Good day, Fellas. Why is it that, i have never seen a father-in-law quarrelling or fighting with the husband? Why is it that, it is always the mother-in-law quarelling or fighting with the wife? If u know, pls, take this mic and tell us.

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why is it that, i have never seen a father-in-law quarrelling or fighting with the husband? Why is it that, it is always the mother-in-law quarelling or fighting with the wife? If u know, pls, take this mic and tell us.

WHO TOLD YOU?

I'f you never see me don see and hear uncountable.

Jeon:

WHO TOLD YOU?

Who told me what?

Truvelisback:
Who told me what?

i have never seen a father-in-law quarrelling or fighting with the husband?

so WHO TOLD YOU?

https://www.google.com/url?q=https://m.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DJejgiXGdIFU&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwjLmJaH9Pv0AhVJCuwKHc0gDCAQFnoECAcQAg&usg=AOvVaw2oyeRudzdIxjMILuFzUORt

Jeon:



i have never seen a father-in-law quarrelling or fighting with the husband?

so WHO TOLD YOU?

https://www.google.com/url?q=https://m.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DJejgiXGdIFU&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwjLmJaH9Pv0AhVJCuwKHc0gDCAQFnoECAcQAg&usg=AOvVaw2oyeRudzdIxjMILuFzUORt

I might have seen but it is very rare.

Jeon:



i have never seen a father-in-law quarrelling or fighting with the husband?

so WHO TOLD YOU?

https://www.google.com/url?q=https://m.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DJejgiXGdIFU&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwjLmJaH9Pv0AhVJCuwKHc0gDCAQFnoECAcQAg&usg=AOvVaw2oyeRudzdIxjMILuFzUORt

He said he has never seen just like myself have not seen, why you dey follow am drag

Even the so called fight between mothers and daughter-in-laws is all in the head. I have never seen any in real life. What we have is the media blowing up rubbish and to-be wives entertaining pre-conceived prejudices and negative expectations about a marriage they haven't even entered.

The world is full of naturally difficult people, complex humans, easygoing, gentle, stubborn, etc. We have introverts, talkatives, extroverts, Gen Y, Gen Z, Gen X, etc. Mother-in-laws are not aliens, they belong these various categorizations. So an extroverted mother-in-law or a talkative may find it difficult coping with an introverted wife.

This is the reality everywhere, from church to the workplace. Let's stop blowing up rubbish.

Jeon, most times here, i read abt the wife quarrelling or fighting with the mother-in-law. I rarely read abt the father-in-law quarrelling or fighting with husband.

Offpointng:


He said he has never seen just like myself have not seen, why you dey follow am drag am

En no concern me.. we no dy live for the same area..

like me I have experience boko haram war and you never experience.
like I don see dead body before while you never see.

Even me ooo

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. Why is it that, i have never seen a father-in-law quarrelling or fighting with the husband? Why is it that, it is always the mother-in-law quarelling or fighting with the wife? If u know, pls, take this mic and tell us.

Truvelisback:
Jeon, most times here, i read abt the wife quarrelling or fighting with the mother-in-law. I rarely read abt the father-in-law quarrelling or fighting with husband.

YOU SAID YOU READ HERE WHILE I WITNESSED THEM LIVE.

Truvelisback:
I might have seen but it is very rare.

yeah very rare like mothers fighting sons, sons fighting fathers, brothers fighting sisters, sisters fighting uncles

Jeon:


WHO TOLD YOU?

I'f you never see me don see and hear uncountable.

Na 4 only ASHEWO thread u dey always drop comments and contribution!!! I gv u THE MOST ACTIVE MEMBER AWARD!!! Abi u are searching for ur missing RIB ni?

Acidosis:

Even the so called fight between mothers and daughter-in-laws is all in the head. I have never seen any in real life. What we have is the media blowing up rubbish and to-be wives entertaining pre-conceived prejudices and negative expectations about a marriage they haven't even entered.

The world is full of naturally difficult people. We have introverts, talkatives, extroverts, Gen Y, Gen Z, etc. Mother-in-laws are not aliens, they belong these categorizations. So an extroverted mother-in-law or a talkative may find it difficult coping with an introvert wife. This is the reality everywhere, from church to the workplace. Let's stop blowing up rubbish. You have a mother in law and you expect her to act like a Gen Z? You have a mother in law who is not really exposed and you expect her to act like a posh lady from England? Can your own grandmother use Google?

From my perception, i think the men are likely to be more understanding and tolerant and may overlook some minor issues or errors unlike like women. Men are more technical handling issues more than women.

joeking2222:

Na 4 only ASHEWO thread u dey always drop comments and contribution!!! I gv u THE MOST ACTIVE MEMBER AWARD!!! Abi u are searching for ur missing RIB ni?

U NEED SENSE IN UR ROTTEN DECOMPOSED BRAIN.

NOW TELL ME HOW THIS IS AN ASHEWO THREAD?

OR HAVE YOU EVER CAUGHT MY MONIKER IN this
https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/olosho-beer-parlour-share-olosho



BETTER FIND ANOTHER MONIKER THAT PERFECTLY SHARE UR STUPID PERSONALITY.

Jeon:



YOU SAID YOU READ HERE WHILE I WITNESSED THEM LIVE.

Not only here. It is very rare. Men rarely have time for such drama.

Truvelisback:
From my perception, i think the men are likely to be more understanding and tolerant and may overlook some minor issues or errors unlike like women.

