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Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by 4gunners(m): 9:54am On Oct 16, 2021
As a guy, don’t give a woman what you will regret in retrospect.
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Nobody: 10:17am On Oct 16, 2021
Maks27:
Good day nairalannders.
Please if you have a old or bad Android phone you are not using again please help me with it.
I am in desperate need of an Android phone. I am a student and I am Missing a lot without an Android
I don't mind if it's bad but repairable
Thanks in advance
My location is Ogun state
waiting do the one u dey use now!
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by sageb: 10:54am On Oct 16, 2021
This one shock me
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by edoairways: 11:34am On Oct 16, 2021
Charmingrascal:
How can you even love a "girlfriend" to the extent of financing her academics.

I would rather do that for a stranger without expecting anything in return.


The story is common in nollywood tho, so therefore I deduced that this is just a fictional conceptualization of someone's creative power.
It is not fiction.
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Bigfish121(m): 12:02pm On Oct 16, 2021
Someone that he would have gotten pregnant when she was going for horsemanship.
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Maks27: 12:20pm On Oct 16, 2021
awesonjr:
waiting do the one u dey use now!
it's is a small button phone sir
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Ofadaman(m): 12:21pm On Oct 16, 2021
Why he no give am belle
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Nobody: 12:34pm On Oct 16, 2021
Maks27:
it's is a small button phone sir
I get one only be say na small problem e get
first the touching and screen get problem you need to change it and secondly e no they show service if u put sim card thirdly speaker get problem too & u no fit call and them no fit call you, so that the small problem e av
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Maks27: 1:25pm On Oct 16, 2021
awesonjr:
I get one only be say na small problem e get
first the touching and screen get problem you need to change it and secondly e no they show service if u put sim card thirdly speaker get problem too & u no fit call and them no fit call you, so that the small problem e av
I appreciate your consideration sir
But repairing this will probably cost to buy a new one
Thank you Sir
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Nobody: 1:29pm On Oct 16, 2021
Maks27:
I appreciate your consideration sir
But repairing this will probably cost to buy a new one
Thank you Sir
shay una see why I no like to help person u said you need Android phone I offer you my own you came they tell me say the money to repair go reach to buy new one, well no problem I'll do give away to another person
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Maks27: 1:38pm On Oct 16, 2021
awesonjr:
shay una see why I no like to help person u said you need Android phone I offer you my own you came they tell me say the money to repair go reach to buy new one, well no problem I'll do give away to another person
lol is not so nah
The problem you lifted here is too much nah sir

Okay then sir
What's the phone product sit
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Nobody: 1:41pm On Oct 16, 2021
Maks27:
lol is not so nah The problem you lifted here is too much nah sir
Okay then sir What's the phone product sit
na Gionne M5 mini
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Popesuccess(m): 1:44pm On Oct 16, 2021
viyon02:
I will advice any guy that will do that to be educated as well, so that he wouldn't loss at both ends. No female doctor will settle for less educated dude.
He should put himself in one school also, like open university. He too will have become a graduate. But this is not fair.
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Maks27: 1:51pm On Oct 16, 2021
awesonjr:
na Gionne M5 mini
thank you very much sir for trying to help but I am looking at the repairs again. The network part seems to be difficult.
Where are you based sir
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Nobody: 3:49pm On Oct 16, 2021
FATHER CHRISTMAS.

Blessings for givers..
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by 1000Capacity: 5:32pm On Oct 16, 2021
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Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by CampussNews: 8:15pm On Oct 16, 2021
AlhajiBitcoin:
FATHER CHRISTMAS.

Blessings for givers..

He say na father christmas grin grin

May God bless him for his humanitarian services. Amen.

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Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Sixsigmahub: 7:52am On Oct 17, 2021
Women will never learn. If they do her strong thing now, she'll be looking for where to hide
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Viagra2022: 8:43am On Oct 17, 2021
Babinski:


This is how some people get opportunity to express the wickedness of their heart.

The simple resolution is to request for his school fees payment. That means the girl at best got student loans which she may have repaid part in kind even during their relationship. There is no where that said there was an agreement on the sponsor for marriage.
Also, the mindset to sponsor education for marriage is a manipulative strategy. Marriage should be based on love and not bought.

There may be several issues with the relationship in the first instance that may change public opinion on the issue that were missing in the summary statements.

This kind of story is how wicked people put it down for herbalists, witches and wizards to harm others without having people hear the other side.

The Yorubas have an adage that it is only a bad elder that makes a decision based on one side of a story. Villians also tell stories in ways to make themselves look like victims.

Never make a decision listening to only one side of a story, particularly a decision to cause harm to another!


Bro stop justifying wickedness, imagine you or any of your friends or family is in this kind of situation, your are dating a girl for a long time now, you proposed to her she accepted, you went for introduction, talked with the father.

but her dad said she wants her daughter to finish school before getting married, now, you took all financial aid for the your future wife to go through school, all this while she did not say she's not interested on the marriage thing, now she through.

She get mouth to say she's not interested again.

If na you, will you be happy with the situation.
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by Babinski: 12:30pm On Oct 17, 2021
Viagra2022:



Bro stop justifying wickedness, imagine you or any of your friends or family is in this kind of situation, your are dating a girl for a long time now, you proposed to her she accepted, you went for introduction, talked with the father.

but her dad said she wants her daughter to finish school before getting married, now, you took all financial aid for the your future wife to go through school, all this while she did not say she's not interested on the marriage thing, now she through.

She get mouth to say she's not interested again.

If na you, will you be happy with the situation.

I am not trying to justify wickedness.

1. Note that the scenario you describe is more detailed than what was provided in the main story and may only be your own assumptions or extrapolations. There was no talk of any introduction or agreement to marry based on funding. She was referred to as girlfriend and not fiancee.

2. But even if the scenario you provide was the case, it will no doubt be very painful for the guy but I would tell him to move on or at worst collect his money back. A broken marriage is worse than a broken courtship. Courtship is not a guarantee of marriage even since the ancient days.

If you were to learn that the guy was an unrepentant womanizer, violent person or woman beater even if he paid her school fees, would you see the breakup of the courtship as wickedness on the part of the girl? Absolutely not. You cannot say she should sacrifice her life or well being becauase someone paid her school fees.

So if you think deeply, you would see that it is difficult to make any judgement based on the one sided story provided by the guy.

There are several genuine reasons why a courtship could be broken regardless of the agreement or money expended. That is why those who use money to try to seal courtships are not being sincere. Anyone spending money on a woman during courtship should know that it carry risks just like you can have the bad side to investments where you can lose your capital and interest and yet not die. How many people went to those who collected money for MMM from them with guns or charms to kill them because they lost money?
Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by siofra(f): 2:52pm On Oct 21, 2021
PrinxArthur1:
@Siofra come and comment hahaha


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Re: Medical Graduate Refuses To Marry Suitor Who Paid Her Expensive School Fees by PrinxArthur1(m): 4:11pm On Oct 21, 2021
siofra:


Redpill is golden indeed. Where una oga TheGidredpiller, Abi dem don ban that one? grin grin grin
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