrating failure na wa.

Yes, divorce is the failure of a marriage.

Anyways, happy getting your bubble back.

I don't know her,I don't know half of the shit she's been through....So whatever makes her happy!!!

bukatyne:
This new culture of celebrating failure na wa.
Yes, divorce is the failure of a marriage.
Anyways, happy getting your bubble back.

Divorce can be freedom from mental anguish and misery in some cases, freedom from marital shackles and societal values that you never believed in.

Sure, if is an end to a probably terrible marriage - never assume everyone's marriage is like or should be like yours - , but it is a new beginning as well. And there is nothing wrong in celebrating that.

Microwhy:
Sometimes,some married women would just decide to stop loving their husband unnecessary without having second thought of how many time he had contemplated backing out but would still remain in the marriage because of the kids and the wife needs.
Women don't realise that men get carried away only because of work and trying to fend for the family.
Any small thing, I dont love my husband again, I dont find him attractive again, he has changed from whom he used to be e.t.c just because the women are mostly idle and dont have any reasonable thing to ponder about, no doubt the bill would certainly be taking care of by that same man they're contemplating about. Even when they're working class, all what women do is always trying to compare their husbands with a pretentious colleague, imagining that, that colleague would have make a better husband.
Mtswww

Stop and use your brain in these things. Men also do everything of what you have written up there. Rather than hyperfocus on this blame game, why not allow your mind evolve into accepting that humans, male and female, are indeed the fallible machines they all truly are.. so you can maybe move on to exploring life with more wisdom.

Kobojunkie:
Stop and use your brain in these things. Men also do everything of what you have written up there. Rather than hyperfocus on this blame game, why not allow your mind evolve into accepting that humans, male and female, are indeed the fallible machines they all truly are.. so you can maybe move on to exploring life with more wisdom.

Are you out of your mind or you're crazy.
Which one is "Use your brain"
What do you know about life, relationship and marriage .

Microwhy:

Are you out of your mind or you're crazy.
Which one is "Use your brain"
What do you know about life, relationship and marriage .

And this is why I said you should use your brain... so in your mind, you are convinced others don't know about these things, maybe even more than you apparently do?

Microwhy:
Sometimes,some married women would just decide to stop loving their husband unnecessary without having second thought of how many time he had contemplated backing out but would still remain in the marriage because of the kids and the wife needs.
Women don't realise that men get carried away only because of work and trying to fend for the family.
Any small thing, I dont love my husband again, I dont find him attractive again, he has changed from whom he used to be e.t.c j[b]ust because the women are mostly idle and dont have any reasonable thing to ponder about, no doubt the bill would certainly be taking care of by that same man they're contemplating about. Even when they're working class, all what women do is always trying to compare their husbands with a pretentious colleague, imagining that, that colleague would have make a better husband[/b].
Mtswww

.....please are you describing your mum, aunties, sisters or the females close to you. Kindly clarify as this picture does not fit into realities.....

mission08:


.....please are you describing your mum, aunties, sisters or the females close to you. Kindly clarify as this picture does not fit into realities.....

Sit your parent down and ask them discretely..

Was the marriage that bad?