Single guys and girls lets us have a good conversation on this, base on this current state can u get married?

The economy is not friendly and most ladies are more materialistic.

I am married but I support what the second contributor had to say.

I have not seen who is really interested, I'm not despirate or rushing. My own man will surely come. I'm not afraid. Seeking for a relationship is not to force or beg a man to love or give you attention

Because I have not seen the right one. We are still searching for each other

aanuoluwami14:
I have not seen who is really interested.

Really?
Post Your Pics', I wan check sumtin

Marriage is a long road.
I have not yet seen someone that will excite me that long.
I met one once,but she didn't appreciate me enough and judged my actions a lot.
Have a serious date now,and I am seriously considering settling with her.
We don't always get what we want after all.

not yet time thou

Marriage is not and will never be an achievement or yardstick to measure success.
That said, a guy has to be ready mentally and financially to get married in this present economy. Only reasonable women that can save and manage resources are deserving of wedding rings nowadays not the 'pa mi n ku' and 'alapa stainless' ones.

Being married and having kids is a privilege only a select few can enjoy in Nigeria. For the rest it's serious poverty and suffering that awaits

Am ready to get married.. am more financially stable, spiritually and physically stable but unfortunately I have not seen any girl yet... I pray this year will not pass me by

Jecci:
Because I have not seen the right one. We are still searching for each other

probably the reason you cant find him is because you have the failed state of mind...i mean, with the below statement, no wonder you cant find a man...

Jecci:
All these things you are doing to the poor innocent lady you think it's fair, later when I say that men are scum your fellow gender go dey foam for mouth.
Anyway men are Scum cheesy grin grin I dey my house comman beat me

Akwa ibom girls are just hard to find, i just pray I don’t marry out side my tribe...

Ok oga counselor I have heard you. I can't find a man because of my failed state of mind.

Oya nah tell me how to be in the right state of mind

MrBrownJay1:


probably the reason you cant find him is because you have the failed state of mind...i mean, with the below statement, no wonder you cant find a man...

Jecci:
Ok oga counselor I have heard you. I can't find a man because of my failed state of mind.
Oya nah tell me how to be in the right state of mind

by all means, let me help you:
A) change your state of mind because if you indeed believe that all men are scum, then you are already having the wrong mindset, to begin with.
B) dont judge people,stay positive and open your mind to any eventuality... your future husband could be the mechanic thats currently fixing your car.
C) as you are searching for the RIGHT ONE, be humble... because men can easily sense the fakeness; the ungratefulness, the "holier than thouness" etc

mrgbenga1:
The economy is not friendly and most ladies are more materialistic.

To worsen it, Many of these ladies are Idle and jobless without any plan to support their future husbands, making marriage a burden and stress for men.

Scarcity of ladies. They can't find me and I can't find them.

If them want to Mary this year, ,make we hook up..must be working ND tall....I don't wnt olosho Ibo or calabar...pm

Jecci:
Because I have not seen the right one. We are still searching for each other

Ditto

Bride price n marriage Money never complete

A jobless or underpaid man had no business discussing about marriage. That's my shortcoming

Spherical77:
A jobless or underpaid man had no business discussing about marriage. That's my shortcoming

Thats just the fact, but where is this money self because person done dey taya

Thanks for the advice

MrBrownJay1:


by all means, let me help you:
A) change your state of mind because if you indeed believe that all men are scum, then you are already having the wrong mindset, to begin with.
B) dont judge people,stay positive and open your mind to any eventuality... your future husband could be the mechanic thats currently fixing your car.
C) as you are searching for the RIGHT ONE, be humble... because men can easily sense the fakeness; the ungratefulness, the "holier than thouness" etc

Phoneworld:
Single guys and girls lets us have a good conversation on this, base on this current state can u get married?

I want to make money first

Situations & circumstances ,well my God will do it soonest.