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Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 1:45pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
I started laughing this morning when I remember my past relatie . All my life I have been the one spending on people, especially women. I will spend and spend and spend and spend and spend and give and spend and give and spend and give until I became tired of giving without receiving anything from these nigeria women The only gift I have ever receive from any Nigeria woman is a singlet. It came from the girlfriend of a child-hood friend of mine who gave it to me as a gift of appreciation. She bought me that singlet because I genuinly cares about her well being. I felt I was over caring which is not healthy for my well being, o I decide to be stingy just to mellow my relationship. I started looking for a woman that will genuinly care for me. I wanted a genuine woman but how can I find one when all Nigeria women believes that men must be the one to constantly care and spend on them ? THEN, I STOP LOOKING FOR A CARING WOMAN GIRL 1 Relunctantly, I started dating one. She was a working young woman. She works and receive almost 30k a month. She: tells me, I love you. Me: silent - no respond She: I love you Me: You don't love me She: I love you Me: You don't She: I love you Me: Please don't disturb me with your words. She: I love you Me: Stop. She: You must accept it that I love you Me: You don't know what love is She: How can I show you I truly love ? Me: If you want to show me you truly love me, spend some of your money on me. Me: use your money to show me you cares for me. She: I can't spend my salary money on you, I can't. Me: But you also want me to spend my money on you? She: You are a guui Me: Really? She: Yes Me: OK, keep your money, while I keep mine. Me: let us fv'ck and and pleasure ourselves . Two weeks Later. Me: Babe, if you are hungry, always go to the kitchen and fill your stomach, eat as you like. She: filled her stomach Me: babe, sweep and tidy the crib She: I can't Me: Ok She: I want to do my hair. Me: How much? She: 4K Me: How long will you carry that air? She: 3 weeks Me: I don't have. She: You are a stingy boyfriend Me: OK. A month later Me: Babe, are you are hungry? She: Yes Me: Go to the kitchen and cook for us She: I don't want to cook abeg. Me: I went into the kitchen and cook. She: fill her stomach with what I cook. She: I want to buy a jean trouser and that and also do my hair. Me: How much She: Total = N15000 Me: I don't have. Me: I silently said, I will not waste my money on nonesense. Me: that money is enough for me to buy a bag of rice and 20 litr oil for that my favourite widow and her children.. She: You are very stingy person. Me: you don't know my personel. She: I like you for one thing Me: What is that? She:, You can never let a woman go hungry. She: but you are stingy She: I think I am gonna leave you. She: I am tired of your stingyness. Me: OK, cool. She left me for another guy: Two months later, she tried to fight her way back, but for me. (I am not available) GIRL-2 She came to my base. She: wow  She: You seem like a buoyant person. Me: kept quiet.  She: You are doing well. Me: well?, hmmm  Me: started thinking. Me: Is she a mellow person Me: is she is caring? Me: can this person love me for me. Me: can this person slow down for me. Me: we just met. Me: we f:vcked. Me: asked, why did you allow me to f'vxk ? She: I wanted you to trust me She: Please trust me She: Please, love me. She: I want you to love me After she open her leg for me to slide in, she billed me heavily and demand for a brand new android phone. She became the devil in my life that will never repeat itself again. GIRL 3 after two years alone. Me: saw that she needed  Me: went to the market and bought her lot of them. Me: gave it to her. She: jump on me, hug me She: said, thank You. She: how did you know I don't have ? Me: I know; hmmmm We: fv'cked. She: Please date me. Me: I don't know. She: I can manage. Me: called her on the phone, Me: feeling lonely and horr-ny Me: babe I want you to come She: I don't have a phone Me; how ? She: I insert my sim in my neighbor phone She: I need a new phone Me: hang up. NEXT ONE Me: let me slow down Me: no sex Me: babe, how about your boyfriend? She: my boyfriend is fine Me: OK. She: came to my base. She: left She: 15 missed call. She : many apologies She: many petting Me: became overnight celebrity. Me: how about your boyfriend She: I don't a boyfriend I became tired and decide to be celibate For me, I wanted a relatie that is not base on money and materials things. If a man pretend to be poor just to find a genuine caring woman, he will even missed the person he find attractive. I later got fed up and stop looking for a woman that will show me genuine love and care. LESSON LEARN 1. Don't waste your time looking for a caring nigeria woman, they are very scarce. 2. It is profitable unto a man to Godly spend money and help his fellow man than to spend money over nigeria women on relationship. 3 Women are mostly people of today and not of tomorrow 3 Likes |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by CsRockefeller(m): 1:47pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
The Book of Proverbs spoke a lot about your kind. Your foolishness is your greatest undoing. 4 Likes |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Nobody: 1:50pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
