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Why I Am Living In Fear In My Own Marriage by InspiredGene: 10:02pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Dear....., I probably deserve what I am getting but I am living in fear right in my home and I need some advice before things get out of hand. To be honest, I am the cause of my undoing. I came from very poor background. A very big family where no one cared if you lived or died. My mother had 9 children for my dad; my dad had 26 other children from other women. It was a survival of the fittest situation. I was abused several times. I did several odd and dangerous jobs to survive. I had to get out of the slum. I came to Lagos and met some bad people but I made up my mind to make it. I managed to finish my OND and had my salon where I do makeup and gele. That is how I met my husband. Even though, I had a boyfriend but he was not as rich so I knew I was not going to marry him. My husband is a retired military man. We met through his sister during her wedding where I made her make up and gele. He liked my handwork and said he would help me. Of course, no Lagos man helps a lady without asking for something in return. His wife and him had divorced due to infidelity’s he said. That despite all he gave her, she cheated on him with his friends. He said he will never tolerate infidelity. His children were all grown up. When he asked me to marry him, I was skeptical cos I was not sure because s3x with him was a torture. He could not last barely 2 minutes. But he provided the much needed financial security that I needed to end poverty in my lineage. So, I married him and gave him alot of herbs to boost his libido but they didn’t work. We then went to have twins through https://livelystones.ng/2022/01/17/true-life-story-why-i-am-living-in-fear-in-my-own-marriage/
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Re: Why I Am Living In Fear In My Own Marriage by EmptyGarden(m): 10:13pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Una dey try for stories o. Keep going, na so JK Rowlings start. 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Am Living In Fear In My Own Marriage by doggedfighter(f): 10:17pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
You copied the' dear' too |
Re: Why I Am Living In Fear In My Own Marriage by Goldbw122(m): 11:53pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Why did you copy now oya post all the story here am using free basic |
Re: Why I Am Living In Fear In My Own Marriage by GboyegaD(m): 5:37am On Jan 19, 2022 |
Abeg, put the entire story for here. |
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