Women also overlook errors and minor issues. It's all about personality differences.

Most of the problems we see are from wives living with their mothers or mother-in-laws. That's not an idea marriage in the first place. Whoever is into that arrangement should stop disturbing our peace with mother in law issues. When two parents from different generations decide to live together permanently, there would be problems.

Try and live with your parent for 1 year if you're 30+ and come back to share your experience.

Truvelisback:
Not only here. It is very rare. Men rarely have time for such drama.

ok but I have witnessed

one pastor was a Muslim.. before marrying her husband..

her dad was against the marriage from day one and contributed nothing into her new family..

he is dead [left this earth in 2015 ] and made a request for to the Pastor not to step in his funeral ground. WHY BECAUSE OF HER HUSBAND.

SO SHOCKING NOWADAYS AS PERSON WILL JUST JUDGE CHARACTERS AND PERSONALITIES BASED ON GENDER.

Truvelisback:
Not only here. It is very rare. Men rarely have time for such drama.

https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.thebridgechronicle.com/pune/pune-man-beaten-father-law-who-went-bring-back-his-wife-home-54234&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwjcl9fr9Pv0AhVC_aQKHWixDskQFnoECAIQAg&usg=AOvVaw3YgjaXaaKE_pC8cJQoT-sA


humans can fight themselves at a particular time in any given area or situations.but some of the reasons why some held back
1 no gain
2 childish behavior
3 waste of time
4 weaknesses
6 some hate dramas
7 lost self respect.
8 trust is gone
9 depression

Acidosis:


Women also overlook errors and minor issues. It's all about personality differences.

Most of the problems we see are from wives living with their mothers or mother-in-laws. That's not an idea marriage in the first place. Whoever is into that arrangement should stop disturbing our peace with mother in law issues. When two parents from different generations decide to live together permanently, there would be problems.

Try and live with your parent for 1 year if you're 30+ and come back to share your experience.

I know a lady who was complaining to me that whenever her mother-in-law visits them or stay with them for awhile, she is always uncomfortable in the house because the woman is always harsh on her. Somehow, when her husband notices it, he would talk to his mother not to treat his wife that way. According to her, her father-in-law isn't that way. He is cool, friendly and understanding.

Jeon:


ok but I have witnessed

one pastor was a Muslim.. before marrying her husband..

her dad was against the marriage from day one and contributed nothing into her new family..

he is dead [left this earth in 2015 ] and made a request for to the Pastor not to step in his funeral ground. WHY BECAUSE OF HER HUSBAND.

That's why i said it's very rare.

Jeon:



U NEED SENSE IN UR ROTTEN DECOMPOSED BRAIN.

NOW TELL ME HOW THIS IS AN ASHEWO THREAD?

OR HAVE YOU EVER CAUGHT MY MONIKER IN this
https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/olosho-beer-parlour-share-olosho



BETTER FIND ANOTHER MONIKER THAT PERFECTLY SHARE UR STUPID PERSONALITY.

Smiles.......person go follow una play small, na so una go explode like tanker filled wit PMS wey fall for OTEDOLA bridge!!! Ordinary small joke wey i dey follow joke just now, u don drag me like ASO OFI dis early morning on CHRISMAZ EVE DAY!!!

RoyalRoy, Lalasticlala.

Truvelisback:
I might have seen but it is very rare.

Now you are saying the truth. There are some toxic father in-laws that drag home with the sons wife!

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joeking2222:

Smiles.......person go follow una play small, na so una go explode like tanker filled wit PMS wey fall for OTEDOLA bridge!!! Ordinary small joke wey i dey follow joke just now, u don drag me like ASO OFI dis early morning on CHRISMAZ EVE DAY!!!

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KNOW THE TYPE OF JOKE YOU MAKE ABOUT A PERSON, NOT EVERYONE APPROVED THAT DRY HUMOUR

Truvelisback:
That's why i said it's very rare.

it rare to you but it's not to me!!

we have warrior dad in-law as mom in-law.

Kdon2:


Now you are saying the truth. There are some toxic father in-laws that drag home with their sons wife!

In most cases, it's always the mother-in-law.

Acidosis:
Even the so called fight between mothers and daughter-in-laws is all in the head. I have never seen any in real life. What we have is the media blowing up rubbish and to-be wives entertaining pre-conceived prejudices and negative expectations about a marriage they haven't even entered.

The world is full of naturally difficult people, complex humans, easygoing, gentle, stubborn, etc. We have introverts, talkatives, extroverts, Gen Y, Gen Z, Gen X, etc. Mother-in-laws are not aliens, they belong these various categorizations. So an extroverted mother-in-law or a talkative may find it difficult coping with an introverted wife.

This is the reality everywhere, from church to the workplace. Let's stop blowing up rubbish.

Your points contradict themselves

Jeon:
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KNOW THE TYPE OF JOKE YOU MAKE ABOUT A PERSON, NOT EVERYONE APPROVED THAT DRY HUMOUR

Na hm u con gv me a quick SMACK DOWN? Ur simple CORRECTION wud av gone a long way!!!

Jeon:


En no concern me.. we no dy live for the same area..

like me I have experience boko haram war and you never experience.
like I don see dead body before while you never see.

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joeking2222:

Na hm u con gv me a quick SMACK DOWN? Ur simple CORRECTION wud av gone a long way!!!

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