This is what you get when you try to impress a woman with money,so you share in the blame. When next you want a woman, don't rush it,be your normal self, don't tell lies about anything, never force yourself on her,let your attraction gradually grow in her and I bet you won't experience any of these again. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by ahnie: 1:52pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
Silent Reveries 1 Like |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 1:57pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
I need those western babe that value flowers. Me and nigeria women no rhyme at all |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by chatinent: 2:07pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
All my life I have been the one spending on women. I will spend and spend and spend and spend and spend and give and spend and give and spend and give until I became tired of giving without achieving anything.Lol. Me: You don't love meSerious? You wasted five minutes of your life discussing you love me, you don't love me, I love you, yes you do? Lol. Love is not requested for or told. It is shown. Me: If you want to show me you truly love me, spend your money on me.Lmao. Me: Use your money to show me you love me.You want her heart to lock? She: I can't spend my salary money on you, I can't.Lol. Me: Really?So all you got to offer is money, and all she got is fvcks? Two weeks Later.A typical Nigerian girl you are doing this to has deputy boyfriends. NEW GIRL-FRIENDAll your life is filled with fvcks. FINAL WORDS Flee from premarital sex. That's your problem. Date only when you want to marry. I see some girls adding you up to embezzle the remaining one. And guess what? They will. I am not a prophet. |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by AAAntz: 2:13pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
thank GOD you stopped 1 Like |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 2:16pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
CsRockefeller: KEEP QUIET. And stop quoting scripture to justify your ignorance I don't have time for ignorant you |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 2:24pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Stop There is nothing like trying to impress any woman. I always keep a low profile in all areas of my life. It is not bad for a man to have money It is not bad for one to give Nigeria women are just too self and money concious |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by habsydiamond(m): 2:49pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
To get better girl so not easy.. It as being said that one who wants to taste the honey inside a rock will not look at the sharp edge of the axe. U must claim what u are not in other to get a good girl and a loose one.. U must claim u are poor even when u are rich to get a girl that will accept u while u must claim u are rich even when u are not to attract those loose ones. Na the loose girls dem go plenty pass. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lcf69(m): 2:49pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
Iyaebe: This coming from a woman then,it's an expo n a lot of wisdom too...... PINNED. 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 3:27pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
habsydiamond: You speak truth. Even if a man pretend to be poor, he might loss the person he desires. Finding a good woman is like a miracle. |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 3:32pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
chatinent: I understand your point. Why did you think all my life is filled with fv'ck? It is because I used the f word? |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by chatinent: 3:40pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
Lostchild: Read your epistle again. |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by habsydiamond(m): 3:49pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
Lostchild:that's true.. It takes the grace of God to have a decent lady.. Cos Na scarce commodity o |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 4:11pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
chatinent: Most of the women I spend for, I don't have any sexual relationship with them. Right now. I will rather spend my money on a suffering man than to spend on a women. |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by chatinent: 4:15pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
Lostchild: Acts of Pa Potus: Chap 3vs4: Thou art seen that man. It is I who talketh to thee. Shall I, brethren man, forward mine Aza? |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 4:15pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
habsydiamond: 100% Correct. It is very difficult. |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by techWriter3: 5:25pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
The Book of Proverbs talked a alot about your like. Your idiocy is your greatest downfall. |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Lostchild(m): 6:09pm On Sep 26, 2021 |
Western men need mediator in their relatie |
Re: Why I Stop Looking For A Caring Woman by Nonye993(m): 4:21pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
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