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Guys...i Am Confused by Ezendimmuo: 8:32am On Dec 10, 2021
Guys ..my girlfriend called me this morning...
She said she wants to be honest with me(I told her that we should be open about everything in this relationship..no secrets)
There is this married man she usually occasionally hangs out with...
He has issues with his marriage..but he is still married...
She said she might get to see him today and he says he has some goodies for her...
I am happy she is honest with me...
But i can deal with the fact that she is going to hang out with this man...
She has slept over at his house twice and she swore to me nothing happened...
I got angry about it and told her...
She was like if I react this way...she won't tell me stuff like this anymore
I am in Lagos...she is in Enugu
Before I left Enugu ..
This same man bullshit her and ignored her for a period of time...
He does that a lot and anytime he calls her...she hangs out with her

I can't deal with this...
M I overreacting!??
Should I trust her since she told me about it?
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by AntiWailer: 8:37am On Dec 10, 2021
I know you might be making this up but for the sake of genuinely stup1d boys around let me lend my voice.


She slept in a married man’s house and nothing happened.

You must be a chronic M0r0n.

Bros count ur loss, ur girl is banging the man. Married men hardly waste time around girls without fkin them, it is a waste of time.

You are asking your self why did she tell u if she was not sincere right ?

Ok let me explain.

She used Law 12 of the 48 Laws of Power on you. Girls use this Law a lot.
(We only kissed, We hugged etc , that is the selective way of saying something bad happened)

The 12th Law states that : “Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim”

You have been disarmed that is why that thought of. "Should I trust her since she told me about it?" is coming to your mind.

You will be badly hurt. Start preparing to move on with your life.

Also they are very very involved and she suspected u might catch her so she can say “I TOLD U”

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Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Ebubechuwku(m): 8:38am On Dec 10, 2021
Leave the girl alone and move on... you will find someone suitable in lagos ...

She is already disturbing your peace of mind. You deserve someone better biko...

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Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Ezendimmuo: 8:44am On Dec 10, 2021
AntiWailer:
She slept in a married man’s house and nothing happened.

You must be a chronic M0r0n.

Bros count ur loss, ur girl is banging the man. Married men hardly waste time around girls without fkin them, it i a waste of time.

You are asking your self why did she tell u if she was not sincere right ?

Ok let me explain.

She used Law 12 of the 48 Laws of Power on you.

“Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim”

Also they are very very involved and she suspected u might catch her so she can say “I TOLD U”




I have never heard of this law...wow
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Candidlady: 8:52am On Dec 10, 2021
This story is made up
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by tunize(m): 8:55am On Dec 10, 2021
This story nor legit but if actually it is legit this guy don fork up! How can your girlfriend sleep in a married man's house first and foremost?
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by younglleo: 8:56am On Dec 10, 2021
Ur babe get sugar daddy nd dey use ur reaction threaten you!
Ibu anu ofia!
U believe she slept in his house nd nothing happen!
Nwanne ibu efulefu!

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Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Chloraseptic: 8:57am On Dec 10, 2021
Once a girl becomes overly sincere to you, just know that she's not entirely sincere..

That man has fûcked her over and over again

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Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Ezendimmuo: 9:02am On Dec 10, 2021
Candidlady:
This story is made up

Oga...
If you have nothing to say...
Move on...

I have better things to do than to come to nairaland and post fake stuff...
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Bigpapi: 9:20am On Dec 10, 2021
Ezendimmuo:
Guys ..my girlfriend called me this morning...
She said she wants to be honest with me(I told her that we should be open about everything in this relationship..no secrets)
There is this married man she usually occasionally hangs out with...
He has issues with his marriage..but he is still married...
She said she might get to see him today and he says he has some goodies for her...
I am happy she is honest with me...
But i can deal with the fact that she is going to hang out with this man...
She has slept over at his house twice and she swore to me nothing happened...
I got angry about it and told her...
She was like if I react this way...she won't tell me stuff like this anymore
I am in Lagos...she is in Enugu
Before I left Enugu ..
This same man bullshit her and ignored her for a period of time...
He does that a lot and anytime he calls her...she hangs out with her

I can't deal with this...
M I overreacting!??
Should I trust her since she told me about it?







I hate weak men like u......if I were ur mom I will poison u instead u will disgrace me

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Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Nicepoker(m): 9:50am On Dec 10, 2021
Op pls and pls give me the opportunity to insult you first before I advise you.
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Nobody: 9:53am On Dec 10, 2021
Candidlady:
This story is made up
Thank you for this observation..I think it's one of these story to paint females in a negative way..
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Nobody: 9:55am On Dec 10, 2021
Why are you always confused? almost all your post is either you are complaining of your gf..or she no gree collect cake..it's either you keep your matter to yourself and act like a man or stop all the story about women..

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Re: Guys...i Am Confused by ITbomb(m): 10:20am On Dec 10, 2021
Since she is already collecting from the man, keep her for cruise, FWB stuff, forget love.
If she no gree, she walk
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Houseofglam7(f): 10:24am On Dec 10, 2021
How old are you @op







Back to topic, WTF??
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by jimmychang: 10:25am On Dec 10, 2021
She slept in his house twice and nothing happened grin grin grin grin grin....If you believe this stuff then you be EWURE
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Kuriosmynd: 10:25am On Dec 10, 2021
You are a foolish boy
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Jidemoo: 10:30am On Dec 10, 2021
Sorry to say this but you and your girlfriend need better rehab..

