Hello everyone, I am looking for mature and critical opinions on an important matter.

My friend, Toon (pseudonym) and his fiancée, Mifi (pseudonym) had a major argument yesterday. They have been in a relationship for a while now and are very much in love with each other. Suddenly, few days ago, Mifi started acting cold towards Toon, barely picking his calls, replying with one line messages and all. Toon asked her multiple times what he did wrong but she told him nothing. Fast forward to yesterday, Toon realized Mifi had deleted his number from her phone and he became even more worried so he called Mifi’s mum and told her he realized Mifi’s mood hasn’t been good lately and she’s been acting cold, and he would like for the mom to help him figure out what’s wrong and give him feedback.

The mom promised to do so but unfortunately she called Mifi and lashed her for being cold towards her fiancé. She also called Mifi siblings to tell them about the matter. The mom said really hurtful words to Mifi and now Mifi feels she doesn’t deserve all that and now says Toon is the cause of the issue and she’ll find it very hard to forgive and forget. Mind you, Mifi had told Toon earlier that her mom (Mifi’s mom) is the kind of person who tells the whole world everything and that now she would tell everyone this issue. Toon says he never expected that the mom would talk about this kind of issue to anybody else and that he simply felt it would be a mother-daughter conversation and end there. He has been apologizing saying it was never his intention and if he knew the mom would act that way, he wouldn’t have told her.

Now the issue here is, Mifi is still very unhappy about the whole thing and Toon is still apologizing and trying to make her see that it was never his intentions to hurt her. The question is, is Toon at fault? Should Mifi forgive and move on? How can both of them chart a way forward?

Mifi broadband hotspot signal is very weak.check also for externa router and if there is anyone sharing it with him.

The lady is the one at fault not the guy. Looks like the guy had a good relationship with the girls family, that's why he could easily reach out to her mother when they had issues. Why did the girl delete his number and began acting badly towards him? Why should she refuse to tell him where he went wrong? what did he do wrong? He might have offended her or she heard something about him. She is childish and has refused to speak up. If he gives her time, yet she refuses to speak and sort things out, then he better quit the relationship.

Hellopeopleyes:
Hello everyone, I am looking for mature and critical opinions on an important matter.

My friend, Toon (pseudonym) and his fiancée, Mifi (pseudonym) had a major argument yesterday. They have been in a relationship for a while now and are very much in love with each other. Suddenly, few days ago, Mifi started acting cold towards Toon, barely picking his calls, replying with one line messages and all. Toon asked her multiple times what he did wrong but she told him nothing. Fast forward to yesterday, Toon realized Mifi had deleted his number from her phone and he became even more worried so he called Mifi’s mum and told her he realized Mifi’s mood hasn’t been good lately and she’s been acting cold, and he would like for the mom to help him figure out what’s wrong and give him feedback.

The mom promised to do so but unfortunately she called Mifi and lashed her for being cold towards her fiancé. She also called Mifi siblings to tell them about the matter. The mom said really hurtful words to Mifi and now Mifi feels she doesn’t deserve all that and now says Toon is the cause of the issue and she’ll find it very hard to forgive and forget. Mind you, Mifi had told Toon earlier that her mom (Mifi’s mom) is the kind of person who tells the whole world everything and that now she would tell everyone this issue. Toon says he never expected that the mom would talk about this kind of issue to anybody else and that he simply felt it would be a mother-daughter conversation and end there. He has been apologizing saying it was never his intention and if he knew the mom would act that way, he wouldn’t have told her.

Now the issue here is, Mifi is still very unhappy about the whole thing and Toon is still apologizing and trying to make her see that it was never his intentions to hurt her. The question is, is Toon at fault? Should Mifi forgive and move on? How can both of them chart a way forward?

For Mifi to have deleted Toon's contact... There is a big problem. Toon should start getting ready for breakfast.

Brace up for impact Toon!!!

Toon should not let her blackmail him emotionally. The lady will try to avoid explaining why she had been moody but instead, she'd capitalize on her fiance telling her mom about the issue.

She knew her mom was probably the next point of call for the guy as regards to their relationship. She knew her mom's character but instead, she went ahead to play a goddess-like shit. She was even alleged to have deleted the guy's contact, which would have triggered the dude to inform her mom about the situation.

Toon should let her be and never beg her! I hate when ladies act foolishly! If she can't forgive him, then she should fvck off! She's the type that would have malice with you for long and expect you to be cool with it. What fvckery?

LilMissFavvy:
The lady is the one at fault not the guy. Looks like the guy had a good relationship with the girls family, that's why he could easily reach out to her mother when they had issues. Why did the girl delete his number and began acting badly towards him? Why should she refuse to tell him where he went wrong? what did he do wrong? He might have offended her or she heard something about him. She is childish and has refused to speak up. If he gives her time, yet she refuses to speak and sort things out, then he better quit the relationship.

The dude has really messed up by begging her! That's exactly what she wanted and the dude foolishly gave it to her! I wonder what that dude will face in marriage.