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Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Imustreturn(m): 2:08pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
So this persons marriage just went sour, and the man is requesting for the bride price refund. They have 3 kids. She's asking that if they refund the bride price, who should have the kids? She's Reading in comment section. |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Ahmed0336(m): 2:11pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Let the wife have them. He should take his children responsibilities like feeding, school, shelter and health. They can visit him during holidays. How hard can this be? 3 Likes |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Ybaby: 2:16pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Ahmed0336: Simple logic!! |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by JONNYSPUTE(m): 2:20pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
.... Very simple. Joint custody will be an ideal thing to do.so that no one feels cheated. And also for the children to feel the impact of both parents. |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by faithfull18(f): 3:09pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Nairalanders and understanding are far apart. The question is if the man collects the bride price he paid back, do the children still belong to him 3 Likes |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Nisiw365: 3:19pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
faithfull18:You are the one who doesnt understand. The question is who would be in the custody of the kids 1 Like |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Kobojunkie: 3:22pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
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Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by socialmediaman: 3:28pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
faithfull18: The bride price was for the woman not the kids. She didn’t come into the marriage with the kids, did she? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Kobojunkie: 3:30pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
socialmediaman:The kids are a product of the marriage, they came as a result of the man paying the bride price for the woman, didn't they? 1 Like |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by babyfaceafrica: 3:33pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Which kain topic be this? |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by socialmediaman: 3:38pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Sigh. Boyfriends and girlfriends also have kids without bride price. Bride price repayment means she’s no longer his wife, has nothing to do with kids 3 Likes |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by faithfull18(f): 3:53pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Nisiw365:I doubt that's the question as it's common sense to let the kids stay with their mother while the father offers support in every way needed unless the woman is mentally unstable and has other things that makes her unfit. The OP should know this I believe, so why would he come on here to ask again |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Kobojunkie: 3:55pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
socialmediaman:Sure single folks can and do have kids, but the bride price was paid in particular so the kids could be of the marriage - the children who result from that contract are of that marriage. . |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by faithfull18(f): 3:56pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
socialmediaman:From what I heard, according to the Igbo culture, if you get a lady pregnant without paying her bride price, the child(ren) she bears belongs to her father right. Now, the man wants to collect the bride price, I think this is where the OP's question is coming from. |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Nisiw365: 4:03pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
faithfull18:In some cases, one or two children stays with the father depending on responsbility of parents |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Saintmary(f): 4:09pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
faithfull18: I see some commenters shifting goal post. If repaying bride price means the lady is no longer married. i.e. marriage annulled, then the kids belong to the lady's family. Back to square one. |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:13pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
faithfull18:....Wrong. Collecting of pride price is just to enable the woman remarry again if she so wishes. Without the man collecting his bride price,the woman is still his wife and cannot remarry |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:15pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Saintmary:.....Smh. It's just for her to be able to remarry. It doesn't concern the kids. The children still belongs to both. 2 Likes |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Saintmary(f): 4:26pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: Of course all kids belong to God and both parents. People should stop using kids as weapon in their wars. But I still maintain that if the man returns the bride price, he should just face front. |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by socialmediaman: 4:37pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
faithfull18: The court will have to make that determination if it goes to them, but traditionally, married or unmarried, the children default to the man, who is ideally the welfare provider. The bride price repayment is just a fulfillment of the divorce process so that the woman can go ahead and live her own separate life or remarry 1 Like |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:53pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Saintmary:... That's what you want but it's not what's obtainable. |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Saintmary(f): 5:02pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE: You're funny. I don't have a say in this matter. |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
See the way we're commenting as if the kids are properties that one can just have .. Well.. The kids are a product of their union and thus both parties must take responsibility for them even if they're no more a part of that Union... Thus, they should both have shared custody to those kids... |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by greenie77: 8:31pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
The refund of the bride price, signifies the end of the marriage and the woman is free to re-marry if she chooses to but it does not in anyway dissolve the parental rights and obligations of both parents towards their children. 1 Like |
Re: Ex Wife Asking Who Should Have The Kids After Divorce by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
If she won carry the kids, she should go ahead. nah she go suffer am provided she wouldn't disturb me for school fees or feeding money. Bride price indeed. |
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