E get why I said so
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by ashawopikin(m): 10:32am On Dec 10, 2021
Which kind of mumu be dis, why simps just plenty for nairaland, person go just dey read rubbish everyday
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Olumighty123(m): 10:52am On Dec 10, 2021
Story of a very SIMPle man
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by godlessmind: 11:10am On Dec 10, 2021
Ezendimmuo:
Guys ..my girlfriend called me this morning...
She said she wants to be honest with me(I told her that we should be open about everything in this relationship..no secrets)
There is this married man she usually occasionally hangs out with...
He has issues with his marriage..but he is still married...
She said she might get to see him today and he says he has some goodies for her...
I am happy she is honest with me...
But i can deal with the fact that she is going to hang out with this man...
She has slept over at his house twice and she swore to me nothing happened...
I got angry about it and told her...
She was like if I react this way...she won't tell me stuff like this anymore
I am in Lagos...she is in Enugu
Before I left Enugu ..
This same man bullshit her and ignored her for a period of time...
He does that a lot and anytime he calls her...she hangs out with her

I can't deal with this...
M I overreacting!??
Should I trust her since she told me about it?

70 years old man!!! You're a Mumu grin.. The old dick is forking your girl and you're here weeping.
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Nonexisting: 11:15am On Dec 10, 2021
Ezendimmuo:
Guys ..my girlfriend called me this morning...
She said she wants to be honest with me(I told her that we should be open about everything in this relationship..no secrets)
There is this married man she usually occasionally hangs out with...
He has issues with his marriage..but he is still married...
She said she might get to see him today and he says he has some goodies for her...
I am happy she is honest with me...
But i can deal with the fact that she is going to hang out with this man...
She has slept over at his house twice and she swore to me nothing happened...
I got angry about it and told her...
She was like if I react this way...she won't tell me stuff like this anymore
I am in Lagos...she is in Enugu
Before I left Enugu ..
This same man bullshit her and ignored her for a period of time...
He does that a lot and anytime he calls her...she hangs out with her

I can't deal with this...
M I overreacting!??
Should I trust her since she told me about it?
You believing she slept in the man's house and nothing happened shows you're a simp so I've got no advice for you. Advising you is like advising an APC zombie not to support Tinubu 2023 project, waste of time and saliva. I wish you more confusion until you get sense after you collect like every other simp.
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Nobody: 11:21am On Dec 10, 2021
Ezendimmuo:
Guys ..my girlfriend called me this morning...
She said she wants to be honest with me(I told her that we should be open about everything in this relationship..no secrets)
There is this married man she usually occasionally hangs out with...
He has issues with his marriage..but he is still married...
She said she might get to see him today and he says he has some goodies for her...
I am happy she is honest with me...
But i can deal with the fact that she is going to hang out with this man...
She has slept over at his house twice and she swore to me nothing happened...
I got angry about it and told her...
She was like if I react this way...she won't tell me stuff like this anymore
I am in Lagos...she is in Enugu
Before I left Enugu ..
This same man bullshit her and ignored her for a period of time...
He does that a lot and anytime he calls her...she hangs out with her

I can't deal with this...
M I overreacting!??
Should I trust her since she told me about it?
lol you be psyche o, them de fucck your girlfriend like whoore. you de make noise here
asides that married man, an average of 4 guys deh hang her legs na why she node take your call at night
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by bigcee(m): 11:38am On Dec 10, 2021
Nothing wey I no go read on Nairaland. Chai, I just weak.

Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Truvelisback(m): 11:42am On Dec 10, 2021
Op, U are a SIMP. Do u still need a Prophet to tell u that u are dating urself or u are dating a gold digger?
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by chinchonglee(m): 12:16pm On Dec 10, 2021
70 years old man o!
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by Brunosamel(m): 12:28pm On Dec 10, 2021
Ezendimmuo:
Guys ..my girlfriend called me this morning...
She said she wants to be honest with me(I told her that we should be open about everything in this relationship..no secrets)
There is this married man she usually occasionally hangs out with...
He has issues with his marriage..but he is still married...
She said she might get to see him today and he says he has some goodies for her...
I am happy she is honest with me...
But i can deal with the fact that she is going to hang out with this man...
She has slept over at his house twice and she swore to me nothing happened...
I got angry about it and told her...
She was like if I react this way...she won't tell me stuff like this anymore
I am in Lagos...she is in Enugu
Before I left Enugu ..
This same man bullshit her and ignored her for a period of time...
He does that a lot and anytime he calls her...she hangs out with her

I can't deal with this...
M I overreacting!??
Should I trust her since she told me about it?
Sorry to break your heart bro long distance relationship is not a relationship. you are better off alone or find another girl period
Re: Guys...i Am Confused by chitransco(m): 12:31pm On Dec 10, 2021
interesting...

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