Rubbiish:

Are u saying u can't hold yourself from having sex for just ordinary 4 months considering the fact your wife just gave birth?? Haba! Please give her time to heal! Some of u men love sex way too much! Reason women use it to manipulate u men a lot.

Ofodirinwa:


give her as much time as she needs, channel your desire to have sex into something more productive. Weaning your dependency on sex is a major part of growing as a man. There are a lot of people whose life aspiration is to be a rapist on this site so be mindful of immature advice. She will come to you for sex when she's ready.

There's always pornhub too lol

Rubbiish:

Are u saying u can't hold yourself from having sex for just ordinary 4 months considering the fact your wife just gave birth?? Haba! Please give her time to heal! Some of u men love sex way too much! Reason women use it to manipulate u men a lot.

rizzyray:
Lamba!!!!!! Baba opt for oral and dat woman to heal for at least 4months

thorpido:
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready.

perryy:
My wife delivered through CS yet she didn't allow me stay for two months. The second one was through VJ , the same thing.

Godada:



Two matured people have answered your question.

There is another option.

You can have someone on the side who help you relax.

This is at your own discretion.

The wife needs to heal and the man has needs.

Forget those telling you that all you think Is sex.....sad part is what most men think about all the time.

Give your wife a break and break into another shagging

Godada:



Two matured people have answered your question.

There is another option.

You can have someone on the side who help you relax.

This is at your own discretion.

The wife needs to heal and the man has needs.

Forget those telling you that all you think Is sex.....sad part is what most men think about all the time.

Give your wife a break and break into another shagging

schoolboymatt:


You call 4 months ordinary sir?

I thought one of the advantages of marriage na steady knacking?

How can a married man stay for months without sex?

Godada:



Two matured people have answered your question.

There is another option.

You can have someone on the side who help you relax.

This is at your own discretion.

The wife needs to heal and the man has needs.

Forget those telling you that all you think Is sex.....sad part is what most men think about all the time.

Give your wife a break and break into another shagging

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Viltron:
Is sex food? Just wait for the woman to heal. Some men think like dogs, walahi!

Godada:



Two matured people have answered your question.

There is another option.

You can have someone on the side who help you relax.

This is at your own discretion.

The wife needs to heal and the man has needs.

Forget those telling you that all you think Is sex.....sad part is what most men think about all the time.

Give your wife a break and break into another shagging

thorpido:
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready.

okomile:
If u can't hold yourself, masturbate

If u can't, ashewo plenty for street, use condom.

I beg, no disturb our peace here

wunmi590:


It depend on how your wife delivered the baby, if it normal delievery, some women body can still take after like 5-6 weeks, their virgina might have healed up..

While some who delieved through CS might have to endure some pain till like 2-4month, it actually depends on individual body...

Despite the fact that my wife delivered normal, I still wait more than 4month self, by that time nah more money I dey use my head to calculate

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Rubbiish:

There has been steady knacking before the wife gave birth! Now that the wife has given birth, I don't think waiting 4 months for her to heal properly is too much of a sacrifice!

Lightway:


Good evening

How often is sex in a typical Nigerian marriage. Before she got pregnant

Likes does it happen everyday or twice a week

thorpido:
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready.

Godada:



Two matured people have answered your question.

There is another option.

You can have someone on the side who help you relax.

This is at your own discretion.

The wife needs to heal and the man has needs.

Forget those telling you that all you think Is sex.....sad part is what most men think about all the time.

Give your wife a break and break into another shagging

Sleekfingers:



I do give my wife like 5 - 6 months.....although, we do other things . But no sex....... because, I am a sharp shooter....I don't shoot blanks

thorpido:
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready.